Birthdays...
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Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on...
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u should go enjoy yrself.. ask a few friends out and have a dinner or just treat it like a gathering lor.
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No one celebrate birthdays for me too, but I am not sad or dispaired. Coz I celebrate my life every day and fell good about it
Who cares about a birthday...then again it's only me...dun take it seriously, just trying to make you see the brighter side of things. Cheers!!! -
how come? why do you feel empty?
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i neber celerbrate my birthday....no big deal...u'll get used to it
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I feel tt sth is missing... ITs not tt i dun haf frens to accompany me but juz feel tt someting is missing... MAyb tts y i feel empty..Originally posted by kohanson:how come? why do you feel empty? -
ITs not tt i mind the celebration.. i dun mind not having celebration.. its the feeling of emptiness....Originally posted by De|usi0n:i neber celerbrate my birthday....no big deal...u'll get used to it -
My guess is that the days has been quite empty for you and birthday is just allowing you sometime and reflect and realise that you are feeling quite empty.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on... 
Its always good to reflect upon ourselves... and finding out what is this void in our heart - find some ways to fill it, well, you gonna need initiative.
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What a good EXCUSE?Originally posted by shaunlaw:I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on... -
I only know that on my birthday.......................my mum was in painOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on... 
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Originally posted by john hunter:I only know that on my birthday.......................my mum was in pain
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The question here is, why do you need to feel special
everyone was born on someday, bday is just another day, doesn't mean you will strike 4D on that day, get a ONS or get 10As. Do you seriously feel you need to feel special on that day? -
Why ya look so surprised? It's never an easy thing doing delivery ya know....?Originally posted by [ X ] & [ L ]: " -
Bdae... I dun like celebrating it. Coz to me its either another dae OR everydae is a BDAE to me. But its always nice for sum1 to celebrate for U. Not bcoz he/she/it remembers yr bdae & thus celebrates, its coz he/she/it bothers to remember & celebrate.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on...
Maybe U r now facing some probs dat cause U to tik dis wae? Like U lonely? Not noticed? Dun feel appreciated? Got into arguement? Tok it out. U WILL feel better. & remember: a bdae is not juz a dae for celebration or wat. Its oso a dae U remember U r brought into dis world.
If U still cannot find out wats wrong. U can PM me, then we chat along & see IF I can "help" U find out wats wrong or not. I believe some others oso willing to help U. -
feeling empty?
then u muz be searching for something
yet u do not know what u are searching for...
in ur pre-conscious mind, u are thinking of the thing/person u are looking for... but ur conscious mind doesn't know...
y are u not happy during this yr's b.day??
according to wat i sense... it's not the presents that bother u
it's a person that is not there, that bothers u...
i hope i'm not correct...... =)
anyways....how we live our lives... depends entirely on us, if u want to feel empty, and want to hate celebrating b.days... it's up to u.
if u want to enjoy it, it's oso up to u...
live ur own life, for no one controls ur life. -
It's an 'AWAKENING' stage.... Quite a normal part of growing up Life.... The SEARCH for ANSWERS.... BEGIN.....Originally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on... 
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u dun understand my position fr ur ans.... I dun need to feel special, i am juz feeling empty....Originally posted by Forever84:The question here is, why do you need to feel special
everyone was born on someday, bday is just another day, doesn't mean you will strike 4D on that day, get a ONS or get 10As. Do you seriously feel you need to feel special on that day? -
Take it easy... sometimes we ALL feel empty. (I do, on many occasions... like wat U now facing) if U stil cannot find da ans, U can try to tok more abt it. try to describe wat made U felt dat wae & y? maybe on a particular dae, U saw some events, like a couple so luving or intimate... or a grp of frens luffin away wifout a care abt da things ard them... or little children playing ard, their innocence struck U? *shrugs*Originally posted by shaunlaw:u dun understand my position fr ur ans.... I dun need to feel special, i am juz feeling empty....
If U tink U can find da ans HERE but maybe not openly... perhaps U can PM da person U TINK got good views & advice... Or U can try to find yr good fren (some1 U REALLY can bare yr heart to) & trash it out. Watever it is, never despair... for life always happens UNexpectedly & surprise U.
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Originally posted by loneryu00:
Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Take it easy... sometimes we ALL feel empty. (I do, on many occasions... like wat U now facing) if U stil cannot find da ans, U can try to tok more abt it. [b]try to describe wat made U felt dat wae & y? maybe on a particular dae, U saw some events, like a couple so luving or intimate... or a grp of frens luffin away wifout a care abt da things ard them... or little children playing ard, their innocence struck U? *shrugs*
If U tink U can find da ans HERE but maybe not openly... perhaps U can PM da person U TINK got good views & advice... Or U can try to find yr good fren (some1 U REALLY can bare yr heart to) & trash it out. Watever it is, never despair... for life always happens UNexpectedly & surprise U. [/b]
Silly thoughts that many will sure say... -
I see... matters of da heart. Its very hard to "get" things yr wae. I've been there... seeing couples really make me feel "empty"... furthermore I never dated B4... so my feelings kinda differs & MAY be more severe than yrs...Originally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say...
Y good gals end up wif bad guys? Well... its situational... many have their own views... I sae mine... (every1 have da right to sae mine's NOT correct ) Gd gals r quiet, introvert, have curfews, listens to parents, etc, etc. Its due to all dis over a LONG period of time, da "gals" wanted a change. Wanna try smth different, smth exciting for a while... Da "bad" bois have wat they wanted... & more... Can sae they r wild, adventurous, fun, exciting, out-going, etc, etc (dun wanna sae more... U shld noe how bad bois works. ) Furthermore da bad bois have charisma dat attract da gd gals, or simply put, da bois BHB. I not gonna sae more on dis... coz not all r like wat I said... too many OTHER pts I lazy to list (later I tio flamed...) & I may not be correct anywae...
Wat can U do abt it? U can start off wif yr family & frens... they r more than U assume them to be... they r there for U when U needed them, there to cheer U, to support U, to share yr joys & sorrows. + normally da GF/BF U "wanted" appears from within da ranks of yr frens... U juz dun happen to see or noe it. Start wif those U r close wif, will then yr "circle" expands & more will be added to yr "circle" & I can assure U, U won't feel empty anymore.
I oso sure others have VALUABLE advices for U. So stick ard! -
I knew it, well, envy is in the blood of men, so is jealousy. Life isn't fair, it wasn't meant to be. And bystanders will forever see what the mind wants them to seeOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say... -
Why should you let it bother you so much? Are you a good little girl...? And just what do ya think ya can do about it...?Originally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say... -
Hmm...Originally posted by Forever84:I knew it, well, envy is in the blood of men, so is jealousy. Life isn't fair, it wasn't meant to be. And bystanders will forever see what the mind wants them to see -
oppsOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say...
my senses are right this time i suppose
juz try to be urself... true love will arrive, u no need to feel so empty.... one thing is, u dun wait for love to come.... u go find it... but dun juz seek love for the sake of love, but u muz feel..... -
I tot u would understand my situation apparently, u also dun....Originally posted by Devil1976:Why should you let it bother you so much? Are you a good little girl...? And just what do ya think ya can do about it...? 