Good point....Originally posted by Bear:Babygal,
I can't say that it's not possible for anything to happen in this world. coz couples of age differences more than ten yrs are happily married together. But I hope that u wun let this sudden interest for the new guy be one that will blind u... coz not to say anything, but as a guy myself, I would say u have to be more careful.
I dun quite encourage the ask-him-out, but a drop-hints techique. Coz it will mean u r an easy catch and the guy wun appreciate u as much. Since u r saying that u are still in contact wif him, maybe just sort of sound u r interested in him... and see for urself his reaction... and if he has the similiar kind of interest to know u better.. then he will ask u out.. But the key point is dun over express urself...
PERSONALLY, I would say that life is full of 'adventures'... It's nice to try out things that you like in life once in a while.... But better know what you're doing......Originally posted by babygal:oso..just to add..how to appraoch him? how to date him or wooo him?
Worse. wait he treat u as sparetyre.Originally posted by babygal:sigh jus realise tat he is attached, but relationship is on the rock. Feeling so sad abt it!
At least things are kinda OBVIOUS for now...?Originally posted by babygal:sigh jus realise tat he is attached, but relationship is on the rock. Feeling so sad abt it!
Don't think too much loh, there's still plentiful of gd guys out there...Originally posted by babygal:sigh jus realise tat he is attached, but relationship is on the rock. Feeling so sad abt it!
I'm ALWAYS AVAILABLE...Originally posted by babygal:well we sms again yesterday. He and his gf has settled their things. He did not know tat i have a crush on him. However he ask me abt it and he admit tat he do have some special feelings for me as well. However since we both admit the little special feelings for each other, we decide not to let things get out of hand as it can be very painful.... anyway we stay as "siblings" and close fren. wat u guys think?
Methinks its a good choice. Just to share something...Originally posted by babygal:However since we both admit the little special feelings for each other, we decide not to let things get out of hand as it can be very painful.... anyway we stay as "siblings" and close fren. wat u guys think?
hmm.. I would also think that it's a good idea... at least get to know each other better first before any thing serious happens.. and have to be sure that somethings are settled and nothing is in ur way then it will be good for any 2 pple to start a r/s. I would say, at this moment, I believe it's wat I always say, interested-to-know stage... so get to know him well first lahz... even as a fren... or like wat u said he's now ur sibling...Originally posted by babygal:well we sms again yesterday. He and his gf has settled their things. He did not know tat i have a crush on him. However he ask me abt it and he admit tat he do have some special feelings for me as well. However since we both admit the little special feelings for each other, we decide not to let things get out of hand as it can be very painful.... anyway we stay as "siblings" and close fren. wat u guys think?
I'm ALWAYS AVAILABLE...Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by babygal:
[b]well we sms again yesterday. He and his gf has settled their things. He did not know tat i have a crush on him. However he ask me abt it and he admit tat he do have some special feelings for me as well. However since we both admit the little special feelings for each other, we decide not to let things get out of hand as it can be very painful.... anyway we stay as "siblings" and close fren. wat u guys think?
I'M ALWAYS AVAILABLEOriginally posted by babygal:err...wat u mean by tat? u mean he is saying that i might have a chance? i doubt so. he already say dun let things get out of hand if not can be painful.
~Sigh..~ People... COMPLICATIONs..... Hey! Sounds like an interesting game to me...?! :pOriginally posted by babygal:i think wat u ppl say make sense. But seriously, if u r in a r/s, do u really take yr own sweet time getting to know tat person until u really very sure tat u r ready? if u really like tat person u really let time tell? i duno. many of my fren don't cos he/she may jus be another person's gf/bf. Anyway despite him ahving gf, he still sms me every nite when he not wif gf. he did tell me not to sms him fr fri to sat nite cos he wif gf. Anyway like wat u ppl and wat i say earlier, treat him as my bro first.
Little mind... ~Great thinking..~ Hope it's NOT a pessimestic point of view that hits in just by coincidence...??Originally posted by keyi:not advisable.. endless miseries ahead..