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• ApPlE_PiE

  8 Jul 01, 11:45

  Hi pple..i've got a problem..a real confusing problem.
  
  Recently,i took part in the orientation programme for my sch's freshies.It was realli fun.And oso its dis orientation dat i got the problem.
  
  I came to noe a guy,oso taking part of the orientation.He's realli a nice guy,no matter hw pple bully him,he juz wont get angry.So, as time goes by,we got to noe each other better.Most of the time,u'll see us together.
  
  Even after the programme,we still go out together,but not juz the 2 of us la,with a grp of pple.I enjoy being with him and the both of us have a lot to tok abt.I duno if i had fallen for him,i dun think so rite?I mean,look,its juz a very short period of time i cun be falling for him rite??
  
  Please help me out here...im realli REALLI confused ..thanx!
  
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• *kaiLi*

  8 Jul 01, 13:04

  Originally posted by ApPlE_PiE:

  Hi pple..i've got a problem..a real confusing problem.
  
  Recently,i took part in the orientation programme for my sch's freshies.It was realli fun.And oso its dis orientation dat i got the problem.
  
  I came to noe a guy,oso taking part of the orientation.He's realli a nice guy,no matter hw pple bully him,he juz wont get angry.So, as time goes by,we got to noe each other better.Most of the time,u'll see us together.
  
  Even after the programme,we still go out together,but not juz the 2 of us la,with a grp of pple.I enjoy being with him and the both of us have a lot to tok abt.I duno if i had fallen for him,i dun think so rite?I mean,look,its juz a very short period of time i cun be falling for him rite??
  
  Please help me out here...im realli REALLI confused ..thanx!
  
  

  hmm.. since its orientatn.. i guess it's recent rite?
  den.. how 2 really fall 4 a person in sucha short time.. personally, i still tink tt u shuld know him well 1st b4 u can fall 4 him rite..
  
  hmm.. mayB its juz a crush... let nature takes its own course... time will tell.
  gd luck gal...heh.. hope it does wrk out 2 somethin nice..
  
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• Retrac

  8 Jul 01, 14:26

  Talk to him more and see if you all have more in common, because since you kinda just know him so it's best to know his likes and dislikes before you decide on anything further.
  
  Test water and ask him out alone if possible and then observe his reactions, he may appear different when not together in a group.
  
  Drop little hints and see if he responds, but don't make things too obvious.
  
  All this best in this one... if he doesn't seem to avoid you then make your moves slowly.
• mikegk_76

  8 Jul 01, 14:58

  Originally posted by *kaiLi*:

  hmm.. since its orientatn.. i guess it's recent rite?
  den.. how 2 really fall 4 a person in sucha short time.. personally, i still tink tt u shuld know him well 1st b4 u can fall 4 him rite..
  
  hmm.. mayB its juz a crush... let nature takes its own course... time will tell.
  gd luck gal...heh.. hope it does wrk out 2 somethin nice..
  
  

  I agree with Kaili, it's juz infatuation loh. Juz get to knw him better in the coming year and see hw it goes, ok? Don't rush into a conclusion, agreed?
  
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• Larry

  8 Jul 01, 15:54

  Reminds me of my own varsity orientation 4 years ago.
  
  The idea is that just because u know a guy for a few days, u are guessing whether u have fallen for him or not. Think carefully. Do u know him enough??
• ^TzM 53^

  8 Jul 01, 23:12

  i think is.... there is no fixed time to fall in love... its the feeling.... its not like...ok ...tiam siah gao liao.... ready to fall in love liao~ not wat..there is not such thing...no matter hao short or long the period of time is...when or where...when it comes ...it comes...
• domyoji33

  9 Jul 01, 10:38

  Originally posted by *kaiLi*:

  hmm.. since its orientatn.. i guess it's recent rite?
  den.. how 2 really fall 4 a person in sucha short time.. personally, i still tink tt u shuld know him well 1st b4 u can fall 4 him rite..
  
  hmm.. mayB its juz a crush... let nature takes its own course... time will tell.
  gd luck gal...heh.. hope it does wrk out 2 somethin nice..
  
  

  yup yup .... i believe it's juz a little crush.
  But.... if u really think that this guy is such a good catch that u shouldn't juz let it go. then go for it!!!!! Get to know more abt him n tok tok tok to him to show that u are interested
• Devil1976

  9 Jul 01, 17:10

  Originally posted by ApPlE_PiE:

  time i cun be falling for him rite??
  
  Please help me out here...im realli REALLI confused ..thanx!
  
  

  Hmm.... GOOD QUESTION..... Err... By the way, are you ASKING ME or are you asking yourself....? My answer..? Yup... You're falling in love with him.... Oh oh... Sorry.... NOPE.... You're ACTUALLY not in love with him.... Hmm... YES or NO, would you believe me....? Would you rather choose to BELIEVE ME than to believe in your heart...?? Hmm... Next time you ask such a question, think about how silly you most probably look...? And just another thought..... DOES IT EVEN MATTER...??? Why not you think about what you're gonna do NEXT...?? Or if you're even gonna do anything about it in the 1st place....?
  GEE.... You're a WEIRDO.....
  
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  I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
  I hold no past and see not future...
  These are just samples of illusions....
  I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
  
  ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥....
• ApPlE_PiE

  10 Jul 01, 00:45

  Originally posted by ^TzM 53^:

  i think is.... there is no fixed time to fall in love... its the feeling.... its not like...ok ...tiam siah gao liao.... ready to fall in love liao~ not wat..there is not such thing...no matter hao short or long the period of time is...when or where...when it comes ...it comes...

  yup, i agreed with ^TzM 53^,theres realli no fixed time to fall in love,its the feeling.But now im not even sure if im falling for this guy,thus,nowadaes in school i sort of tried to siam him whenever i can
  pretty stupid rite??
  
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  As LoNg As I SHaLL LiVe
  I'LL HoLd U dEaR
  AnD I wILL rEMiNiScE
  Of OuR LoVe ALL ThRoUgH
  ThE YeArS....
• controversay

  10 Jul 01, 12:22

  I seen ppl go into orientations single and come out of them attached.
  
  Things happen very fast but at the same time, only certain supermen/gals can do that. It's talent, guts and lots of spunk...
  
  Time should never be an obstacle to committment. But that doesn't mean u rush into something as important as this. If both of u feel the same way about each other, then both of u are likely to wait for the right moment before really taking teh next step.
  
  Patience...
• ProSucker

  13 Jul 01, 01:57

  do u already have a boypren when u met this green guy??
  
  if u want this PRO's wordz..dun go for short term relationship .. cos it sucks..
  
  waste time.. waste money.. waste energy.. and you might be wasting your tears too ...
  
  it will be no use crying if it breaks cos you already have anticipate it..
  
  crushes are common... but loyalty is really a test here.. if u already got a boypren...
  
  GD LUCK
  
  As Always....
  
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