still be frens wif ur ex who once did u wrong?
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would u all still choose to be frens wif them if they two time u before? if choose not to be frens already, n u happened to meet him on streets one day, wat would u do? say hello or simply walk off? esp. if he has a gf beside him!!!
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walk off. unless u have a macho bf beside u can show him tat u are better off without him... hahaha
U can say u will still remain friends, but I think after a while you will lose all contacts. And I prefer not to remember someone tat caused me hurt before.
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**I want u to be with me.....
be with me in the morning...be with me in the nite...with me when its dark out...with me when its light...
I want u to be with me...no matter what we do...just keep this reminder...of how much I love u...** -
It's easier said than done. I too, would not want to remind myself of such unpleasant memories. But as a guy, I feel that I should be more generous, forgive and forget. Life is such a paradox.
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Yup, I totally agree with u, to forget all the unpleasant memories really is tough, but if u really met him on the streets one day, mayb what u can do is pretend to b talking to the frd bside u n totally treat him as transparent loh. He's the one who two-timed u, so u would not hav to feel guilty or whatsoever, u hav every right to ignore him...Originally posted by Larry:It's easier said than done. I too, would not want to remind myself of such unpleasant memories. But as a guy, I feel that I should be more generous, forgive and forget. Life is such a paradox.
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
if my ex is still willing, I am agreeable...
just forgive and let it rest...
pursuing wat tat're bygones is meaningless...
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If you love somebody, let them go,
for if they return, they were always yours.
And if they don't, they never were.
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The way u post this, u make me sound like a girl.Originally posted by mikegk_76:Yup, I totally agree with u, to forget all the unpleasant memories really is tough, but if u really met him on the streets one day, mayb what u can do is pretend to b talking to the frd bside u n totally treat him as transparent loh. He's the one who two-timed u, so u would not hav to feel guilty or whatsoever, u hav every right to ignore him...
Nah..... I'm a guy and we guys should be more forgiving to our ex-gfs. Life is much simpler this way. -
it's easier said then done i believe.. well, wat if i happened to meet him one day on the streets wif his gf but i am alonE? wah...its gonna be a tragedy for me...
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Btw how young are u?Originally posted by joanne:it's easier said then done i believe.. well, wat if i happened to meet him one day on the streets wif his gf but i am alonE? wah...its gonna be a tragedy for me... -
Not that serious lah, dun b that anxious. If u met him, juz treat him transparent cos he two-timed u, mayb juz avoid him if u really afraid of the embarassment. But guess the guy won't b that cruel to introduce u to his present gf and cause u any embarassment loh...Originally posted by joanne:it's easier said then done i believe.. well, wat if i happened to meet him one day on the streets wif his gf but i am alonE? wah...its gonna be a tragedy for me...
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
hmm..how old u think i am?
18 this yr -
Let Bygone be bygone... Said easier than done.Originally posted by joanne:hmm..how old u think i am?
18 this yr
If you meet him on the streets one day, and you find that you still love him...
Forgive him, forget him not....
If you meet him on the streets one day, but find that he've hurt you too much...
Forget him, forgive him not necessary....
You're only 18... One day, when you walk on the streets.. You'll 'forget' him....
"Tears that run down my cheeks,
water that spilled out of my broken glass...
It cuts so DEEP, the wound that bleeds....
My flesh is numb, my heart is cold...
The glass that shattered, a million folds..
The heart that's broken, I pick up not..
For my wound would heal to a single dot...
The sun would shine on my eyes so swollen,
the rain would drown on a heart so bitter...
I crossed my heart to reach beneath...
The hurt I seek... Just broken glasses..."
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ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
haizzz hey the 1 above me
like very tong ku leh
cheer up la
u like very old liao
still cannot kan po hong cheng ah -
Judging from the way u analyse your problem, u can't b older than 21 yrs of age, but shd b younger than that too, did I guess correctly?Originally posted by joanne:hmm..how old u think i am?
18 this yr
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
hmm...actually i recovered already from the hurt n the pain..i just wanna noe how it will be like if i really met him on the streets..me still quite young..thats rite! so no point hanging wif the past memories!!!
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Originally posted by evyTriesToGo:haizzz hey the 1 above me
like very tong ku leh
cheer up la
u like very old liao
still cannot kan po hong cheng ah
Not 'tong ku'... It's just a sentiment... Afterall, it's just HISTORY for now... History comes, history goes.... Tomorrow's a FUTURE and tomorrow could be a PAST.... Life is LIGHT... It's gonna be a heavy burden only if you decide to stack everything above you....
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oicic, "xiao mei mei", actually you hav much more experience than me liao considering your age, I think I b at least 5 yrs older than u loh. U worry too much lah, a teenager like u shd take this time to play hard, youth doesn't last, must make the best out of it. If u worry too much, u grow old faster, must take care...Originally posted by joanne:hmm...actually i recovered already from the hurt n the pain..i just wanna noe how it will be like if i really met him on the streets..me still quite young..thats rite! so no point hanging wif the past memories!!!
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
HEY! You born same year as me!!!Originally posted by mikegk_76:oicic, "xiao mei mei", actually you hav much more experience than me liao considering your age, I think I b at least 5 yrs older than u loh. U worry too much lah, a teenager like u shd take this time to play hard, youth doesn't last, must make the best out of it. If u worry too much, u grow old faster, must take care...
PPP
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I exactly know what you mean, and somethings are just too hard to forget no matter how much you try... but if one so unfortunate day that i were to see her with her bf, i would just say hi.
Somethings are better left buried and not worth digging up again unless both of you have still have strong feelings for one another. Then, that is another story...
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The stretch of my memory is rolling as a snowball accumulating regret. My imagination of warmth is elusive. Walking towards a desert with no colour, I'm wishing as I'm looking into an ocean of still tears. Tinted and cracked plaster is what's left in me.
I hear suffocated memories and looking at forgotten voices. My hopes all lowly lit,closing in,the edge of Darkness?
The answer falling; the muscles strained,the eyes died; the wounds wide. -
well after breaking up of coz i muz show him that i am better off than him..somemore he has a gf with him!!!!!! if i am alone...i think i will hide somewhere first!
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actually there is a very complicated story between me n him..he wanted a breakup, n i initiated to be frens as i still love him..then i realise that he did me wrong while we were together..then i was so hurt n decided to let this past go..n he didnt want to let me go..pesisted to be frens wif me etc. but i didnt want..so thinking if saw him wif his gf..how would i react! hmm..well, me onli 18, not that old..n i am enjoying my life well! i am not brooding abt the past..post this topic for fun only..
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Glad to hear that, no use brooding over the matter too, agreed? Oh, u juz wanna see how others view your problem, ok, no problem, study hard, after exams, play hard.Originally posted by joanne:actually there is a very complicated story between me n him..he wanted a breakup, n i initiated to be frens as i still love him..then i realise that he did me wrong while we were together..then i was so hurt n decided to let this past go..n he didnt want to let me go..pesisted to be frens wif me etc. but i didnt want..so thinking if saw him wif his gf..how would i react! hmm..well, me onli 18, not that old..n i am enjoying my life well! i am not brooding abt the past..post this topic for fun only..
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
i think it's ok for ex-couples to remain frens if they break amicably. They can even continue to confide in each other.
However, those that break up under controversial circumstances will undoubtly stay apart...they are less likely to saty as frens...