How much is too much?
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To what extent is one considered as being possesive?
If u feel jealous becos she looks at other guys, is that considered as being possesive? -
sad to say from my pt of view i think it is being possesiveOriginally posted by spidee:To what extent is one considered as being possesive?
If u feel jealous becos she looks at other guys, is that considered as being possesive?
i bet u also got look at other gals rite? -
Me veri loyal wan.. so i dun even dare take a peek at other girls...
Thankks for the reply. -
To me, looking at other prettier girls is normal. It's only what u plan to do with them that deems your character.
And getting jealous when she looks at other better guys is OVERLY POSSESSIVE.
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Hmm.. tat's true
Haiz... so i'm over-possesive
Muz control! -
haha u muz let her understand y u get angryOriginally posted by spidee:Hmm.. tat's true
Haiz... so i'm over-possesive
Muz control!
(i believe u care abt her lor)let her understand lor
ps(u say u nv look at other gals ?? haha who will believe rite??) -
That is not being posessive,that is called being respectful to your gf.Imagine how she will feel if you beo zhaborz while out with her?eheheOriginally posted by spidee:To what extent is one considered as being possesive?
If u feel jealous becos she looks at other guys, is that considered as being possesive?
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"To what extent is one considered as being possesive?
If u feel jealous becos she looks at other guys, is that considered as being possesive?"
i guess its difficult or should i say almost impossible to comment abt the extent of being possessive. to every individual, the extent is different and u can't really compare it.
i think its not really possessiveness when ur other half looks at some1 and u feel jealous ... i think its plain jealousy or perhaps too egoistic abt ur charm
if this is really happening to u ... i think u lack alot of trust in ur other half ... if not u'r juz another MCP or WCP
"Failures are divided into 2 types - one who acts w/o thinking and the other is fulled wif thoughts but lacks the action." -
Hmmm...Spidee , personally i don't think that being jealous because she looks at other guys is being over|y-possessive...
It's fine..it's human's nature to feel jealous..
besides, if u dun love her, u won't be jealous isn't it?
however, always being jealous is not a good thing too~ must have faith and trust in the relationship mah...
lotz of relationships fall apart because of constant jealousy from either side...
all the best !!
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There are so many stars in the sky, but only some are radiant enough to be noticed... Among those you choose to ignore, is the one which is willing to shine for you forever, even if your glance remains elsewhere....[J] -
i tink it depends on e amt of confidence tt u hve.. how confident r u abt urself, n e whole relationship.. put in abit more of trust.. add more confidence into e relationship.. trust her & trust yourself.. =)
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u noe, i shud like to think tt possessiveness is more so the RESULT of being afraid to be hurt n loving too much(in the good sense) but on the other hand, if it's da result of obsession, den......it's bad lo.......dun really know how to esxplain myself la.....but in a way, a normal human reaction of something u really love or like, is to take possession of it......i mean, who wouldn't b afraid to lose it? and also, who in the right mind would think straight away: ok, i must let her go....it's not fair for me to do this to her.....she's not hapi???
i mean, u could try asking urself.....wat's ur own initial reaction towards something u love alot? for fear of losing it to someone else, wouldn't u wan to "own" it? it's sorta like da beauty(wai zai mei) or character(nei zai mei) thingy lo........... -
This I agree, mutual trust, the extent of possesiveness actually depend on the trust u hav in your other half, if u trust him/her, your relationship will definitely work out. But on the other hand, don't b too MCP, bcos gals don't nowadays don't like tt, juz try to giv them more freedom...Originally posted by *kaiLi*:i tink it depends on e amt of confidence tt u hve.. how confident r u abt urself, n e whole relationship.. put in abit more of trust.. add more confidence into e relationship.. trust her & trust yourself.. =)
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
nothing much to sae except i agree wholely on wat the others typed. so dun b too mcp or u can kiss ur relationship goodbye
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ai yoh, i love this question!!!
sometimes i think i zu ding this whole life cannot find boyfriend and will not be able to be married off...
...i cannot commit at all...now 17 liao, ask me get into relationship and i will say no thank you. I cannot tahan the kind of life have to tell someone where i have been , who i was out with, out for what, etc...
i think i will go crazy doing that for a few days, if that is possible.
Reporting to someone is hard enough, i think i will die sooner if someone sms me to ask me where i am every few hours!!! And given my character, i would probably go MIA after a few days...
i need another diagnose for this sickness, and guys, tell me, will another be able to tahan me? -
Well, I tell my gf where I go so as not to keep her worried. As simple as that.
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I would...?Originally posted by liyan:ai yoh, i love this question!!!
sometimes i think i zu ding this whole life cannot find boyfriend and will not be able to be married off...
...i cannot commit at all...now 17 liao, ask me get into relationship and i will say no thank you. I cannot tahan the kind of life have to tell someone where i have been , who i was out with, out for what, etc...
i think i will go crazy doing that for a few days, if that is possible.
Reporting to someone is hard enough, i think i will die sooner if someone sms me to ask me where i am every few hours!!! And given my character, i would probably go MIA after a few days...
i need another diagnose for this sickness, and guys, tell me, will another be able to tahan me? I REALLY LOVE freedom myself.... :p
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I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
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i sumtimes oso haf this problem...i think this is becoz we r still not too sure of wat we want...
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Thank u every single one of u who participated
so enthusiastically in the forum.
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Freedom is Very important in relationships.
I think looking at other opp. sex is okie lah . But as for me, i will freak out if my bf keeps calling n calling when i am still not back home at 10pm. It's only 10pm. Before my this bf , I used to go out with my friends till 4am in the morning . but for now i seldom enjoy all this fun....
For my case , i forsake my freedom n fun for the one i love. I am still trying all my best to make him realize 10pm is stilll very early for me... i love to play , coz i am still very young n i am very wild.
i want to learn scuba diving , he says it might be dangerous... i understand he cares for me. But.... i oso dunno how to say.
If i am already tied down at this age , it is unfair . When i grow old , i will then have little memory abt my youth.
) ( hope he is reading now )I love him , but i oso love it when i am free to do things i want. -
true...very true...Originally posted by *kaiLi*:i tink it depends on e amt of confidence tt u hve.. how confident r u abt urself, n e whole relationship.. put in abit more of trust.. add more confidence into e relationship.. trust her & trust yourself.. =) -
who says u must do that in order to haf a relationship?i always tot that if u wanna do it(reporting stuff) thn u do it not for the sake of pleasing yr bf/gf...hmm... *sm|es*Originally posted by liyan:ai yoh, i love this question!!!
sometimes i think i zu ding this whole life cannot find boyfriend and will not be able to be married off...
...i cannot commit at all...now 17 liao, ask me get into relationship and i will say no thank you. I cannot tahan the kind of life have to tell someone where i have been , who i was out with, out for what, etc...
i think i will go crazy doing that for a few days, if that is possible.
Reporting to someone is hard enough, i think i will die sooner if someone sms me to ask me where i am every few hours!!! And given my character, i would probably go MIA after a few days...
i need another diagnose for this sickness, and guys, tell me, will another be able to tahan me?
sacrificing for the one u love is natural..(i feel)and i don't mind giving up my freedom for love provided i noe she is the one.... i think seldom ppl will do this rite?...love...to me...its something to keep for the rest of yr life...not juz a fling ..etc... tt is hao i feel... to tell u guys the truth...deep down inside i noe that yi jian zhong qing is exist...maybe not in sg..
love IS great..
[This message has been edited by ^TzM 53^ (edited 22 June 2001).]