how to cross the line?
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been going out with a girl for a few times
doing casual stuff, and im sure i really like her but how do i cross the line and
tell her i want more than a casual relationship? how do i up the intimacy level?? -
Going out means... just going out as friends or already steady?
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going out as frds
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LIFE is a long path to go... No hurries... Unless you think you're easy to go...?
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simple if u have the gut
just follow my example
got several methods
I tried #2 & #4, 1 success, 1 failure.
my friend tried #3, kanna trashed, hahaha
hahahaa... just take things easy lah
#1. tell her straight in the face
#2. send her an email
#3. pass her a letter
#4. icq works fine 2
well, there should be many more methods out there. errr... I dunno these, heee... I'm abit more blunt lor, not tactful at all but if she likes u hor, any methods works fine. And these direct method hor, get answers fastest mah, and more accurate, not half-half.
The way 2 go, my way, do or die, better die in knowledge of my doom than in ignorance.
The magic word, 'Ask' and u will noe
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The peace I yearn,
a tale to tell,
of pains so deep,
my soul in hell.
In search of peace,
from heaven to hell,
till the end of time,
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My soul in pain,
my thirst unsated.
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lowlife:
How's things going for u?? haf u asked her?? I sure hope that things are going well for u.
Just in case if u r still wondering abt the qns I can only tell u, a safe way is to find out if she has that interest in u as well. Maybe it's gonna hurt u slightly if she gif some negative replies, or something which is not wat u had in mind.
But *touch wood* if things dun work out as planned... like she said 'no'. it doesn't mean u fail, maybe it's wrong approach, maybe it too early too like wat u said.. not knowing each other for long... Maybe it's playing hard to get...
Watever it is.. I wish u all the best in getting the girls of ur dreamz...
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we are having exams now so both of us r kinda busy...so it'll have to wait but she's THE one, that one which i really like so i wont wanna screw this up..
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going out together might not mean anything or similarly it might mean something.try to find out whether she''s also having the same feeling for u but dun rush.take things slowly.
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finding out whether she's also feeling the same way IS the hard part...
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Hehe, it's like this lah, me also got this problem before cos some gals really r too friendly giving u false signals, the first thing u shd do is actually to hit up a conversation and while talking, ask her whether she had a bf, mayb then she will knw what u r getting at, but dun rush, wait for the rite time, gd luck..Originally posted by lowlife:finding out whether she's also feeling the same way IS the hard part...
keep getting mixed signals
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Can understand ur feeling.i myself also find it very hard to understand girl.i juz generally classified them as a group of ppl who really dun know how to express themselves. other than advicing u to have a frank talk with her,i dun know what to tell u.wish u all the best.
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can I just ask how old is the girl?? I think it's one her first few times handling problems of the heart rite??
Anyway girls dun dare to make the move to give a clear signal is becoz they tend to worryz if the guy will be true to them or not... I mean just look ard... is there mroe cases of guys cheating on the girls?? or the girls cheating on guys?? I would say there are girls cheating on guys, but it's usually the former that we see in the society.. and hence girls will put up more barriers in between and wun dare to openly display their feelings esp when u are still yet to prove urself further...
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i believe leaving things till after the exams is better than trying to do something now. Honestly speaking (not to dampen u hor, please), some gals juz wanna find a male companion from time to time, especially during stressful times, so say if she still bothers to go out with u and keeps relatively good r'ship with u, then i think that's the time that u should take the appropriate actions.
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sorrie, i mean after the exams...
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Better be sure what you want to do, and do your best once you know what you want to do... ...