It's been 4 years but I still can't get over my ex.. :'(
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i thought i have already forgotten about her after all these years but i was wrong. recently, i met someone which reminded me so much of her. i can't help but to think of her and here i am, in Aunt Agony again cus the pain is so unbearable and it is choking me to tears.
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first love is hard to forget....
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unrequited love....haiz...
there are thousands of poems and songs on that great sad theme....
just take consolation that letting go is also a form of love and blessing for the good of all
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sigh.... for thousand years... this has been a problem
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for thousands of days i also haven't forgotten my ex...
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thanks guys. but i'm crying my eyes out right now. gonna go to sleep.
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Take care ya....
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here got many single gals..make your pick and message them tomorrow lah..sweet dreams...take care..
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should be girls.... there's many girls in this forum leh..
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smlj?
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shh.... the man needed quiet moment...
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Originally posted by chefmac.org:
should be girls.... there's many girls in this forum leh..
oh yar, thanks for correcting.
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*peace =)
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alrighty... good night everyone and have a great weekend!
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Your first is always the hardest and takes the longest to get over.
Time heals all wounds. In the meantime just stay strong and take care man.
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i rather that you flirt than be a blind loyalist from now on....behold...
F.L.I.R.T (Socially Responsible Guaranteed)
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this is called attachment, period.
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the thing about attachment is this. when you are in a relationship, enjoy. when the relationship turned awry or the the other party died or whatever, you got to let go and move on. otherwise you have emotional baggage from past relationships and you are unable to move forward or grow up due to attachment.
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first love is hard to forget man. i feel ya.
you just gotta live your life, and opportunities would open up for you. eventually you'd learn to live with it.
take care man. -
Commit ''suicide'' to your past (psychological) - both the ''good and the ''bad'' and before you know it u are free to partake of what comes or not comes.
Otherwise, u may do things or find another but what is unresolved within will surface.
It is not difficult but it appears so cos one's sense of self as long as it is identified with that feeling (whatever the ) becomes a part of self. Hence, the misery , the pain.
Understand, acknowledge and if u can n are willing to die to the ''psychological'' past, ie, now manifesting as a hangover, it will not go away.
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You admitted that you have forgotten about her until you met someone like her recently. So you see, it was just that moment that triggered your emotions. You need to know this is only temporal. In time to come,you will let go like before. Cut away from sad movies, sad songs at the mean time, be with good friends and take time to relax your mind and keep away from things that remind you of her for the time being. You will be fine again .
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guys, thanks for all the advice. i really appreciate it.
after i cried out last nite, i felt much better today. -
Gambatte yo.... you will find your soulmate soon...
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good for you....
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May you heal and bounce back here in great spirits soon!
