Is there platonic relationship?
I know this female friend since i was in secondary school, not in the same class, just happened to know each other. Wasn't very close at first, but got into the same polytechnic, same faculty.
we began to get closer, and once i even wooed her, but was rejected.
Of course, we were such good friends, that we remained friends. and in between i had a girlfriend for a couple years, in between neglecting her.
After breaking up, got into contact again and became even closer then ever. Talked about everything and anything under the sun.
Hang out together frequently. talking nonsense. etc etc.
Then i started feeling something different, i know whats different.
In order not to spoil the friendship, i stayed the way i was.
I dont know but i cant help but read some actions in a weird manner. Like while we watched horror movies with 2 other friends, she was scared and grab my arm, instead of her good female friend.
Like how she would get a little pissed off subtly when i didnt call for small chats after an extended period of time.
Things like that.
I dont know, but i am so confused.
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confuse wad? means u only wanna be friends? and not a sexual relationship?
i do wan to bring it to the nxt level but i dont wanna risk the relationship..
but she wants ma?
im not sure, i am always looking for tell tale signs but i cant. i also know if i do something stupid it wont be the same anymore
you said she ''grabbed your arm'' instead of her fren's and she would get ''a little pissed off'' if you didnt call her... obviously she also like you luhh... so simple, ask her straight in the face whether she likes you anot if you are still confuse :) or go 1 big round and ask her.
if she really regards you as a buddy, she wouldn't grab your arm. Quite obvious now.
Is it really the case? She shows you special attention by grabbing your arm or throw small little hints about why haven't you been calling her, does this account to her liking you even if it means a bit? I'm sorry guys but i'm kinda in the same plight as this person, in fact almost the same but only ..I don't like that girl now. Can these actions truely account to that person liking you? =\
I think just a normal relationship, nothing else.
Only TS delevlop a special feeling towards her.
As TS want this relationship forever, I think it is better to let her know if not TS life will be chialet.
Tell you from your heart.
If dare not, send her mail or sms.
But TS must not be too pushy.
Remember that, ladies dont want guy to be pushy for answer.
she just want to be woo....
Originally posted by likeyou:I think just a normal relationship, nothing else.
Only TS delevlop a special feeling towards her.
As TS want this relationship forever, I think it is better to let her know if not TS life will be chialet.
Tell you from your heart.
If dare not, send her mail or sms.
But TS must not be too pushy.
Remember that, ladies dont want guy to be pushy for answer.
Not really, this show that you do not understand ladies, some of us, like me, like to be pushed.
Are you gay or what? No girl wants to waste or invest her time in you unless she is interested or you are gay person that she can trust to hang out with.
So what you waiting for? Go after her. If fail, you are going to lose her anyway, you mind as well try, you got nothing to lose. Why value your friendship? Friendship never lasts, once she gets married, she will not waste her time with you.
U must really no whtr she likes u in the first place bef u confess to her...orelse whole relationshio ruin.
simple,
just ask her, "Do you look me"
if she replied "What are yout talking about, me love you??"
then you change the subject quickly "No, i mean do you love to eat meepok or mee kia"
But if she replied, "Yes, I do"
then dun forget to invite me for your wedding hor, i can supply bridemaids for you, $50/hr