True Love
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Been giving all of u advices,now it's time you all pay back, hehehehe.
Here's my problem: What's True Love? Really a very general topic, let me narrow it down, how do u know u had fall in love with someone. To tell all of u the truth, I think I fall in love easily with anyone I'd juz met, according to my love sign which is sagittarius love sign, I love a person easily and will see one and love one. Thus, I really don't know who is actually my true love. Another thing, normally this feeling will die down after some time I nvr met that person, mayb this is called infactuation. This "love" feeling will also increase if I see the person everyday. Confusing???
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
It's really hard to tell u wat is true love. COz there's no definite definition.Originally posted by mikegk_76:Been giving all of u advices,now it's time you all pay back, hehehehe.
Here's my problem: What's True Love? Really a very general topic, let me narrow it down, how do u know u had fall in love with someone. To tell all of u the truth, I think I fall in love easily with anyone I'd juz met, according to my love sign which is sagittarius love sign, I love a person easily and will see one and love one. Thus, I really don't know who is actually my true love. Another thing, normally this feeling will die down after some time I nvr met that person, mayb this is called infactuation. This "love" feeling will also increase if I see the person everyday. Confusing???
I feel love is ard when u missed that person even when she/he is not ard. U will think of the person, u will miss the person even when both of u haf not been in contact for some time.
U r able to accepts all the flaws of this person regardless of how many there is and how 'big' it is.
Able to be true and haf the same feelings to her/him no matter wat happens, for instance an arguement or a 3rd party even both of u are together for several yrs.
To be putting her/him in front of all ur decisions, and all the things that u do. To be considering her/his feelings for upon making any decision.
All these happen naturally, with needing to purposely remind urself to do it...
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
If i luv SOME1, he wil b the 1st person 2 come into my mind when i woke up n bfore i sleep.
My mood n thots wil b revolving around him, whatever he does or says or even a little change in his facial expression wil all affect mi.
I wil always b tinking of him, what is he doing, how is he feeling today etc...
I wil b blind 2 all his flaws n mistakes
Even if he treats mi bad i wil eventuali forgive him.
My heart wil ache alot if we were to quarrel
n my heart wil die if he tells mi he no longer feels 4 mi
n lastly, if he were 2 leave mi, my heart wil oso go with him . . .
I blieve most of u hav oso been thru all these, some of u may hv emerged stronger while the rest r stil living in the past, searching 4 the heart tat u hv lost along the way.
{{{LUV IS A WONDERFUL YET PAINFUL EXPERIENCE}}} -
WE ALL HAVE BEEN IN LOVE BUT WE NEVER KNOW TRUE LOVE UNTIL IT'S OVER..... SO WHAT IF THERE IS NO 1 OR 2 OR 3 OR 4...WAT IF THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TRUE LOVE , WHICH WE ARE TOO AFRAID TO ADMIT IT, AND SO WE KEEP DRESSING UP, WE KEEP PRETENDING SOMETHING THAT WE ARE NOT, WE KEEP TURNING OUR LIVES UPSIDE DOWN, LOSING OURSELVES AS SOMETHING THAT WE HOPE IS BETTER THAN WHAT WE THINK THAT WE ARE.
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hmmzz..dun mind me for being too frank, but i think wat u mentioned above, is most probably just lust, or infatuation, and is definitely not love..........okok, so mebbe i'm not so sure, but well, from the looks of it, it just seems to start and end too fast/soon to to called love lo. it's just somehting to do with the feelings la.Originally posted by mikegk_76:Been giving all of u advices,now it's time you all pay back, hehehehe.
Here's my problem: What's True Love? Really a very general topic, let me narrow it down, how do u know u had fall in love with someone. To tell all of u the truth, I think I fall in love easily with anyone I'd juz met, according to my love sign which is sagittarius love sign, I love a person easily and will see one and love one. Thus, I really don't know who is actually my true love. Another thing, normally this feeling will die down after some time I nvr met that person, mayb this is called infactuation. This "love" feeling will also increase if I see the person everyday. Confusing???
anywayz, most prolly it's due to hormonal changes oso wat......=) norm....hee~ -
Thx for all the replies, hope true love will find me instead of me finding it so miserably. Anyway, keep the replies coming in, wanted to hear from more of you, ok... *WINK*
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Love is a commitment and not just a feeling like most people said it to be.
You don't wake up one morning to say that you don't love someone anymore just because you no longer have feeling for someone.
You have to be commited to make love work.
That's why I feel that people nowadays says 'I love you' too easily and they usually don't meant it.
What you are feeling are just crushes i think. Hope no1's offended jus IMHO
------------------Originally posted by mikegk_76:Been giving all of u advices,now it's time you all pay back, hehehehe.
Here's my problem: What's True Love? Really a very general topic, let me narrow it down, how do u know u had fall in love with someone. To tell all of u the truth, I think I fall in love easily with anyone I'd juz met, according to my love sign which is sagittarius love sign, I love a person easily and will see one and love one. Thus, I really don't know who is actually my true love. Another thing, normally this feeling will die down after some time I nvr met that person, mayb this is called infactuation. This "love" feeling will also increase if I see the person everyday. Confusing???
To obtain peace, We have to fight for it, but then do you really call it peace if we have to fight for peace? -
Specially dedicated to NiVleK:
What is love? When we claim that it's love that we have for someone, are we
correct? Something to ponder upon.....
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught
within your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't love, it's lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't love, it's low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt
them?
It isn't love, it's pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't love, it's charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it
hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and
relation pulls you close and holds you there?
Then it's love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's love.
Would you allow them to leave you , not because they want to but
because they have to?
Then its love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's love.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it
all we search for in life? This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addictive
that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it
with someone.
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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...** -
Is there true love?
May...or may not be...
I lost mine...maybe not be found again... -
" You cannot find true love where it does not exist, And u cannot hide it where it truly does"
"The only feeling of real loss is when you love someone more than you love yourself"
" You will be doing anything for the one u love, except love them again..."
think this was taken form the Runaway Bride movie. =) -
Wow so funny...
Hee Hee!
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Thanks a lot for all the advices. Yup, it's really difficult to distinguish love from like from infatuation. Crysania, what a wonderful piece of poem u had posted me, it's really very inspiring. Mayb I should just forget abt all my "crushes" perhaps and concentrate on my last yr of studies and all the best to all of you. See u...
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
alamakz.....last yr still dun want to work hard.... do well in studies sure to get zha bo one... u think they are limited mehz??? think for 1.3 gers to 1 guy here in S'pore.. hee hee...Originally posted by mikegk_76:Thanks a lot for all the advices. Yup, it's really difficult to distinguish love from like from infatuation. Crysania, what a wonderful piece of poem u had posted me, it's really very inspiring. Mayb I should just forget abt all my "crushes" perhaps and concentrate on my last yr of studies and all the best to all of you. See u...
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
To me, to have true love is to make sure the person is happy no matter what, no matter if they're with you, or not. When they're happy, you're happy. When they're sad, you're sad, and so on. So if you proposed and got rejected, don't feel sad, just make sure the person is happy.
ahya i think i go out of point liao. In short, i feel that we NEED NOT be with our true love. So thoughts about being with her might not appeal, it's just natural.
(i think it's that time of the year when i'm talking crap again) -
Hey...this person looks familiar...am I seeing myself?? HeHe...but I think I'm more si xin yan then U...geeze...which day is ur bday ard?? HeHe, maybe same day huh!!
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LOVE? Its kind of complicated, but let me tell you this......the second you are willing to make yourself miserable to make someone else happy, that's LOVE right
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Sam Sam -
So back to true love. I agree that if u love someone, u will want that someone to b happy and not to possess him/her. Aaron, although u can say all this, can u really do it if u r in such a situation, not easy, rite? I had experienced thinking of a particular girl for so long that I can't eat nor sleep, but she got a bf, what can I do? I one who dun like competition, since she had a bf, I will give up loh. This kind of "wishing her happy" feeling is really miserable, anyone here understands my pain...Originally posted by aaron84z:To me, to have true love is to make sure the person is happy no matter what, no matter if they're with you, or not. When they're happy, you're happy. When they're sad, you're sad, and so on. So if you proposed and got rejected, don't feel sad, just make sure the person is happy.
ahya i think i go out of point liao. In short, i feel that we NEED NOT be with our true love. So thoughts about being with her might not appeal, it's just natural.
(i think it's that time of the year when i'm talking crap again)
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
*Sam Sam raise both hand raise both leg. Me EXACTLY like U...sama samaOriginally posted by mikegk_76:So back to true love. I agree that if u love someone, u will want that someone to b happy and not to possess him/her. Aaron, although u can say all this, can u really do it if u r in such a situation, not easy, rite? I had experienced thinking of a particular girl for so long that I can't eat nor sleep, but she got a bf, what can I do? I one who dun like competition, since she had a bf, I will give up loh. This kind of "wishing her happy" feeling is really miserable, anyone here understands my pain...
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LOVE? Its kind of complicated, but let me tell you this......the second you are willing to make yourself miserable to make someone else happy, that's LOVE right
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Sam Sam
[This message has been edited by UgLy BuT AdOrabLe (edited 04 November 2000).] -
there is no such thing as true love
there is love..but no true love
men are fickle, not becos we wan to be .. but bcos things are forever changing, circumstances, feelings, moods and so our preferences may change over time. It just a matter of how u deal with these changes, do u make compromises, make the best of what u have .. or do u bail out?
so what is true love then???? its too abstract for we all have our own reasons and justifications why we fall in and out of love -
True love does exist,but it's akin to looking for a needle in a haystack,ehee
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If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you on my plate,
I would eat you up and pray the Lord, i put on some weight
If I knew it would be the last time that I see you drop onto the floor,
I would call the waiter over and ask for 1 more.
If I knew it would be the last meal before i go to sleep,
I would sleep soundly knowing you are in my stomach deep.
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well i think there's no such thing as TRUE love. in terms of relationships anyway.
love can be in many forms, towards many other people.
but specifically, in a relationship, i would know if i love the person or not if
<Eg 1>
he's picking his nose and i dont feel grossed out but still dont mind kissing such a fella
<Eg 2>
he's getting flabbier and not as fit as b4, plus takes u for granted sometimes instead of showering u with love and gifts and flowers when he was courting you. but u still want to be with him.
well basically i would know i love a person when inspite of all his mistakes and grossness and whatever shortcomings, i'm able to look past that and love the person.
but of course, u gotta make sure the person loves u back or else its not worth it !!
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Another good illustration of Love...
But I think it's worth more than $0.02. I'm sure it took u several yrs to realise it, and to tell us from ur experience, surely it's worth more that that... he ehee
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Barely Bearing Berry Belly Bear -
I guess in today's world...True lOve does not exists..even though i hope to believe it does...
In Today's world i guess ppl are too busy wif life work blah blah..dat they dun really bother abt finding true lOve...in other words i guess in today's society and world it's hard for ppl to remain devoted to one true love...
As fOr loVe...i think many ppl tend to coNfuse this wiF like..Love is not possessing buT lEttiNg gO...iF the other persOn is hAppy..i gUess if u really love him/her u will feel a tinge of misery and bitterness but u will be happy for the person....
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Someday,
Somewhere,
Someone beyond compare
Will come your way...
Forevermore to stay... -
wah lao...it is getting worse...true love? please...thhose who claim they found true love is those that found someone that will take watever shit they have...damn...how naive can singaporeans be? i think its those damn movies...true love lives in story books..and scripts that directors and scriptwriters writes...evrything isnt true...including love...those who are in "true" love...wait...then you see...
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life sucks and so do you -
I might define true love as such: I want to share everything with my loved one. I want to see her smiling all the time, with pure bliss and joy.
I want her to share my happiness. I want her to share my sentiments. I want her to be in everything I do. -
what bloody crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!