I feel tt sth is missing... ITs not tt i dun haf frens to accompany me but juz feel tt someting is missing... MAyb tts y i feel empty..Originally posted by kohanson:how come? why do you feel empty?
ITs not tt i mind the celebration.. i dun mind not having celebration.. its the feeling of emptiness....Originally posted by De|usi0n:i neber celerbrate my birthday....no big deal...u'll get used to it
My guess is that the days has been quite empty for you and birthday is just allowing you sometime and reflect and realise that you are feeling quite empty.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on...![]()
What a good EXCUSE?Originally posted by shaunlaw:I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on...![]()
I only know that on my birthday.......................my mum was in painOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on...![]()
Originally posted by john hunter:I only know that on my birthday.......................my mum was in pain![]()
Why ya look so surprised? It's never an easy thing doing delivery ya know....?Originally posted by [ X ] & [ L ]:![]()
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Bdae... I dun like celebrating it. Coz to me its either another dae OR everydae is a BDAE to me. But its always nice for sum1 to celebrate for U. Not bcoz he/she/it remembers yr bdae & thus celebrates, its coz he/she/it bothers to remember & celebrate.Originally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on...![]()
It's an 'AWAKENING' stage.... Quite a normal part of growing up Life.... The SEARCH for ANSWERS.... BEGIN.....Originally posted by shaunlaw:Birthdays should be a occasion of happiness and celebration of the individual.....
BUt I dun feel it this way this year... Feel kind of empty and tt sth is missing but cant figure out wat is... (NOt presents or celebrations definitely!)
Anyone felt the same way as before? I know this may lead to me hating my bday from now on...![]()
u dun understand my position fr ur ans.... I dun need to feel special, i am juz feeling empty....Originally posted by Forever84:The question here is, why do you need to feel special
everyone was born on someday, bday is just another day, doesn't mean you will strike 4D on that day, get a ONS or get 10As. Do you seriously feel you need to feel special on that day?
Take it easy... sometimes we ALL feel empty. (I do, on many occasions... like wat U now facing) if U stil cannot find da ans, U can try to tok more abt it. try to describe wat made U felt dat wae & y? maybe on a particular dae, U saw some events, like a couple so luving or intimate... or a grp of frens luffin away wifout a care abt da things ard them... or little children playing ard, their innocence struck U? *shrugs*Originally posted by shaunlaw:u dun understand my position fr ur ans.... I dun need to feel special, i am juz feeling empty....![]()
Originally posted by loneryu00:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Take it easy... sometimes we ALL feel empty. (I do, on many occasions... like wat U now facing) if U stil cannot find da ans, U can try to tok more abt it. [b]try to describe wat made U felt dat wae & y? maybe on a particular dae, U saw some events, like a couple so luving or intimate... or a grp of frens luffin away wifout a care abt da things ard them... or little children playing ard, their innocence struck U? *shrugs*
If U tink U can find da ans HERE but maybe not openly... perhaps U can PM da person U TINK got good views & advice... Or U can try to find yr good fren (some1 U REALLY can bare yr heart to) & trash it out. Watever it is, never despair... for life always happens UNexpectedly & surprise U.![]()
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I see... matters of da heart. Its very hard to "get" things yr wae. I've been there... seeing couples really make me feel "empty"... furthermore I never dated B4... so my feelings kinda differs & MAY be more severe than yrs...Originally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say...![]()
I knew it, well, envy is in the blood of men, so is jealousy. Life isn't fair, it wasn't meant to be. And bystanders will forever see what the mind wants them to seeOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say...![]()
Why should you let it bother you so much? Are you a good little girl...? And just what do ya think ya can do about it...?Originally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say...![]()
Hmm...Originally posted by Forever84:I knew it, well, envy is in the blood of men, so is jealousy. Life isn't fair, it wasn't meant to be. And bystanders will forever see what the mind wants them to see
oppsOriginally posted by shaunlaw:Mayb its something i saw bah... At times will feel like very envy of those loving couples... (Had a hard and harsh love life lah..) And then some things i juz cant get it right... For instance, i dun understand, y do gd gers always end up with bad guys who hurt them alot and yet stil want to be with them?
Silly thoughts that many will sure say...![]()
I tot u would understand my situation apparently, u also dun....Originally posted by Devil1976:Why should you let it bother you so much? Are you a good little girl...? And just what do ya think ya can do about it...?![]()