Should i find him?
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hm....i suddenly have the urge to find my exbf...again....when i thought of the happy memories tat i had with him...i really miss it...so far non of my bfs had gave me the feelins...
But the problem now is tat he has a gf...should i keep in contact with him til he broke off with his gf or... :p should i jus find another guy...I dun dare to step into another new relationship with a new guy..becos guys dun understand wat i wan... 
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Alamakz... I wun agree wif the idea of going back to him. FOr every relationship that u haf u will definitely haf soem momeries.. Take it as memories so that u can tell ur children... But for going back to him, I think it's just that u suddenly felt very lonely and a loss... That's y u haf such feelings.. moreover, it's hasn't been a long time since that thing happened, so u will tend to miss him... U just need someone to care fo u and love u again... it's something amiss that's all... I do haf such feelings myself too.. I too haf sudden urge at such times. Just gif urself time. Now just do things that u wanted to do all along, but was unable to do.. go out wif frens.. Slowly as time passes by, the idea will slip out too.
I would haf recommend u to go back to him, IF u r the one who is a fault. And it's just a minor error.. But not this... If u return u will only make him complacent. He will start thinking of using u as a spare again, if his r/s wif his current gf is not going too well.. most guys are like that, we are never satisfied wif just A GIRL by our side.
I doubt there's nothing wrong if a guy doesn't know u very well.. I mean maybe it's just that u need to know more guys, maybe for a longer period of time. U will get to know each other. As time goes by, I dun think it will stop a guy from knowing u well enuff..
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
i think the problem lies with u, since u say no guys can understand u!!!...
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Inzaghi
i think the problem lies with u, since u say no guys can understand u!!!
As for this....i don't dare to get close to guys...from wat i know is tat guys jus wanna have fun..i dun dare to step into this kind n no guys will wanna try their best to know wat u wan they onli no wat they wan -
Well, I dun think u should go back to him. That is my personal opinion of coz. Try and understand y the 2 of u broke off in the first place. This must be a reason. Anyway, it will be unfair for his present gf and ur present bf. But if u really feel miserable, I think u should not have got into a relationship that is full of problems, worries and sceptical thoughts.
Hope u will find ur true love!! -
I dun think that all guys just love fun.. Okie.. we like to haf fun, but we do get pretty serious too.. Maybe not all guyz.. For instance, I'm sure there are quite a number of guys here in this forum, who are serious in replying ur post, doesn't it show our serious side too?? I'm not saying that u must choose from pple here, but it's just a sign for u to see that we guys can be serious pple too.. In fact all guys haf a serious side. U really haf to be close to them then u can see their less playful view.Originally posted by Angelicia:Inzaghi
i think the problem lies with u, since u say no guys can understand u!!!
As for this....i don't dare to get close to guys...from wat i know is tat guys jus wanna have fun..i dun dare to step into this kind n no guys will wanna try their best to know wat u wan they onli no wat they wan
I'm not arrowing at u..., maybe I'm too harsh here, but it's just to tell u to be more open to guyz. coz u never know wat u gonna get... Well, and I beleve that there will be a guy for u out there...
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
I don't think that is a good idea. It might propped him to have this idea of having "back-ups". Do think thrice about it.
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hmm ... i wont advise u to go back to him because
1. there's a reason why u 2 broke up in the first place
2. you should always look forward, not backward in life
3. he's already with someone, its not fair to cut in
4. there's tons of guys out there, surely there's one special one for u
5.if u say guys dont know what u want, do u know what u want ?? if u do, then u gotta communicate !! but of course u gotta have mutual understanding as well lah. -
freak it lah..be a bitch and go for it
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bigpimp:freak it lah..be a bitch and go for it
Hey u think i wat thing... -
Ok thanks guys for replying me..i know wat to do
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f it man.
Go for it.
How many times in life can you find a someone who really gives you a memorable days?
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Well if u go for it, chance of being hurt is very high... Haf a fren who did that...
now under consolation... She tot that she could haf change his love towards her, but in the end she found out that no matter how hard she tried for the past half a yr, she is still unable to get the guys heart. In a r/s, when it gets longer, u tend to want the person solely to urself and not being shared by another person, coz all humans are greedy.
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
well..let's just say you need to let poeple understand you..and go for it!!!If you still like him,why not?he might be thinkin' bout the very same thing now okie!!!!
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Well, it's not that easy to say. Coz if he loves the other ger and u r just willing to be his spare tye, u will be treat like one. and u will not likely win his true love, coz in his heart he already has a first choice. U only come in when he breaks up.
Another thing is, if he breaks up that girl for u. I may sound good, but pls understand y he loves u?? for the real u or becoz u chio?? Chances are that if he can break up wif one for u.. one day he might break up wif u for another... He can say that he breaks up wif the other juz for u.. but wat a pack of lies... it's juz to get thei girl. -
Do whatever you want, follow your heart, but be responsible for what you do.
Thats all you need to know.
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FoRGotTeN aka [MOB]-Dave
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After all, everything turns to dust...