Well, try not to think so much. The more you think the more confuse you will get. Like you said it's only what you thought it might not be true. How you know that you are not as good as her. Everyone has their strong point. She may be better than you in some way but you will have strong point too. If he really still can't forget about his ex-gf, the more you have to treasure him because this show that he is a very good guy. Different people take varies time to forget their previous relationship. If what you say is true, give him some time. If that's his first gf you have to forgive him. Because i think everyone's FIRST LOVE is the sweetestOriginally posted by Sunshine08:I always have a thought that my bf still love his ex more than me. Because his ex was his most love before he met me. He could'nt get over the relationship until one year later when he knows me. I can't help it but thinks that i am not as gd as her. Whenever he hears sad songs about bgr, i will think that hes thinking of her..
can someone tell me what to do?
mi think u think too much liao....Originally posted by Sunshine08:I always have a thought that my bf still love his ex more than me. Because his ex was his most love before he met me. He could'nt get over the relationship until one year later when he knows me. I can't help it but thinks that i am not as gd as her. Whenever he hears sad songs about bgr, i will think that hes thinking of her..
can someone tell me what to do?

Originally posted by vksg:I agree here...
Well, try not to think so much. The more you think the more confuse you will get. Like you said it's only what you thought it might not be true. How you know that you are not as good as her. Everyone has their strong point. She may be better than you in some way but you will have strong point too. If he really still can't forget about his ex-gf, the more you have to treasure him because this show that he is a very good guy. Different people take varies time to forget their previous relationship. If what you say is true, give him some time. If that's his first gf you have to forgive him. Because i think everyone's FIRST LOVE is the sweetestEven for me if happen that i can still get back together with my first gf(provided not attach), i will treasure her. After saying so much, my conclusion is to treasure your bf because he is a good guy from the way you describe and don't think so much because your thinking might not be true. Jumping to wrong conclusion and thoughts might lead to some unessary quarrel. Last but not least, treasure what you have. You have found yourself a gem.
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There is only one thing to do and you should do: FInd some good time and communicate with him.Originally posted by Sunshine08:I always have a thought that my bf still love his ex more than me. Because his ex was his most love before he met me. He could'nt get over the relationship until one year later when he knows me. I can't help it but thinks that i am not as gd as her. Whenever he hears sad songs about bgr, i will think that hes thinking of her..
can someone tell me what to do?
Hi Sunshine08,Originally posted by Sunshine08:I always have a thought that my bf still love his ex more than me. Because his ex was his most love before he met me. He could'nt get over the relationship until one year later when he knows me. I can't help it but thinks that i am not as gd as her. Whenever he hears sad songs about bgr, i will think that hes thinking of her..
can someone tell me what to do?
First Love is something that everybody wouldn't 4get.Originally posted by Sunshine08:I always have a thought that my bf still love his ex more than me. Because his ex was his most love before he met me. He could'nt get over the relationship until one year later when he knows me. I can't help it but thinks that i am not as gd as her. Whenever he hears sad songs about bgr, i will think that hes thinking of her..
can someone tell me what to do?
you think too much. He may not be thinking about her anymore. And he may not be comparing you with her. So, don't think that, unless he admits it himself (which means you have to talk to him about your uncomfortable feelings about this). He needs to know what is on your mind too.Originally posted by Sunshine08:I always have a thought that my bf still love his ex more than me. Because his ex was his most love before he met me. He could'nt get over the relationship until one year later when he knows me. I can't help it but thinks that i am not as gd as her. Whenever he hears sad songs about bgr, i will think that hes thinking of her..
can someone tell me what to do?