Open Marriage

• Theforumlady

  5 Dec 10, 17:31

  Open Marriage - Will that help to lower divorce rate?
• parn

  6 Dec 10, 00:08

  Can you test it out and tell us the results please?

   

  Thanks in advance.

• TIB 781 L

  6 Dec 10, 00:12

  'Open' as in inter-racial or what?

• Fcukpap

  6 Dec 10, 01:11

  it creates a much worst scenario such as who is the lao peh lao bu....

   

• Fcukpap

  6 Dec 10, 01:12

  our society has already too many problems...pls dun add another dimension

• parn

  6 Dec 10, 10:17

  Open as in FREE TO FUCK AROUND WITH OTHERS in crude explaination.

• elindra

  6 Dec 10, 18:22

  Originally posted by Theforumlady:

  Open Marriage – Will that help to lower divorce rate?

  
  Might as well not get married and remain single

  Seriously

• likeyou

  6 Dec 10, 18:24

  Originally posted by Theforumlady:

  Open Marriage – Will that help to lower divorce rate?

  
  What is open marriage?

  You mean different races and different religions married?

  If that is the meaning, then sorry it wont lower any divorce rate at all.

  If can, spore already booming with mixed babies.

• elindra

  6 Dec 10, 18:28

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  
  What is open marriage?

  You mean different races and different religions married?

  If that is the meaning, then sorry it wont lower any divorce rate at all.

  If can, spore already booming with mixed babies.

  
  Open Marriage means that you are married to each other but at the same time allow each other to fuck around outside

• Theforumlady

  6 Dec 10, 18:32

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  
  What is open marriage?

  You mean different races and different religions married?

  If that is the meaning, then sorry it wont lower any divorce rate at all.

  If can, spore already booming with mixed babies.

  This is the defination of open marriage, from Wikepedia -

  Open marriage typically refers to a marriage in which the partners agree that each may engage in extramarital sexual relationships, without this being regarded as infidelity. There are many different styles of open marriage, with the partners having varying levels of input on their spouse's activities.

• likeyou

  6 Dec 10, 18:33

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
  Open Marriage means that you are married to each other but at the same time allow each other to fuck around outside

  
  Oh...that is not call open married.

  

• ditzy

  6 Dec 10, 18:34

  Sounds like a plan.

• elindra

  6 Dec 10, 18:35

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  
  Oh...that is not call open married.

  

  
  If you allow each other to fcuk around outside, it's not called cheating la

• Theforumlady

  6 Dec 10, 18:38

  I know of a guy who does not mind his wife being with another man as he felt the marriage was long over. They stayed on the marriage for the sake of their kid. I just find that difficult to accept. Even if I do not love my husband, I would find it tough to see him with another woman. Three is really a big big crowd..

• likeyou

  6 Dec 10, 18:41

  Originally posted by Theforumlady:

  I know of a guy who does not mind his wife being with another man as he felt the marriage was long over. They stayed on the marriage for the sake of their kid. I just find that difficult to accept. Even if I do not love my husband, I would find it tough to see him with another woman. Three is really a big big crowd..

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  Many couples are in this stages.

  Either due to $$$ or due to sharing of burden.

  Like I said in other thread, if both never share the burden of responsibilty in terms of $$ and chores, the marriage will not last.

• elindra

  6 Dec 10, 18:42

  There will always be people who can accept it and people who can’t

  I have a friend in a similar situation

  Both her husband and her are literally in an open marriage because their relationship is over but are still together for the kids

  Her Face book status reads ‘Single’ though she is still married.

   

  However, this is due to a breakdown in marriage but I think if you get married with the thoughts of an open marriage, you might as well remain single and swinging -_-“

• Theforumlady

  6 Dec 10, 18:45

  According to Wikipedia, open marriage means there is approval between spouses to have sexual relationships with people outside their union.As such, it is no longer considered cheating  when affairs occur to them. Weird ..

• likeyou

  6 Dec 10, 18:48

  Originally posted by Theforumlady:

  According to Wikipedia, open marriage means there is approval between spouses to have sexual relationships with people outside their union.As such, it is no longer considered cheating  when affairs occur to them. Weird ..

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  Shouldnt a married couply be faithful to each other? Rather than furking here and there? How about AIDS issue?

  Imagine one day, your wife came back home telling you I am pregnant with your colleague baby. How you react? Ok lah, just give birth and send the baby for adoption?

   

• Theforumlady

  6 Dec 10, 18:50

  Originally posted by elindra:

  There will always be people who can accept it and people who can’t

  I have a friend in a similar situation

  Both her husband and her are literally in an open marriage because their relationship is over but are still together for the kids

  Her Face book status reads ‘Single’ though she is still married.

   

  However, this is due to a breakdown in marriage but I think if you get married with the thoughts of an open marriage, you might as well remain single and swinging -_-“

  Yeah I have a couple of friends doing that. No choice...cannot divorce due to kids and sharing of home properties.But I really wonder how they can get used to such a complex life. My friend also calls herself a 'single mom' in a Singapore match-making site..hahaha..:-D

   

• Theforumlady

  6 Dec 10, 18:54

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  Shouldnt a married couply be faithful to each other? Rather than furking here and there? How about AIDS issue?

  Imagine one day, your wife came back home telling you I am pregnant with your colleague baby. How you react? Ok lah, just give birth and send the baby for adoption?

   

   

  Personally , I find an open marriage difficult to accept.

  But it is also saddening to see loveless marriages around.
  

   

• ditzy

  6 Dec 10, 18:55

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  Shouldnt a married couply be faithful to each other? Rather than furking here and there? How about AIDS issue?

  Imagine one day, your wife came back home telling you I am pregnant with your colleague baby. How you react? Ok lah, just give birth and send the baby for adoption?

   

  Using rubber can reduce the chances.

• elindra

  6 Dec 10, 18:56

  I just feel that these days, most people just take things for granted instead of trying to work things out

  Most women don’t care too because they are financially independent these days

• Theforumlady

  6 Dec 10, 19:02

  Originally posted by likeyou:

  Shouldnt a married couply be faithful to each other? Rather than furking here and there? How about AIDS issue?

  Imagine one day, your wife came back home telling you I am pregnant with your colleague baby. How you react? Ok lah, just give birth and send the baby for adoption?

   

  Personally I find  the concept of open marriage very tough to accept.

  But it is also saddening to see loveless marriages around just for the sake of

  kids...properties...reputation..

• gunner77

  6 Dec 10, 19:36

  Im open to open marriage.

• DailyFreeGames.com

  6 Dec 10, 20:22

  like that AIDS cases may go up hor?