Bf on the run
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Originally posted by Kim P:
Before my wife married me, she had a bf who broke up with her, it was her first relationship too and she could not take the emotional pain and attempted suicide because of it.
We have now been happily married (of course we have our arguments & adjustments because we are two completely different people trying to live together as one ) for 6 yrs with very adorable kids. But unfortunately the bf ( was a good friend of mine ) had divorced his wife.
If you find the right one, it will be heaven on earth, but if you find the wrong one... it is better to remain a single
Hope you find the right one for you
totally true, the crucial thing is to find the right 1.
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I have the urge to...
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It depends also on what was the heated debate about. If you have done nothing wrong, you do not need to feel bad about this. Let the relationship have a cooling off period, if he really wants to maintain this relationship, he will come back to you.
If he choose otherwise, it is better for you to let go. In the meantime, go meet other friends, widen your circle of friends, you will find that your life don't to revolve just you and your bf. That would occupy your mind for a while at least.
Hope this helps.
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hope you're feeling better girl. :)
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stay strong, happiness comes from within :)
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ya, bfs only mah, outside alot to take and pick, it is not even your husband yet, so you hv no much rights to stop him from doing it his own way, learn to be clever next time, chop first.
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Originally posted by jollebean:
I had a heated quarrel with my bf last week and since then, he did not reply to my sms, phone calls. He even blocked me on msn. I even found out that he has added 2 new girls on his msn.
I dont know whether he wants a silent breakup. I tried asking him over sms and email but he just refused to speak a word. People advised me to look him up at his workplace, home but i dont want to create an ugly scene.
I feel abandoned and cheated. I am in emotional distress. What should I do? I just want a closure if he really wants a breakup
Drop him. Such juvenile manipulative tactics, regardless of what the arguments were. You still have the option to retain some integrity.
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ts
u mixed with the WRONG bf
your bf used the arguments with u as a EXCUSE to tell u - GAME OVER
take this as a learning process and be brave
there are still very good guys outside waiting for u to explore and know
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Originally posted by Tempo0203:
It is indeed unfortunate, isnt it?
Well, sometimes we have no control over matters of the heart. Part of the reason I felt so strongly towards him is because he was my first ever - in almost everything. Does that now satisfy your curiousity? It's not like I wanted/asked to take a year to get over him and the relationship (oh trust me if i could i would have wanted it to end in like a second); maybe I just take a longer time than you (or others, i dont know) to heal emotionally.
It is well that you know the reason for your heartache. When I was 20 I had a 10-month arms-length relationship that never went past the dating stage and which my ex took very long to get over.
There is just so much misunderstanding out there over what relationships are about. We can't have marriage coming overnight. Some people however are satisfied with having a lifetime of dissatisfaction.
to alize,
not everyone view courtsip as a trial run...it depends how u look at it...to such ppl, theres a difference btw dating and courtship...cating is trial run but courtship is not...perhaps TS belongs to this category of ppl...
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ts
your bf is eyeing new target - sorry to say that
embrace yourself through on e of your darkest period - tomorow will be better
明天會更好(Tomorrow will be even better)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RYS8vlVH7cI&feature=related
ATT 9 - Tomorrow Will Be Better (English Version)
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ts
i say sorry first
lucky your bf did not fall for your best friends (good sisterhood)
for that scenario, u cried no tears
becos that night mares is going to surround and haunt for a long period of time
u will really live in agony
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Originally posted by jollebean:
I had a heated quarrel with my bf last week and since then, he did not reply to my sms, phone calls. He even blocked me on msn. I even found out that he has added 2 new girls on his msn.
I dont know whether he wants a silent breakup. I tried asking him over sms and email but he just refused to speak a word. People advised me to look him up at his workplace, home but i dont want to create an ugly scene.
I feel abandoned and cheated. I am in emotional distress. What should I do? I just want a closure if he really wants a breakup
Closure ? what closure. Are you so thick skinned that you think he still wants you ?
Your boyfriend don't want you anymore.. but he is too chicken shit to say it to your face.
Get a grip of yourself and stop acting like a victim.
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bu zai hu Tian chang di jiu, Di zai hu cheng jin yong you. That my motto. Last time i also very sad. That i think back. At least got happy moment together. One day all pair will get to split up. The timing part only. Breaking off to me numb nvm. At least i am happy with her before. Always think of the happy moment. THink of your stead maybe die already or go oversea never come back. MIssing already.
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i am very sad
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Originally posted by FireIce:
since he made it so obvious, then u shd move on.
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Originally posted by jollebean:
i am very sad
It's a normal reaction.
Be sad about the whole thing.
Then be sad because your ex acted in this way.
Then be sad because your ex is such an asshole.
Then feel sad and sorry for him because he doesn't realize he's crap.Never feel sorry for yourself.
Go get some ice-cream, stuff yourself silly for one day, go to bed telling yourself over and over again that tomorrow will be a brand new day!
Just don't eat so much that it makes you put on weight cos that will make you feel even crappier.
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To TS
1) Why do you think your bf run?
2) What did you quarrel about that forced him to run?
For a guy to run like that something must have happen but TS only say they quarrel. Without the reason for the quarrel I will not say the bf is wrong
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The only solution for you is to be on your toes once again. life doesnt revolve around bf all the time. You move on as well
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What did u quarrel about?
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I wonder why did you have a heated quarral ?whose fault is it ?
Is that all his fault ?maybe you should calm down and think carefully.if it is your bf fault,
wait for several days until your bf come back to apologize.If he doesn't ,then there is no need to stay with him.
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Originally posted by DRC:
To TS
1) Why do you think your bf run?
2) What did you quarrel about that forced him to run?
For a guy to run like that something must have happen but TS only say they quarrel. Without the reason for the quarrel I will not say the bf is wrong
I ran from mine. I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant bitchin. So I said I wanna end the relationship. After that I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant beggin.
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Originally posted by CfCJ:
The only solution for you is to be on your toes once again. life doesnt revolve around bf all the time. You move on as well
You would have to if your bf had died, anyway.
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Originally posted by alize:
I ran from mine. I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant bitchin. So I said I wanna end the relationship. After that I was fed up, fed up, fed up of her constant beggin.
A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do. -
it is mainly my fault, i apologised via email. asked if we can try again, he said no, no, no
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wah, he is on rehab? He like to sing Amy Winehouse song.