Why is it so hard to find somebody we like
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Oh.. and minus the Singlish. xD
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Originally posted by Julian.khor:
Everybody got ego, even gal got ego. Many many years ago, I dated a gal with very big ego. She so proud, don't want to lose. Always like to blame me if I forgot direction or I forgot to carry her purse. She always think she is right and I am wrong.Ego is a fact of life, we canot avoid ego, everybody got ego, some more, some less. We only have to learn to control ego.
I don't think ego is bad or disrespectful to oneself. Sometime ego help me, to defend myself and stop other people from walking all over me. Ego is good. We canot sit down there and let people hurl us wif insult after insult, ego is a good defensive mechanism for our self esteem. Ego is not denial, if use properly. Ego wif wisdom help us to see thru other people intentions. When we know somebody want to attack our self esteem for the sake of making us feel bad abotu ourself, ego self defensive mechanism come into play to help us become better person and give people message we are not pushover.
Ar har, good statement.
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Originally posted by angel7030:
choke is ok, it is like bottleneck, we need to break bottleneck mah, at least, we taiwanese gal can tell you what we are upfront, so that you can choose, be wary of it or simply break off in the begining, unlike sg gal, courting time all look nice nice, good good, guai guai, then after married, all kind of patterns also come out, then sg guys start to suffer and go pub or hv affair here and there...what a mess.we taiwanese believe that in life, be it love relationship or any other things, there tend to be choking here and there, but the more important things is that once the choking is cleared, learn from it and be better, more lovely and understanding.
Wah, I have one uncle gone thru terrible divorce, wife abandon him n went to UK. But he met one Taiwanese gal as crazy as him like soul mate - they been married for 15 years now. Wah, they both crazy crazy wild wild, like to sing karaoke and drink alcohol. At my cousin wedding, my uncle go up to the podium and sang all the old generation Teochew song wif his Taiwan wife. And some more his Taiwan wife very sporting and sociable wan, oso good wife, can cook n wash clothes.
Dunno whether Angel is like tis onot? Angel, I sing karaoke song wif u?
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
I didnt know Taiwan and Hongkie girls are so "perfect" .. I have a rather different experience with them. lool. I think they are no different from Sg girls. Only difference , nationality in passport.
WOMAN. All universal one la. As long they dun hv dick, they r all the same? -
lol~