is gf or bf so important ????
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is bf or gf so important during sec sch or poly or jc life??
i understand everyone need to find one sooner or later
having a gf at this age is a need or a muz?? -
Well during school time, if have fine, dun have also okie........ leave it to fate.
Shui Yuan........ :p
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nOthiNg iS ImpOsSibLE In tHiS wOrLd
EvEn tHe wOrD ImPoSsiBLe SaYs "i'M pOsSiBLe" -
i dun think it's important. in fact i prefer to b on my own. not restricted!!!!
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I prefer to use the description of lust and curiosity to answer this question.
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your teenager life will never be complete if u didn't date at these stage!!!!!
conclusion.....i AGREE! -
Factors:
1. peer pressure.
when you see yr friends in pairs, you silently wish that you can be like him/her.
2. Media.
actually even during yr parent's time, they also have courtship in school! accept that they are not as fortunate as us to have telephone, handphones, sms, icq.....
now, a lot of movies, esp jap serials have all the love examples which teenagers would like to follow.
3. other factors, which has strong influence on you.
tata -
It comes naturally... there is no such thing as "it is a must or not" When it come... it comes. Nothing can stop it. Not even you!!!
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haha so u all agree tat it is ok or having a gf or bf for fun la .....
haha so how many of u hav bf/gf???
haha ask for fun only
erm.... wat abt will u go sian a gal althought u don like her??? hehe -
Love is poetry
Paper and glass
Meet up more with life
Before it breaks or burns you .
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Of coz it feels good to have one, but it doesn't matter dat much if u dun, like ruthie said, u'll enjoy so much more freedom..
However, U'll long for someone to share ur Ups n Downs in ur life....therefore, there's pros n cons.. depend on how you see
I use to long for one, but, I dun anymore, doesn't really matters to me anymore, what's more important to me now, perhaps is how to cheong my life to the fullest ops, i mean live my life to the fullest :p :p
See the Point??
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Why do i sometimes get the feeling that i am being ignored? Maybe it is just me
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wahahaha so u go where chiongOriginally posted by UgLy BuT AdOrabLe:Of coz it feels good to have one, but it doesn't matter dat much if u dun, like ruthie said, u'll enjoy so much more freedom..
However, U'll long for someone to share ur Ups n Downs in ur life....therefore, there's pros n cons.. depend on how you see
I use to long for one, but, I dun anymore, doesn't really matters to me anymore, what's more important to me now, perhaps is how to cheong my life to the fullest ops, i mean live my life to the fullest :p :p
See the Point?? -
i cheong lotsa place!
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U mean u cheong lots of laboratories doing lab work... HeheheOriginally posted by UgLy BuT AdOrabLe:i cheong lotsa place!
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Looks like I miss out a lot of stuffs in my
teenager's days
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Mosquitoes are my No.1 Arch enemies!!! :< -
Can't imagine u think like this, to hav a gf or bf thing really needs some fate, not juz to experience it during a certain stage of life, no wonder couples break that easily nowadays. Is your thinking too modern or mine too old-fashioned, huh?Originally posted by yuppiez:your teenager life will never be complete if u didn't date at these stage!!!!!
conclusion.....i AGREE!
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Mike, what a thing to say!
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Why do i sometimes get the feeling that i am being ignored? Maybe it is just me
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hmm...a bf or gf really do gif u much encouragement n emotional support in watever u do.. so i think having one is gd!! of cos when quarrels come in..thats a diff story!~
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what? did I say something wrong, Sandee, pls enlighten me, but to me, one and only everlasting relationship is enough. That's why I won't hurry into getting involved in a relationship loh...Originally posted by UgLy BuT AdOrabLe:Mike, what a thing to say!
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
heavyarm,
having a gfriend/bfriend at this time is neither a need nor a must. It's either afterschool entertainment, or a waste of time.
For guys, the main motivation is hanky panky. For girls, it's time to either start fulfilling childhood cinderella fantasies,or practice womanly wiles. -
then u find any gf(i suppose u are a male) to hanky panky?Originally posted by Gine:heavyarm,
having a gfriend/bfriend at this time is neither a need nor a must. It's either afterschool entertainment, or a waste of time.
For guys, the main motivation is hanky panky. For girls, it's time to either start fulfilling childhood cinderella fantasies,or practice womanly wiles. -
At this stage, it's called puppy love...no vision, no worries, no planning...hehe. it's pretty much like fun under the sun...which is good in a way, bad in another.Originally posted by heavyarm:is bf or gf so important during sec sch or poly or jc life??
i understand everyone need to find one sooner or later
having a gf at this age is a need or a muz??
Anyhow, gf/bf at this stage is entirely unnecessary, especially if u both are basically just frens. I saw as many as 45-56 attachments and breakups in my time in higher education level ....most of them were not worth it anyway...