hello lightspeedOriginally posted by Lightspeed:Wow...haven't been here in awhile...
Well...lots of things have happened during the past yr...crashed my car, lost my job, most painful of all, lost my girl, who claims she doesn't feel the same way she did about me before and that she just doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment and wants to be alone. And she's just giving up what we have built up over the past 6 yrs just like that? Sigh...it's been 3 months now...and I still can't get over it... How can that be? She says that she doesn't have anyone else... I've tried all I can to win her back...but failed miserably...sigh...
Your story is quite similar to mine but your relationship with her is 6 years. My ex broke off with me after 2 and a half years of being a loving friends. I myself enjoyed letting her see all my successes and touched by her support through my failures.Originally posted by Lightspeed:Wow...haven't been here in awhile...
Well...lots of things have happened during the past yr...crashed my car, lost my job, most painful of all, lost my girl, who claims she doesn't feel the same way she did about me before and that she just doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment and wants to be alone. And she's just giving up what we have built up over the past 6 yrs just like that? Sigh...it's been 3 months now...and I still can't get over it... How can that be? She says that she doesn't have anyone else... I've tried all I can to win her back...but failed miserably...sigh...
gosh.. it must have been hard on u for the past few months... I do empathise wif u, esp when u tried all ur means to win her back but to no avail.. that's the worst blow I suppose... Even I would have come to the end of my wits if I have been thinking of ways to walk by my ex's side.Originally posted by Lightspeed:Wow...haven't been here in awhile...
Well...lots of things have happened during the past yr...crashed my car, lost my job, most painful of all, lost my girl, who claims she doesn't feel the same way she did about me before and that she just doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment and wants to be alone. And she's just giving up what we have built up over the past 6 yrs just like that? Sigh...it's been 3 months now...and I still can't get over it... How can that be? She says that she doesn't have anyone else... I've tried all I can to win her back...but failed miserably...sigh...
I also wanted to marry her in a few years times but things did not worked out as planned. Just to tell you are not alone in this world. Relationship can take very big turns due to many reasons like quarrels, difficult situations,tireness...etc.Originally posted by Lightspeed:Whats the point of it all?
I've tried in vain for the last few months...
things have changed she claims...maybe she thought that she loved me back then...how could she say such hurtful things....
We were planning to get married...now she's telling me she can never imagine me as her hubby? I call her...I sms her..she says I'm harassing her... I just feel so devasted... sigh
I assume u hve establish a career for urself as well as a path now seeking to enjoy the journey with her? I understand. Do u think you can help me in my path? I'm on a money making urge. No girls for me. HEY GUYS ABOVE 21 AND WHO IS STRIFING TO EARN MONeY UNITE AND DRINK TO OUR HEARTS CONTENT? HW ABT IT?Originally posted by Lightspeed:Wow...haven't been here in awhile...
Well...lots of things have happened during the past yr...crashed my car, lost my job, most painful of all, lost my girl, who claims she doesn't feel the same way she did about me before and that she just doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment and wants to be alone. And she's just giving up what we have built up over the past 6 yrs just like that? Sigh...it's been 3 months now...and I still can't get over it... How can that be? She says that she doesn't have anyone else... I've tried all I can to win her back...but failed miserably...sigh...
sorry to hear tis but preharps u shld try to kinw more frenxs to get tis painful time over..i nt saying u 4get her coz it nv easy wen u & her been so long together but if reli feelings hv die...it difficult 4 her 2 b wif u...Originally posted by Lightspeed:Wow...haven't been here in awhile...
Well...lots of things have happened during the past yr...crashed my car, lost my job, most painful of all, lost my girl, who claims she doesn't feel the same way she did about me before and that she just doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment and wants to be alone. And she's just giving up what we have built up over the past 6 yrs just like that? Sigh...it's been 3 months now...and I still can't get over it... How can that be? She says that she doesn't have anyone else... I've tried all I can to win her back...but failed miserably...sigh...
Originally posted by Lightspeed:Sigh...it's been 3 months now...and I still can't get over it... How can that be?
Please read your own answer below....
I've tried all I can to win her back...but failed miserably...sigh...
How ya doing buddy boy...?Originally posted by Bear:I thin u r still in the denial stage... U can't believe all the things that have happen to u. Maybe there's just too much for u to take, and I understand that some pple just find it hard to react to all the things that are happen ard them, esp when it all happened in abt the same time.
however, I think u shld try to calm urself down... Maybe u will say that u haf already cooled off, but inside u, ur emotions are still mixed up. Perhaps u can tr thinking to solve a problem one at a time... Seeing them as a seperate thing. For instance, for mur car wat will u do.. Think of all the things that u can do abt ur cars, and proceed on to another. I know u r asking for assistance to wat has happened to ur gf. however, ur denial to clear off ur mind is the main problem.
Sorryz if I'm wrong or has been harshed, but this is wat I perceived from the way u reply.
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