Backstab by my bf's sister (2)

• marshmallow

  25 Apr 03, 01:12

  Hi... wanna say thanks to all of you!!!
  
  Anyway, I confronted his sister few days ago... she admitted everything. She said sorry to me. Then I say i can forgive her if she seriously will change. She say she really wanna change...ok..so I believed in her.. (my bf know liao) So my bf called his auntie and relatives and told them the truth liao...His sister's bf knew abt this so he went to tell her that his brother told everyone the truth already. She called me....and she sound angry and asked me what did i do behind her back. I asked her..what did i do? Then slowly we quarrelled.. I told her I juz need to clear everything. She dunno why denied everything...and say I wanna spoil her relationship with everyone... Haiz...then she called their relatives again then she told her sister that they dislike me again....Later on, she called me again and say sorry. I told her she cannot gain my trust anymore. She say nvm...if she backstab her again, i can beat her..do anything i like. She ask for my forgiveness but i didn't forgive her..Later on, i found out again that she backstab her own sister... that means she never change at all...
  well...if this continues... I really need a counsellor!!! it juz goes round and round and round..never stop...
  
  Now... we never talked to each other..
  
  Oh ya...when we quarrelled..she said that because of me, his brother treated her differently. I said that its his problem not mine...I didn't ask him to treat you like that. She said its becos of me...She might be jealous of his brother treat me very well and so she do this..but what abt others who doesn't deserve her backstabbing??
  
  I really will breakdown and its my luck knowing this kind of person!!!
  
  
• Honeybunz

  25 Apr 03, 13:53

  Originally posted by marshmallow:

  Hi... wanna say thanks to all of you!!!
  
  Anyway, I confronted his sister few days ago... she admitted everything. She said sorry to me. Then I say i can forgive her if she seriously will change. She say she really wanna change...ok..so I believed in her.. (my bf know liao) So my bf called his auntie and relatives and told them the truth liao...His sister's bf knew abt this so he went to tell her that his brother told everyone the truth already. She called me....and she sound angry and asked me what did i do behind her back. I asked her..what did i do? Then slowly we quarrelled.. I told her I juz need to clear everything. She dunno why denied everything...and say I wanna spoil her relationship with everyone... Haiz...then she called their relatives again then she told her sister that they dislike me again....Later on, she called me again and say sorry. I told her she cannot gain my trust anymore. She say nvm...if she backstab her again, i can beat her..do anything i like. She ask for my forgiveness but i didn't forgive her..Later on, i found out again that she backstab her own sister... that means she never change at all...
  well...if this continues... I really need a counsellor!!! it juz goes round and round and round..never stop...
  
  Now... we never talked to each other..
  
  Oh ya...when we quarrelled..she said that because of me, his brother treated her differently. I said that its his problem not mine...I didn't ask him to treat you like that. She said its becos of me...She might be jealous of his brother treat me very well and so she do this..but what abt others who doesn't deserve her backstabbing??
  
  I really will breakdown and its my luck knowing this kind of person!!!
  
  

  Don't be too close to your bf's family. Be cordial, can already. When too close, frictions tend to occur. It will be tough for your bf to decide who to side with.
• Honeybunz

  25 Apr 03, 22:30

  If you plan to marry your bf, you have to be careful.
  
  Lotsa frictions in marriages are caused by relatives and family members of the spouse.
• marshmallow

  1 May 03, 20:32

  Those who read my 1st part of the story....pls tell me more of your comments...thanks
• loneryu00

  2 May 03, 08:19

  Originally posted by marshmallow:

  Those who read my 1st part of the story....pls tell me more of your comments...thanks

  U have to be wary of yr BF's family, ESPECIALLY da sis... "A leopard can NEVER change its spots..." & somemore da family so easily believe her "story"... either they r gullible OR they do not noe da sis"s true character...
  
  BUT if U truely love yr BF & intend to tie da knot, love prevails anything.