noticed something abt the ppl in my life
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It seems that whenever I am nice to a person,or someone is nice to me and i get delighted abt it, the next moment the person will do something to make me angry or upset.
the person can be a friend or somebody i like or could be anyone i know.
i mean this thing has popped up b4 and at that time i really question shld i be nice to ppl, sort of voluntarily.
I am very disappointed with some ppl in my life loh. treat u nicely, then suddenly snap at me and feel damn proud of it.wtf
like what have i dont to deserve this nonsense ? is it knowing these kinds of ppl in the first place ? probably yes. -
that's good... vent ur frustrations...
erm... wait for yunhaier to comment on this...
i can't do this -
hope its not me and esil3
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/takes out parang,HE,Stingers,gatting guns. sarin gasOriginally posted by kopiosatu:that's good... vent ur frustrations...
erm... wait for yunhaier to comment on this...
i can't do this -
i mean it's like i have no fate with ppl becoming my best friends.
kind of standard for my generation who has been labelled as the Instant Mee Generation. -
if u wan friend from here why not join their outing?Originally posted by bismarck:i mean it's like i have no fate with ppl becoming my best friends.
kind of standard for my generation who has been labelled as the Instant Mee Generation.
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what what what??Originally posted by bismarck:/takes out parang,HE,Stingers,gatting guns. sarin gas
now vent frustration on me ah??
i waiting for yunhaier to reply -
If i was, i would drinking you right now. Problem is i dont drink coffee,it gives me instant headachesOriginally posted by kopiosatu:what what what??
now vent frustration on me ah??
i waiting for yunhaier to reply
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did i mention i am the worst actor on earth ? so i cant act.Originally posted by gogogogo:
making frens aif the lot is in fact the easiest thing in life...needs no training...just be natural.may b you are intelligent, smart, good in what u do, or som1 trying to pin u down cos they dun like u and spread rumours bout u, or som1 sees somthin in u that makes them feel inferior yet they themselves just cannot tell what is it....mayb u are popular among girls, mayb som gals cannot get u and as a result wan2 to talk good/bad bout u so that the ppl around her can 'react'...lots of possiblities
extremely not possible,none of the abv is possible.
yes in the fact that i am probably the only 1 who has such experiences
dun fear or giv up.....just remember that 'u ar special !' .
i have none = i am the most suay
keep on trying and remember this....the 2 type of frens that you need least are true friends and galfriend......get i each in this life and u can count yourself the luckiest man in this world. -
at least i took ur mind of the problem for a while!Originally posted by bismarck:If i was, i would drinking you right now. Problem is i dont drink coffee,it gives me instant headaches
few seconds of peace....
*meditates* hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm -
join what? all the ppl all know each other liao. that;s the same reason I am not as close to my class as they are to each other.Originally posted by dark_slayer79:if u wan friend from here why not join their outing? -
everyone got their first time mahOriginally posted by bismarck:join what? all the ppl all know each other liao. that;s the same reason I am not as close to my class as they are to each other. -
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show them ur fat arse?
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tiny indirect role on yr side.Originally posted by dark_slayer79:hope its not me and esil3
yet someone else is spitting fire on me for no reason.
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What goes around, comes around.Originally posted by bismarck:It seems that whenever I am nice to a person,or someone is nice to me and i get delighted abt it, the next moment the person will do something to make me angry or upset.
the person can be a friend or somebody i like or could be anyone i know.
i mean this thing has popped up b4 and at that time i really question shld i be nice to ppl, sort of voluntarily.
I am very disappointed with some ppl in my life loh. treat u nicely, then suddenly snap at me and feel damn proud of it.wtf like what have i dont to deserve this nonsense ? is it knowing these kinds of ppl in the first place ? probably yes. -
a bit of tok cock leh.. brudder.. lolx...Originally posted by bismarck:i have none = i am the most suay -
Originally posted by bismarck:
Perhaps it's TIME to REFLECT
tiny indirect role on yr side.
yet someone else is spitting fire on me for no reason.
why is it that i am always at the receiving end of ppl [b]suddenly becoming hostile ?[/b]
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train ur EQ
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There r times when we met wif some "situations" we kinda embaressed in. Put it dis wae, IF U never met them, U wld not noe they r of dis "pattern"... then U will NEVER noe how to deal wif dis ppl next time. So good or bad, its all in yr tinking.Originally posted by bismarck:It seems that whenever I am nice to a person,or someone is nice to me and i get delighted abt it, the next moment the person will do something to make me angry or upset.
the person can be a friend or somebody i like or could be anyone i know.
i mean this thing has popped up b4 and at that time i really question shld i be nice to ppl, sort of voluntarily.
I am very disappointed with some ppl in my life loh. treat u nicely, then suddenly snap at me and feel damn proud of it.wtf like what have i dont to deserve this nonsense ? is it knowing these kinds of ppl in the first place ? probably yes. -
*Koks Kopiosatu*Originally posted by kopiosatu:what what what??
now vent frustration on me ah??
i waiting for yunhaier to reply
Pai seh... quite tired yesterday... -
You know something? There is comes to best friend cum real true friends, etc - In this lifetime, IF you have 5 or more.... you didn't make a wasted trip down to Earth. (Taken from somewhere I read before).Originally posted by bismarck:It seems that whenever I am nice to a person,or someone is nice to me and i get delighted abt it, the next moment the person will do something to make me angry or upset.
the person can be a friend or somebody i like or could be anyone i know.
i mean this thing has popped up b4 and at that time i really question shld i be nice to ppl, sort of voluntarily.
I am very disappointed with some ppl in my life loh. treat u nicely, then suddenly snap at me and feel damn proud of it.wtf like what have i dont to deserve this nonsense ? is it knowing these kinds of ppl in the first place ? probably yes.
You cannot make friends with people with the intention of making them your best friend in your head, though you both can communicate and speak well for an initial starting impression. Very close, good friends are often people:
I) who are very similar to you - Characteristic.
II) You both feel comfortable in each other's company
III) Could talk about anything under the sun - no stress in communication.
If you don't fall under these category, its simply means - it not that guy/girl.
Do you know to find one true friend is vastly more difficult to find a gf/bf? A true friends cares for you unconditionally, while a love cares you for because he/she loves you. Expand social circle and always take time to know someone before branding them as good friends, etc - it will benefit you psychologically.
While doing that: do what uncle Devil1976 mentioned: Reflect on yourself. Because I always believe that people's reaction to oneself, is always depended on how you subconscious treat people, subconscious impression and subconscious comfortability. If many people are doing that to you, there must be a reason for it right?
Take care, you will be alright!
Cheers -
if u r too kind to others than u r too cruel to urself
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Originally posted by john hunter:
I have never snapped at these ppl before. called up net friend who i never contact for sometime, start scolding me for nothing.
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on friday night, i called my friend then she say call me tmr to discuss where to meet to give her back her things.
then she never call me, on sat i call her,sms, leave voicemail. she all never reply.
i dont understand, how come i more worried than her? so on sun i dun care liao.
so i msg her on sunday night, ask her why she never reply, and jokingly " thanks for yr diskette".
Only then I got a reply, say she sleeping during the day, at night wake up to study. ok lah i never go count the hours exactly so i dont care abt it.
then on monday i msg her to tell me what time she got breaks then i go meet her( accomodate her time,when it's her stuff, not mine), she never reply, so i call her. only then she tell me.
so i told her to come at 11 and wait outside my class since I have lessons from 10 to 12.
she called me but i couldnt pick up because my teacher near me. then i reply to her msg that she sent.i told her to call me when she is outside the door.
a few mins later i saw a missed call made by her and msg her that i will be waiting for her if she wants to come. then she say she is out of the sch liao and told me she take from me on tues.
few mins also no patience.
this morning i got her msg telling me waht time her lessons end and i told her to come to my classroom at any of the given time.( I was having classes for 4hrs 30mins at the same place) she never come.
she msged me ASKING me to go meet her at some place ( the only reason why u go there is to play games) then my class extended close to 1. i called her and she said she is at the mrt and told her i just left the class.i agreed since i was going home by the mrt.
I mean she like treat me as maid or servant or something loh.the stuff just dump it at my place,never bother to call me abt collecting it.
call her,msg her, leave voicemail also never reply.
and hello
it is me doing her a favour by helping her to type something, not the she doing me a favour by allowing me to do it. ok lah, dont use the term favour but it's her things loh. she got the cheek to ask me to go to her and pass it to her. shldnt it be she come and look for me ?
i would go look for the person if he/she has helped me to do something and I would accomodate his/her time. never the other way round.
I am extremely upset over how she treats me. Like a maid,servant like that. Not like a friend it seems.
Kind of feel it's stupid volunteer to help her type things.
i am writing a note to tell her abt how she treats me. dunno whether i shld send or not.
some parts u may have seen it in my earlier posts in this thread.