Tell you friend, by all means.
If TS has a gf/bf, you do the same back to your friends lah.
Anyway, friends are just friends lah.
They come and go. Dont cling on them for life.
well that's his/her choice... U gotta respect ur friend's choice...
U cant expect him/her to be sticking with u all the times eh? I'm sure they also dun need ur approval to choose their partner...
you're just at tat age where ppl will split up... some will stay, some will go...
friends come and go la.....it's a fact of life. You will find new pals for sure.
this problem i gt see before. best is "snacthed" your friend back
that's childish.
Hi, OT, is your friend the same gender as you?
If yes, you are probably a gay/lesbian, homosexual!
Don't be shocked! Do read some tips on how to come out of the closet. Be sure to know there is nothing wrong being a homosexual, but to come to terms with it.
Admitting is the first step, be brave and come out of the closet!
okay let me guess. you area a guy. your friend's a gal. your friend;s friend is a guy.
i see if its so.....
okay let me guess. you area a guy. your friend's a guy. your friend;s friend is a gal.
i see if its so.....
okay let me guess. you area a gal. your friend's a gal. your friend;s friend is a gal.
i see if its so.....
okay let me guess. you area a gal. your friend's a guy. your friend;s friend is a guy.
i see if its so.....
..... so many possibliltiy on the gender. i need to get the gender right first before i cmment
Friends are a burden which make your busy life even more busy.The key is moderation.Moderation can help you save money but overdoing it will clutter your life.
Friends come and part for a reason, but based on experience, they will come back to you again. Maybe in a few years later or by coincidence later. By then both will be more matured and settled.
Take it that this friend only meant to appear in one of the many episodes in your life.
In future, if you run into her it is up to you if you still want the friendship. You take control and have a say.
Originally posted by themoment86:What do you think if your friend, someone who went through tough times together..one day tell you that no matter what happens, they will choose their partner and leave you..and worst..their partner is those f**k up kind that has got a serious attitude problem..one of which is forbidding your friend to go out with anyone else unless giving permission..and yes..permission..but it was never approve kind..
your friend tells you that..will u feel angry?��气? i need some really good sound advice..
By "partner", I assume it's someone he will be spending the rest of his life with. In that case, regardless of how fucked up she is, you can't expect him to dump her for a friend, right? Would you abandon a house for a caravan?
this kind of thing is unspoken and understood one ma... i think your fren is too honest with you... =p
Originally posted by themoment86:What do you think if your friend, someone who went through tough times together..one day tell you that no matter what happens, they will choose their partner and leave you..and worst..their partner is those f**k up kind that has got a serious attitude problem..one of which is forbidding your friend to go out with anyone else unless giving permission..and yes..permission..but it was never approve kind..
your friend tells you that..will u feel angry?��气? i need some really good sound advice..
One question you need to ask yourself, "DO YOU NEED THAT FRIEND?"
It would appears that your friend don't seems to need you in this friendship, so "HOW MUCH DO YOU NEED THAT FRIEND?"
My Golden Rule in friendship is "I WILL TREAT EVERY FRIENDS LIKE MY BEST FRIEND", and you may use the same princples in friendship as mine,
And if my friendship is being abused or miused or exploited or ignored, then I'll know that the problem doesn't lies with me and I will convienently strike them off my friends list as and when I have decided that they are unworthy to be my friend.
My answer to the question that I have asked you is "I DO NOT NEED ANYTHING FROM MY FRIENDS."
Originally posted by troublemaker2005:okay let me guess. you area a guy. your friend's a gal. your friend;s friend is a guy.
i see if its so.....
okay let me guess. you area a guy. your friend's a guy. your friend;s friend is a gal.
i see if its so.....
okay let me guess. you area a gal. your friend's a gal. your friend;s friend is a gal.
i see if its so.....
okay let me guess. you area a gal. your friend's a guy. your friend;s friend is a guy.
i see if its so.....
..... so many possibliltiy on the gender. i need to get the gender right first before i cmment
i think he/she is a ladyboy, his/her fren also a ladyboy and his/her ladyboy fren's fren is also a ladyboy...anyway, it just frens.
My advice is simple, nothing last forever, not even your parents, siblings, teachers, etc etc, not to mention frens
Originally posted by themoment86:What do you think if your friend, someone who went through tough times together..one day tell you that no matter what happens, they will choose their partner and leave you..and worst..their partner is those f**k up kind that has got a serious attitude problem..one of which is forbidding your friend to go out with anyone else unless giving permission..and yes..permission..but it was never approve kind..
your friend tells you that..will u feel angry?��气? i need some really good sound advice..
very simple.............borrow as much money and expensive items from this friend as you can and refuse to return them.............
your friend will now be looking for you all the time liao mah..............
NO NEED TO THANK ME...........I ALWAYS LIKE TO HELP OTHERS WITH MY PEERLESS ADVICE !
Time for you to look for new friends.
I don't think there's anything to be angry about.
A spouse can give many things that a friend cannot. So why should she stay with you?
Of course, if you're kind hearted enough, you'll stick around. Because if your friend's BF is as bad as you say, then I think she'll be needing some help and support soon.
So it's up to you.
i will give that fren one punch on the face
and tell him wake up man
Originally posted by themoment86:it is a very very close friend…can u guys really take it as nth happen?and act indifferent?if it’s very normal fren maybe i dun mind..fren’s partner is really bad…just like the david in wu hua guo..always guessing bla bla..lagi worst then him…
I don't know what you are trying to do to console yourself.
But regardless of close friend or normal friend, the basic rules of friendship should still applies to it.
Why does it have to be your problem if your friend do not know how to be a friend to you?
Don't you have better things to do with your life?
Be a good friend to all your friends and even if something bad were to happen, at least you can LEAVE this friendship to rot at your own discretion.
Worry more for yourself and make sure you do all the right things to people, then you have nothing to worry about and fault-less if one day you need to cut them down when they turned against you.
Originally posted by themoment86:What do you think if your friend, someone who went through tough times together..one day tell you that no matter what happens, they will choose their partner and leave you..and worst..their partner is those f**k up kind that has got a serious attitude problem..one of which is forbidding your friend to go out with anyone else unless giving permission..and yes..permission..but it was never approve kind..
your friend tells you that..will u feel angry?��气? i need some really good sound advice..
In future if you friend call u or look for you, just tell him: Sorry I am not free now, I have bf. Bye bye.
like some ppl said here, friends come and go seriously... it is time for you to let go... even if yr friend's partner is not good, so what? ultimately it is yr friend's decision, not yours... if you have ten friends and just nice their partners are all jerks in some ways, are you going to scold them and ask them to leave and find someone better?
i sort of agree with parn that worry for yrself more... not to say becos this world is becoming more self-centered but take care of yrself first before u can take care of others...
see we make friend swith ourn enighboror durin tsunami offe rthem jhep. now forest burn where our friends? bochap.