just want to stress he gave an absolute no via email.
Since then, i have been blocked/deleted on msn. He also didnt reply my sms, phonecalls, emails, requests to meet. Just completely cut me off. Doesn't even tell me more or even want to stay on friendly/neutral terms.
As if im the loan shark, and he is the debtor. He just run away completely. I wonder why?
its to prevent himself from getting soft-hearted if he toks to u...so best is to avoid u so that he wun soften his heart...
If you want closure, and he doesn't do that, close it yourself. Initiate the breakup and move on.
every r/s i had, turned out to be like a fling, when i thought there seriousness, real liking and commitment on both parties, they just drop me quickly and said like they dont wanna hurt me anymore
our r/s was like it was only testing, rehearsal..then they just ask me wake up and go away.
Originally posted by jollebean:every r/s i had, turned out to be like a fling, when i thought there seriousness, real liking and commitment on both parties, they just drop me quickly and said like they dont wanna hurt me anymore
our r/s was like it was only testing, rehearsal..then they just ask me wake up and go away.
Saying they don't wanna hurt you anymore is just their way of buffering your fall.
I suppose your personality has a lot to do with frequent abrupt breakups after the initial lovey dovies.
A.It's either you are like that sweet juicy apple on the outside, but nasty and rotten to the core after they peeled off the skin.....
B.Or.. those proclamations of forever love are just ways to get inside your panties. If you are those promiscuous type.. then it's no wonder men tend to use you and dump you.
Are you A, B or both ?
Forgive me if I'm blunt, but as a guy I figure I'll just drop my 2 cents. If he's doing that to you, chances are he don't love you anymore. He wants to find a new partner and is probably sick and tired of you. It's pointless to try to contact him, his message is clear. You should move on, It ain't the end of the world yet. And don't be so persistent, It will make him even more irritated and nothing good will ever come out of it. There are plenty of nice guys out there (and I don't mean those "nice guys" who are usually neither nice or guys whom are more like attention seeking and desperate bastards)..
What you can do for yourself now is to make him regret the decision of walking away from you, and find yourself a better partner, one who loves you more =P Pick up a hobby/ interest (for e.g. swimming, rock climbing or scuba diving, go on a vacation because you really need a holiday) to keep yourself busy so you don't have to think so much about it, sooner or later the feeling of being hurt will just fade away. At the end of the day, It isn't us guys who pick our partners, all we do is offer you a chance to pick us. Hehe, you should try to smile more, days ahead will only get better.
thanks, yr message gave me hope
yes he is already shopping for some items for a new girl..saw on his fb..
while refusing to buy me that particular gift..
i hope he come to no good end!!
Way to go, girl. =P
whatever happens to him needn't be of your interest anymore.
Cheers ^^
ya.btw,.he is working in a company called Singlun
Originally posted by jollebean:ya.btw,.he is working in a company called Singlun
I can see now.. why he dumped you.
You can't have him, now you are out to destroy him.
You are a psycho chick.
Originally posted by jollebean:every r/s i had, turned out to be like a fling, when i thought there seriousness, real liking and commitment on both parties, they just drop me quickly and said like they dont wanna hurt me anymore
our r/s was like it was only testing, rehearsal..then they just ask me wake up and go away.
Sound like you got lots of r/s, but sad that you never learn anything from it yet.
As gals, we must make ourselves like a magnet to guys, attractive and make them salivate over you, but it seem like you get all those repelling N to N or S to S situation. Then something must be wrong with you??