Wat do u view of this
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If a guy,who has a gf,and a girl behaves very closely like a couple,wat do u call this???
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Filrting ard!Originally posted by birdbird:If a guy,who has a gf,and a girl behaves very closely like a couple,wat do u call this??? -
why u all girls hav this impression? Anyway, he didn't say how close he is to the other girl(not his gf), rite?Originally posted by ZiZi:Filrting ard!
So, even if the guy has a gf, can't he hav a close frd("hong yan zhi ji) who's a girl? Some guys get along better with girls than with guys mah, hehe, mayb I talking abt myself, but really wanna bring out this pt to girls out there loh, not all guys have close friends of the similar sex, ok?
This is definitely not flirting, unless they are that close till they even have close body contact loh, that's a different story.
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
Agreed. I myself have a gf, and a couple of platonic friends too. I am very close to them as they are my really good friends. No body contact somemore.
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If ur GF knew u guys haf gd buddy who are gals,of coz tat doesn't consider as flirting.But if those guys who simply dun want to let his GF knew about it & go out wif them while saying he is going out wif friends.Then may i know y?Y do they haf to hide behind their GF if they are onli normal gd/close friend who doesn't haf body contact wif???
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Look at it this way. Some guys fear that their gfs might misunderstood if they tell them straight, which is to me, a lame excuse for not telling them.
Some are really up to no good, which is for the obvious.
For me, I will let my gf know whenever I am going out with them. And she understands that good friends need some private time too. -
Hey look, I have tons of gal friends, and we have body contact....(when they pass me stuff, our hands touch...) hahahahah. And I admit at times the sexual tensions run high, and you think you fall for one of the girls. A perfectly platonic relationship with the opp sex does not exist from my point of view. You will always have this "thing" about being in a group full of the opp sex, but you don't let it develope into a full blown BGR arena. That is unless you are gay......and I have gay friends.
I am a guy, I mix better with the girls, because they offer me a sense of security, strange but true. I don't always play the part of macho male protects gals. It's almost always the other way around, unless pure brute force is required. OKok, this applies only when I am single, cause when I am attached, I cannot seem to find time to hang around the gals, and even if I do, I cannot shake off the idea that I am already someone else's property. But we still discuss about my buaya habits.
So do I flirt? Yes, I flirt, in a subtle way, my coach flirts too, he's got a wife and several girlfriends all over asia......but he sees it as enjoying the company of a beautiful lady. I am not saying we should follow this, but some people are like that, and they know their limits. They dun bring their gfs home either. -
STRANGE TOPIC....
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Hey, u seems offended to what I had said earlier huh? Of course, not all guys r gd guys, but nt all r bad too. If I had this gd frd who's a gal, of course I will let my other half know, nothing wrong with that, right? Don't treat all guys as "huai nan ren", ok? hehe, don't take it so seriously abt what I said, okOriginally posted by ZiZi:If ur GF knew u guys haf gd buddy who are gals,of coz tat doesn't consider as flirting.But if those guys who simply dun want to let his GF knew about it & go out wif them while saying he is going out wif friends.Then may i know y?Y do they haf to hide behind their GF if they are onli normal gd/close friend who doesn't haf body contact wif???
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
but i really have some great guy friends leh... some are friends from secondary school, some are from my course in poly now... and never had it crossed my mind that since we are already good friends, and we are closed to each other, we can bring it one step further.Originally posted by crosshairs:A perfectly platonic relationship with the opp sex does not exist from my point of view.
i still believe in friendship btw two person of different genders. frankly, sometimes really need some friends of the opposite gender to find out guys i am interested in...hehehehehe
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Yup, that's my kind of pple, one who believes in true boy-girl frdship, it's real mah, I hav so many gal frds although I dun hav a girlfrd, heheheOriginally posted by liyan:but i really have some great guy friends leh... some are friends from secondary school, some are from my course in poly now... and never had it crossed my mind that since we are already good friends, and we are closed to each other, we can bring it one step further.
i still believe in friendship btw two person of different genders. frankly, sometimes really need some friends of the opposite gender to find out guys i am interested in...hehehehehe
that is a different story altogether...
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off