Im Gay. How to break up with my gf?

• rouko

  27 Nov 10, 20:29

  I am with her for 3 years already and she thinks we will get married. But after this relationship with her I found out that I'm gay and I'm very sure now. She is a stunning beauty but I can't seem to get on bed with her each time she suggests we do it I tried but I have little feeling compared to when I fantasize about guys. I still love my gf but I feel it's not fair to lead her on since I am sure of my sexual orientation now. How should I tell her this?
• Pitot

  27 Nov 10, 20:38

  

• kilfer

  27 Nov 10, 20:44

  

• Call4ljw

  27 Nov 10, 21:14

  Originally posted by rouko:

  I am with her for 3 years already and she thinks we will get married. But after this relationship with her I found out that I’m gay and I’m very sure now. She is a stunning beauty but I can’t seem to get on bed with her each time she suggests we do it I tried but I have little feeling compared to when I fantasize about guys. I still love my gf but I feel it’s not fair to lead her on since I am sure of my sexual orientation now. How should I tell her this?

  Sure or not?

  Are you a "Ku niang"?

  if not i believe you're just confused.

  Dont go the wrong way, if not you cant turn back.

• I-like-flings(m)

  27 Nov 10, 21:14

  pass her to mi lor.. so easy

• Bus&Soccer l0v3r (VO3x 1)

  27 Nov 10, 21:15

  It so complicated

• Call4ljw

  27 Nov 10, 21:24

  Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):

  pass her to mi lor.. so easy

  He will pass himself to you instead lol. JK!JK!

• rouko

  27 Nov 10, 21:30

  I'm not sissy but very metrosexual. Some says I look Korean but I have viet blood in me and half chinese. I always make it a point to trim it eyebrows and make sure my hair is in place before going out and often I go for facials and sensual massages. My hair is long for a guy and it's silky straight and nice colour. My gf thinks I care too much about my appearance but she's like that too. I recently seen a counciler to discuss about my sexual orientation this is how I knew I am gay.
• Call4ljw

  27 Nov 10, 21:53

  Originally posted by rouko:

  I’m not sissy but very metrosexual. Some says I look Korean but I have viet blood in me and half chinese. I always make it a point to trim it eyebrows and make sure my hair is in place before going out and often I go for facials and sensual massages. My hair is long for a guy and it’s silky straight and nice colour. My gf thinks I care too much about my appearance but she’s like that too. I recently seen a counciler to discuss about my sexual orientation this is how I knew I am gay.

  Its natural for someone to care about appearance. You are probably just overdoing it.

  Now is a modern society, guys with long hair is not strange now.

• ditzy

  27 Nov 10, 21:59

  Just tell her you like dicks more than you like pussies. She'll get it. 3 years already, I'm sure she seen the aqua side of you.

• troublemaker2005

  27 Nov 10, 22:06

  hey i am straight so i can do you the problem solving by taking over. she deserves someone better than a person who cannot please her in bed. as fot your gay problem i cannot help sorry thnx buy.

  pm me her personal particulars and a short description of her and her characters, her past in no less than ten  thousand words for proper handing over.

• Askingyouto

  27 Nov 10, 22:29

  If she's a kiss and tell kinda girl maybe you would have to be more selective about your choices of words . If she's not, then maybe telling her the truth would be more accountable as she has also spent three years of her life on this relationship and she deserve at least a proper explanation. Men normally judge women based on their looks, she has "depreciated" three years already waiting for you.

• Descendentlizard

  27 Nov 10, 23:06

  Have you serve finish your NS?

• Yunhaier

  27 Nov 10, 23:30

  Originally posted by rouko:

  I am with her for 3 years already and she thinks we will get married. But after this relationship with her I found out that I’m gay and I’m very sure now. She is a stunning beauty but I can’t seem to get on bed with her each time she suggests we do it I tried but I have little feeling compared to when I fantasize about guys. I still love my gf but I feel it’s not fair to lead her on since I am sure of my sexual orientation now. How should I tell her this?

  Certainly, it must have been a shocking to any partner on the receiving end for such devastating news. For a gay person to engage in a heterosexual relationship is actually quite common as the revelation will sink in after they realized that they are not sexually attracted to their partner, which will spark a reflective, introspection journey that end up with your kind of conclusion.

  I think your relationship with her will eventually deplete its meaning because this new found knowledge about yourself will make this equation an error, serving nobody's needs.

  Telling her honestly will likely to be met with denial and bitterness. You must anticipate that pain is inevitable - it depends on how swift the cut you want to deliver, instead of dragging this doom relationship further into some illusion of grandeur.

  Cheers

• Rooney9

  27 Nov 10, 23:33

  I think your past life is a woman if you believe in rebirth. this life born as a man, you got your sexual orientation all wrong dude. you should forget your past life as a woman and be a man in this life.

• troublemaker2005

  28 Nov 10, 03:24

  Originally posted by Rooney9:

  I think your past life is a woman if you believe in rebirth. this life born as a man, you got your sexual orientation all wrong dude. you should forget your past life as a woman and be a man in this life.

  
  sometimes that old granny never do her job properly, foegting to offer soup, wrong dosage, or bridge under maintenance so her clients never cross use london bridge instead.

  for gay you have to check to see if this one is like to poke or like to be poked.

  but i smell a rat. unsually gay develop a girl-girl relationship with the opposite sex 1. and it will be very easy for girl to detect a gay when they progress.

   

  take me and angie, as we went along she know i straight also a cheekopeh 1.

• likeyou

  28 Nov 10, 06:34

  Originally posted by rouko:

  I’m not sissy but very metrosexual. Some says I look Korean but I have viet blood in me and half chinese. I always make it a point to trim it eyebrows and make sure my hair is in place before going out and often I go for facials and sensual massages. My hair is long for a guy and it’s silky straight and nice colour. My gf thinks I care too much about my appearance but she’s like that too. I recently seen a counciler to discuss about my sexual orientation this is how I knew I am gay.

  Ask youself this, do you really want to become a gay or want to be a normal man with wife and kids.

   

  Ask yourseld this, how will your family feel if they know you are a gay?

   

  There is a thread, also like yours. Parents found out son is a gay.

   

• Askingyouto

  28 Nov 10, 12:59

  In this land, it is going to be tough being gay, if possible leave this country and explore other places where there will be a higher level of acceptance. I wish you all the best in your future ahead.

• parn

  28 Nov 10, 21:36

  Originally posted by rouko:

  I am with her for 3 years already and she thinks we will get married. But after this relationship with her I found out that I’m gay and I’m very sure now. She is a stunning beauty but I can’t seem to get on bed with her each time she suggests we do it I tried but I have little feeling compared to when I fantasize about guys. I still love my gf but I feel it’s not fair to lead her on since I am sure of my sexual orientation now. How should I tell her this?

  
  There are many ways you can break up with your gf personally and intimately, like....

  1) Fuck her asshole

  2) Ask her to finger fuck your asshole

  3) Eat your own sperm

  4) Suck your own cock

  5) Eat your own shit

   

  Pick one, talk is useless because we won't listen.

• Asromanista2001

  29 Nov 10, 12:29

  aiyah.........this thread is total horsecrap lah..............only goons will think it's for real..........

• CaRoOo ~

  2 Dec 10, 18:31

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  There are many ways you can break up with your gf personally and intimately, like....

  1) Fuck her asshole

  2) Ask her to finger fuck your asshole

  3) Eat your own sperm

  4) Suck your own cock

  5) Eat your own shit

   

  Pick one, talk is useless because we won't listen.

  LOOL -__- That will make him land up with free food and clothings. 

• angel7030

  2 Dec 10, 18:51

  Originally posted by troublemaker2005:

  
  sometimes that old granny never do her job properly, foegting to offer soup, wrong dosage, or bridge under maintenance so her clients never cross use london bridge instead.

  for gay you have to check to see if this one is like to poke or like to be poked.

  but i smell a rat. unsually gay develop a girl-girl relationship with the opposite sex 1. and it will be very easy for girl to detect a gay when they progress.

   

  take me and angie, as we went along she know i straight also a cheekopeh 1.

  i beg yr pardon, so far i never see a guy with a straight one, it either go left abit or right abit, up abit or down all the way...my cleaner aunty alway told me that guy toilet is the most dirtiest, all cannot aim properly, some can't even reach the urinal bowl.

• angel7030

  2 Dec 10, 18:53

  Originally posted by rouko:

  I’m not sissy but very metrosexual. Some says I look Korean but I have viet blood in me and half chinese. I always make it a point to trim it eyebrows and make sure my hair is in place before going out and often I go for facials and sensual massages. My hair is long for a guy and it’s silky straight and nice colour. My gf thinks I care too much about my appearance but she’s like that too. I recently seen a counciler to discuss about my sexual orientation this is how I knew I am gay.

  
  oh, did the councilor told you which type of gays you belong to...there many types of gay you know..

• gunner77

  3 Dec 10, 22:29

  Ask her to penetrate your asshole.

• ChoCoChips

  4 Dec 10, 00:15

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  Ask her to penetrate your asshole.

  
  u interested in ts ah? :lol: