well Goog2great u knew she had problem on money issues right if u were in her shoes, u also will do the same shit. trying to earn as much as she can as she trying her best to fix her problem to settle her debt all by herself to get back a normal life as in not to worry every mth this bill that debt how to find money to pay. if u really love her why not lead her back to a normal life. if u love her trust her, maybe i not what u think they are doing, u r just guessing what are they doing alone together, maybe is just work n nothing else. dude u are thinking too much.
well. i can guss u earning quite alot a month.she loves ur money nt u.wake up.she will not ask u for money,but she noe u will give her money.woman are clever,they are nt stupid,if she really need to pay debt for her mum,she wont be working part time.it will be full time.
u are a good guy,u can get someone better than her
Don't spoil market and dump her lar. pui.
I symphatise with ur situation.. i think you should try to talk to her and find out why she is doing this to you. But personally i feel that you should consider calmly whether u want to continue this relationship with this woman anot.
If you choose to continue, does it bring peace, contentment and happiness to you? If it doesnt, then u haf to make an amicable choice to settle this matter calmly. Think of other things that are important to you in your life. Such as ur family. If you continue to feel upset over this woman, is it fair to the ppl around you?
The ultimate answer lies with urself.
Just my 5 cents opinion.
You mentioned about breaking her from this old man. What prevents her from cheating on you again? Its like a endless pit, you dig further, it only goes deeper.
No point forcing her. If this is so, you should accept and move on with life. Treat it as an experience.
As for the money given to her, treat it like charity to help her as a divorced woman. I know its much harder to do than what said, but thats the only good way i think you can let go of the money.
I think the threadstarter should go back with his ex gf. She seems like a much nicer lady than this current gf
u is a dumbfark sucker.
does aware give such counselling?
we (men) often hear we should do this do that bring her back from hell...come on, go back to the system that perhaps discriminatingly offers social protection but we will never smell it....
throw it to the system that favours u...
you are asking for it.
jolly well wake up your idea.
Trust me, you shouldn't be with her. One day she will rob all your wealth, time and youth.
You should spend $1K treating us forumer for a V-day get-together meal, and we happily eat out with you okay?
The problem is you think you treat her in this way, she ought to behave in that way.
You can't manage her. She matured, with two kids, and savvy.
Please get a dog.
Or she'll manage you, and your money, and next thing you will be asking us is should you make a police report.
now got ex hubby!
dump dump dump! What are you waiting for? Are you Mr ATM or some rich dude looking for someone to spend on or what? How can you still accept her when shes sleeping behind your back....
Hi Goog2great
One question, if your ex-gf come to you and offer you 1K to dump this girl will you do that?
And can you provide a reason why you will or will not do it?
u alrdy insist dat way.
still cm ask us for wat.
u leali is deserve it loh.
The TS wishes to continue deceiving himself that she really loves him and he don't mind squandering his money on her.
Leave him to be than.
yah lor
u go ask 当事人 how she will leave the jap man lor
dun ask us anymore
TS loves to be a cuckoo wearing green hat
mabbe she has av fantasies too.
Nah, leave her be, she is capable of taking care of herself. Find a girl who is nice and sincere. Don't create problems for yourself.
The best solution might be the most painful 1.. get over her and move on.
cut loss.Now.