Very demoralised...
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I have been trying to pick up things fast and brushing up whatever I have lost but I seemed to be marked... I just feel very unjust and unfair and yet given that little time I can do almost nothing. AAHHHH!
Just let me cool it off here man... full of undescriberable feelings now... -
what talking you siah......
pls brish up your english brudder -
Er... ah, do you mind telling more about your problems?? It's a bit abstract from what i've read..Originally posted by Wind:I have been trying to pick up things fast and brushing up whatever I have lost but I seemed to be marked... I just feel very unjust and unfair and yet given that little time I can do almost nothing. AAHHHH!
Just let me cool it off here man... full of undescriberable feelings now... -
Step by step bro.....have confident in yourself! You are not born stupid! Try to adjust yourself to suit the situation. Importantly, never never doubt your capabilities!....that's the key in life! Trust me
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Work or NS?Originally posted by Wind:I have been trying to pick up things fast and brushing up whatever I have lost but I seemed to be marked... I just feel very unjust and unfair and yet given that little time I can do almost nothing. AAHHHH!
Just let me cool it off here man... full of undescriberable feelings now...
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Studies. Been a year away from my college, spent the whole year working to get my school fee, and to forget some painful memories. Now I am back, wanting to achieve my target, yet it is like so far away...
Have been trying to brush up things real fast... but it just seems that chances and time are just not sufficient enough. To top all of that, the lecturer seemed to be rather against me. Reason being I am much closer to another lecturer as he is willing to teach me more, he can't stand it... I mean what is this? He is picking on me... these are things I have to tolerate, there is no point going against him as he is still the one who gives me my grades and decides my fate. Unfair, but what to do... and I hate the way he speculates me, thinking he knows me totally. The dreadful part is, I am not allowed to speak and defend myself. He will find ways to make himself sound right. All I can do is to keep quiet and feel humiliated.
Things I don't understand, he assumed I did. When I attempted to ask, he gave me those kind of "how come others know, you don't know" look. I mean, hello... I was away for a year and things got 'rusty'... I deferred due to reasons, it is not like as if I failed and have to repeat. He is trying to find fault... just feel very demoralised... -
U r in JC? Or private school?Originally posted by Wind:Studies. Been a year away from my college, spent the whole year working to get my school fee, and to forget some painful memories. Now I am back, wanting to achieve my target, yet it is like so far away...
Have been trying to brush up things real fast... but it just seems that chances and time are just not sufficient enough. To top all of that, the lecturer seemed to be rather against me. Reason being I am much closer to another lecturer as he is willing to teach me more, he can't stand it... I mean what is this? He is picking on me... these are things I have to tolerate, there is no point going against him as he is still the one who gives me my grades and decides my fate. Unfair, but what to do... and I hate the way he speculates me, thinking he knows me totally. The dreadful part is, I am not allowed to speak and defend myself. He will find ways to make himself sound right. All I can do is to keep quiet and feel humiliated.
Things I don't understand, he assumed I did. When I attempted to ask, he gave me those kind of "how come others know, you don't know" look. I mean, hello... I was away for a year and things got 'rusty'... I deferred due to reasons, it is not like as if I failed and have to repeat. He is trying to find fault... just feel very demoralised...
U know, you have a speakable mouth N a pair of powerful hands and all you need to do is to complain! U have all the right to speak up and not suffering it man! Try to get some justice here if not try to clear the misunderstandings.
Actually, I think u r just Kan Cheong, stopped a year wouldn't really make much different. Uncle here, stopped schooling for 5 -6 years and now just stepped into ntu. U think life is going easy for me? Come on. Face it man. U r not stupid at all. Try to examine the way of your studying method. I strongly believe that it's ur inefficient method that is hindering you from real understand from memerising. Cheer up man! Take a coolz jog and think about a better studying, learning way that suit you most. Remember, it's not time that's matters, it's your studying method!
Don't worry. Believe in yourself. I can see the strength in you. Do it!
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Never feel demoralised and having the sense of despair in the face of such a person... (your lecturer) Afterall, we're talking about YOUR FUTURE here... Not HIS... He could probably just a stepping stone in your life.... He can do whatever he wants to PIN YOU DOWN, but usually you would still have the ULTIMATE CONTROL... He can try to humiliate you but he would still have to give you credits if you deserves them.... Don't be too bothered by such, the society you're gonna step into ain't exactly gonna be FAIR too... If you can't even handle this little 'storm', how can ya expect to handle the bigger ones...?Originally posted by Wind:Studies. Been a year away from my college, spent the whole year working to get my school fee, and to forget some painful memories. Now I am back, wanting to achieve my target, yet it is like so far away...
Have been trying to brush up things real fast... but it just seems that chances and time are just not sufficient enough. To top all of that, the lecturer seemed to be rather against me. Reason being I am much closer to another lecturer as he is willing to teach me more, he can't stand it... I mean what is this? He is picking on me... these are things I have to tolerate, there is no point going against him as he is still the one who gives me my grades and decides my fate. Unfair, but what to do... and I hate the way he speculates me, thinking he knows me totally. The dreadful part is, I am not allowed to speak and defend myself. He will find ways to make himself sound right. All I can do is to keep quiet and feel humiliated.
Things I don't understand, he assumed I did. When I attempted to ask, he gave me those kind of "how come others know, you don't know" look. I mean, hello... I was away for a year and things got 'rusty'... I deferred due to reasons, it is not like as if I failed and have to repeat. He is trying to find fault... just feel very demoralised...
Whatever relationship crisis that you might have been facing.... Whatever hardship.... There's ONE THING which I like and in which I think is the MAIN ISSUE here.... "Now I am back, wanting to achieve my target" Just REMEMBER YOUR ULTIMATE OBJECTIVE? I wish you ALL THE BEST....