Would it last?
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Love.. even after many times of terrible hurt has been done.. would it still last? or just be not as strong as it was before?
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Maybe it might grow stronger after all that have happened? It depends on you to make it happen.
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i agree with Crysania,watever is going to happen in a relationship all depends on the two of u.watever u do will result in watever results.dun b so dismay even after lotsa probs, as long as u still love each other, both of u should think of hw to make the relationship stronger rather than to think of the probs.Originally posted by Crysania:Maybe it might grow stronger after all that have happened? It depends on you to make it happen.
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i agree with Crysania,watever is going to happen in a relationship all depends on the two of u.watever u do will result in watever results.dun b so dismay even after lotsa probs, as long as u still love each other, both of u should think of hw to make the relationship stronger rather than to think of the probs.Originally posted by ApPlE_PiE:[QUOTE]Originally posted by Crysania:
[b]Maybe it might grow stronger after all that have happened? It depends on you to make it happen.
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Hmm... Can't totally agree with ya on this one...?
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
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Hmm... Wonder just what kinda question is this...? Hmm... What makes you ask this kinda question anyway...?Originally posted by InSaNe BitCh:Love.. even after many times of terrible hurt has been done.. would it still last? or just be not as strong as it was before?
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
so many problem btw me and my guy.. everytime i oso beri sad.. altho we r young.. i realli want us to last.. but the will in me is dying alreadi.. the more of dis contuinue.. i don;t think i can take it anymore alreadi.. i'm already not caring as much as b4 weather he call me or not after we argue..
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"altho we r young.. i realli want us to last.. but the will in me is dying alreadi.."
u realize tt u r still young.. n dis means.. u mt still change.. in terms of ur thinkings, likes n dislikes.. mayB when u gt more mature.. u dun see things e same way anymore.. u mt nt wan diz relationship 2 last tt badly anymore..
but, i'm nt encouragin u 2 break up w ur bf.. juz let nature takes its own course.. things ttz goin 2 happen will happen.. juz believe in urself..
all e best.. =)
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that question... i think it all depends on the couple and their relationship
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me aleadi don care anymoreZ! fark it la~
whu care whu care.. no one carEEEQ!@!#@#@
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i guess if its abt lasting, u need alot more than juz ur love and efforts to keep this r/s coz it takes 2 to clap. if u r the onli one giving in after quarrels, i dun think the r/s will move on any further.
a quarrel will onli bring a r/s another step further onli when both parties realise more things abt each other.
when u r young, keep ur options open. you may think tt u've set ur mind to be wif him but eventually, u'll realise tt he's not the onli tree in the forest. at one stage, u'll start to move on coz u haven't had enuff of the fun arnd.
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Hmm... It seems to me that it's not like you don't care at all....? Tell me.... Just how old are you?Originally posted by InSaNe BitCh:me aleadi don care anymoreZ! fark it la~
whu care whu care.. no one carEEEQ!@!#@#@
Perhaps you would not care anymore one day BUT I doubt it's at this very moment...? At this very moment you're CONFUSED...... You don't even know what you want...? How are we suppose to help you IF you don't even know what you want...?
I'm telling you now you do CARE about this relationship...? Do you surf ALOT? I'm not sure... Do you come in here often? I DOUBT so.... YET you bother to ask... Bother to VOICE.... BOTHER to come back for the answer.... I'm not telling you more as you should know this better yourself... You can try to deceive me, you can try to deceive US, BUT you CANNOT deceive yourself....
I'm not asking you to go back to your bf.... If you feel it's not for you (anymore), let it go..... If you feel that you're losing something PRECIOUS to you and it still means TOO MUCH to you then you BETTER ACT FAST.... Don't stand down here... Don't stare blankly into my eyes.... I can't act for you... I can only talk... I can only read your post.... Other than that I'm GOOD FOR NOTHING....
GOOD LUCK.....
CURSED DEVIL
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
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ok, 1 comment on this, n me thinks i'll really be gone......
well, basically, i think it actually depends on how both parties view the hurt lo.....
but like u said terrible hurt...dunno how u define la....but if the guy hurt the ger, depending on wat he did, n how important does the ger think the guy is in her life, the hurt may cause a real missing piece in the r/s the first time, den subsequently, the gap will widen lo....den the r/s will bla bla bla...........but if it's not really anything tt major, and ther hurt party feels tt he/she can overlook tt matter, den well....it's their prob oredi lo.....
pesonally......ru guo shang de tai shen tai zhong, wo ning ke fang qi na duan gan qing.....coz ruo ta zhen xin zhen yi de ai ni, jiu bu hui rang ni ru qi de tong ku, shang xin....forgot how it actually goes la...but it's something like "What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?" yet the person who truly loves u, would never make u cry. =))
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wat i m abt to say is totally(i think) nuting to do wif this topic but it somehao bugges me so here goes..... ;pOriginally posted by t|rEd:ok, 1 comment on this, n me thinks i'll really be gone......
well, basically, i think it actually depends on how both parties view the hurt lo.....
but like u said terrible hurt...dunno how u define la....but if the guy hurt the ger, depending on wat he did, n how important does the ger think the guy is in her life, the hurt may cause a real missing piece in the r/s the first time, den subsequently, the gap will widen lo....den the r/s will bla bla bla...........but if it's not really anything tt major, and ther hurt party feels tt he/she can overlook tt matter, den well....it's their prob oredi lo.....
pesonally......ru guo shang de tai shen tai zhong, wo ning ke fang qi na duan gan qing.....coz ruo ta zhen xin zhen yi de ai ni, jiu bu hui rang ni ru qi de tong ku, shang xin....forgot how it actually goes la...but it's something like "What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?" yet the person who truly loves u, would never make u cry. =))
CheeriOZZ
t|rEd, on yr last sentence 'yet the person who truly loves u, would never make u cry.'
i some hao don agree wif ya...i feel that no matter wat..the person who truly loves u will somehao or rather make u cry...be it good or not ;p ermm... if its for good...i guess will happen more thn once(Rejo|ce)...if not... at least once..(Sad)... so...hence...
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kaoz....gao xing dao ku bu zhen de suan ku lo...it's only tears of joy. =) wat i meant was tt if the loved one had a choice, he/she would never wanna make the other party cry for him/her wat.....i mean, it's something like liu zai ta lian shang de lei shui zhi liu ru wo (da loved one) xin.......basically, physically, she crying, but in his heart, his crying coz it's hurt him to c her sad/hurt/pain.....not true meh??
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paiseh... i misread i think haahaa *extends hand* solie...heeheeOriginally posted by t|rEd:kaoz....gao xing dao ku bu zhen de suan ku lo...it's only tears of joy. =) wat i meant was tt if the loved one had a choice, he/she would never wanna make the other party cry for him/her wat.....i mean, it's something like liu zai ta lian shang de lei shui zhi liu ru wo (da loved one) xin.......basically, physically, she crying, but in his heart, his crying coz it's hurt him to c her sad/hurt/pain.....not true meh?? -
*firm handshake wif ivan*Originally posted by ^TzM 53^:paiseh... i misread i think haahaa *extends hand* solie...heehee
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Love will not last forever.... Anyway , i think being in love , i do not really care abt the how our ending be , Be it marriage or break off. What is most important is the "GUO CHENG" (process) . Coz memories are forever.
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if u love a person till yr dying day..till the last minute...last breath..is it considered foreverlove? coz u will not wake up liao mah....hmmm this Q always bug me leh...i mean the chinese believe in life after death...indians don't believe (i think)
malays certainly not....so... hao?? i m a ethans so i oso donno after i die i go where???hmmm... -
heaven?
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Yup, piggypen, u r absolutely rite. It takes two hands to clap, if u find tt u r the one who's trying to keep the relationship going, then it won't work. But u mention he still call to care abt u, what hardships hav u both actually encounter that makes u lose your will...Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:i guess if its abt lasting, u need alot more than juz ur love and efforts to keep this r/s coz it takes 2 to clap. if u r the onli one giving in after quarrels, i dun think the r/s will move on any further.
a quarrel will onli bring a r/s another step further onli when both parties realise more things abt each other.
when u r young, keep ur options open. you may think tt u've set ur mind to be wif him but eventually, u'll realise tt he's not the onli tree in the forest. at one stage, u'll start to move on coz u haven't had enuff of the fun arnd.
'Move on coz some1 is waiting to cross ur path sumwhere ..."
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
heaven meh?? i tot ethens got nowhere to go ?Originally posted by yolanda_tan:heaven?
coz they do not believe in anything mah...so heaven and hell is out..will we be stuck here ? hmm... wat abt ppl of diff. races getting married? coz my family hor...haiz~~ all the festivals in sg we celabrate... 'hen fu zha hor'?? haahaa -
Yup, piggypen, u r absolutely rite. It takes two hands to clap, if u find tt u r the one who's trying to keep the relationship going, then it won't work. But u mention he still call to care abt u, what hardships hav u both actually encounter that makes u lose your will...Originally posted by mikegk_76:[QUOTE]Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:
[b]i guess if its abt lasting, u need alot more than juz ur love and efforts to keep this r/s coz it takes 2 to clap. if u r the onli one giving in after quarrels, i dun think the r/s will move on any further.
a quarrel will onli bring a r/s another step further onli when both parties realise more things abt each other.
when u r young, keep ur options open. you may think tt u've set ur mind to be wif him but eventually, u'll realise tt he's not the onli tree in the forest. at one stage, u'll start to move on coz u haven't had enuff of the fun arnd.
'Move on coz some1 is waiting to cross ur path sumwhere ..."
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both of u guys r rite....no use keeping on to the r/s if u or him/her r the onli one struggling on the the r/s .... i haf been thru this n i noe tt its not easy hafing a one sided r/s.... -
Quote by domyoji33:
Love will not last forever.... Anyway , i think being in love , i do not really care abt the how our ending be , Be it marriage or break off. What is most important is the "GUO CHENG" (process) . Coz memories are forever.
agree wif domyoji33 where it stated "What is most important is the "GUO CHENG" (process)"
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