Tell mi wad to do can
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I still ove my ex girlfriend alot although we broke up 3 mths ago me still miss her, recently we were keeping in contacts then i discovered she got a boyfriend already. i was very sad at the same time i know i cannot do anything, but her relationship is on the rocks theses days . times when i ask her to stay with me but she tell mi she still love her boyfriend alot. Then i told her that i will wait for her, but am i veri stupid do to this anot. At the same time i still love her alot .should i wait for her?? TELL MI WHAT TO DO PLS
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actually i think u noe wat u should do... but u juz feel that u need someone to convince u ...
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This is so confusing... she broke off with you for less than 3 months. Within this 3 months she is already attached and her new relationship is already on the rocks. And over here you're still pining away for her.
Now do you see the picture? Like what the other says, maybe you will not want her back after all. Erm... I don't want to ask but how long was your relationship with her?
Somehow, I remember that Japanese serial "With Love". The male lead, was mumbling about physical relationships without love is like 2 pieces of flesh going at it. Sorry, I don't make sense but maybe some of you know that show. -
Hmm... SEEMINGLY true?Originally posted by AsTr0GiRL:actually i think u noe wat u should do... but u juz feel that u need someone to convince u ...
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Remind yourself of how you broke up with her in the past?Originally posted by Gary Wang:I still ove my ex girlfriend alot although we broke up 3 mths ago me still miss her, recently we were keeping in contacts then i discovered she got a boyfriend already. i was very sad at the same time i know i cannot do anything, but her relationship is on the rocks theses days . times when i ask her to stay with me but she tell mi she still love her boyfriend alot. Then i told her that i will wait for her, but am i veri stupid do to this anot. At the same time i still love her alot .should i wait for her?? TELL MI WHAT TO DO PLS
That should very much be a very good 'exercise' for a start? 
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I agree with Klactovak on the issue of the 3 months.... considering within that short period of time, she can get into another relationship and that now things are not working out .
maybe she took to the relationship with that guy as a rebound or she doesn't really understand what she wants from the relationship with you and the other guy.
think about it carefully.... even if you succeeded in getting back with her, how long will it last? -
i think it is not tat u really love her. instead i think it is u are bu fu qi that yr gf like someone else. either tat or u haven't get use to the fact tat u r slone now. Wake up now..... if not thing will be the same even when u get back again
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er....devil ar....dun condemn pple so quickly leh!!! gers oso have the ability of initiating a breakup leh. coz in this case, (since he din clear up) the ger broke up with him with the reason tt she wants to concentrate on her studies....Originally posted by Devil1976:Remind yourself of how you broke up with her in the past? That should very much be a very good 'exercise' for a start?
newae, gary!!!! post the whole story la....dun tink da pple here mind readin the whole thing coz they sibei free one lo......
u post short summary, pple dunno this dunno tt.....how to help u? -
u r realli quite evil to tell her all dat when u noe dat her relationship with the bf is unstable anyway if she realli loves u she will be back at ur side soon dun worry!
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T|red! Teach me advanced theory in Love leh. heehee... wo yao zhuo AiQing ZhuanJia :p
Gary,
Just think carefully before you do anything. Everything's like unstable and all, so don't get yourself into quicksand just yet.
Anyway, what I'm saying is don't be in a hurry to mess up your life. I don't know if its love or is it because of peer pressure... If all your friends got girlfriends and you don't have, so you must have one too. Don't think of it this way, learn to handle your loneliness and perhaps open your eyes WIDE to look for a right girl to come along. -
tr|ed teach mi advanced theory lehz
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tr|ed teach mi advanced theory lehz
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wat advanced theory la!!!
=Þ *bleahz* me dunno any advanced theory okiez!!!
dun nehow say!!! =(
Klactovak: u ar.......nehow help me publicise wat advanced theory in love
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hey i am not lor. mi frend not all hev gf i am oso not heving any peer pressure lor thxs anywayOriginally posted by Klactovak:T|red! Teach me advanced theory in Love leh. heehee... wo yao zhuo AiQing ZhuanJia :p
Gary,
Just think carefully before you do anything. Everything's like unstable and all, so don't get yourself into quicksand just yet.
Anyway, what I'm saying is don't be in a hurry to mess up your life. I don't know if its love or is it because of peer pressure... If all your friends got girlfriends and you don't have, so you must have one too. Don't think of it this way, learn to handle your loneliness and perhaps open your eyes WIDE to look for a right girl to come along. -
hey i tink i will work the relationship out wif her lor whether is last or not tt gonna depend on both us liaoz BUT thxs anyway 4 ur help lorOriginally posted by Retrac:I agree with Klactovak on the issue of the 3 months.... considering within that short period of time, she can get into another relationship and that now things are not working out .
maybe she took to the relationship with that guy as a rebound or she doesn't really understand what she wants from the relationship with you and the other guy.
think about it carefully.... even if you succeeded in getting back with her, how long will it last? -
hmzzzz.....this time i not gonna stand on ur side liaoz......gary ah......u abit da farni lo........it's like if u dun wan a r/s to last, then wat for try so hard to get her back?
ok la, mebbe u dun trust all of us here tt much yet lo, but like u told me b4, it's all in the mind......if u wan the r/s to last then u'll treat the ger differently, namely better......so it's like basically i'm trying to ask y do u so wan her back? do u feel t she's da one? or issit just tt for her, u've done alotta things, and because u've done allota thingies bcoz of her, u wan her back?
it's a lotta huhs here lo.......mebbe i myself ain't making no sense.......coz too many huhs, den i blur liaoz...haizzz.... -
I agree wif t|rEd, if there's a relationship that u dun even know whether will work out from ur point of view, there's no point asking for it to come back. Coz u have no definition there, u r even unsure of urself let alone u are taking the responsibility of a r/s... wat r u gonna do wif it?? get it and see how it's gonna work out?? by the time u see how it work out it's already too late, my dear. know wat u want. plan to get wat u want. u will get wat u want...
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Gary,
Wait!!! but at the same time keep yr door open ........ if there's some1 good pop by in yr life........ dun be so stupid as to keep on waiting for yr ex then......... u dun owe her anything.....
Regards
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hahaha from the little i know of him, u dun hafta worry abt tt man! h|aKs~Originally posted by Atti:Gary,
Wait!!! but at the same time keep yr door open ........ if there's some1 good pop by in yr life........ dun be so stupid as to keep on waiting for yr ex then......... u dun owe her anything.....
Regards
right Gary? *LOL~
he sure can move on like no one else can man.....but newaez, dun get a wrong impression of him from wat i said la horz.
he says tt he's really c-rius abt this particular ger lo....... -
hmmzzz...not really posting nething regardin this topic, or nething really important la...
but just hope to push it to the top, and c if any of u can help lo....=))
but newaez, on his behalf, "thnx for all the help u've given!!!"
oh, btw, oso give some advice as to how he can more directly get the ger, instead of having to like wait silently n patiently by her side n lend her the constant support and wait for her to re-discover his existence....=) okok, mebbe i'm shining abit of the wrong light...but just tt he feels strongly tt he would be more able to give her the happiness tt she deserves than the guy she's with presently lo...he can't tolerate the way she's always constantly upset with the way the r/s is going and tt she's always sad or sth liddat lo...he blifs tt he can bring her more happiness la basically....n rem, he din break up with her, she did.....real reason y, i oso dunno.........surface reason, eh....studies apparently.... -
Advanced Theory of LoveOriginally posted by t|rEd:oh, btw, oso give some advice as to how he can more directly get the ger, instead of having to like wait silently n patiently by her side n lend her the constant support and wait for her to re-discover his existence....=) okok, mebbe i'm shining abit of the wrong light...but just tt he feels strongly tt he would be more able to give her the happiness tt she deserves than the guy she's with presently lo...he can't tolerate the way she's always constantly upset with the way the r/s is going and tt she's always sad or sth liddat lo...he blifs tt he can bring her more happiness la basically....n rem, he din break up with her, she did.....real reason y, i oso dunno.........surface reason, eh....studies apparently....
Lesson 29
Many times, man is confused over woman because woman actually doing the confusing to the man. So man must open eyes BIG BIG to see clearer. In situation like these, be calm and access situation before doing an attack. Holding the fort and hoping to be rescued by the calvalry is sometimes pointless. Attack but be ready to be killed too.
Gary, read lesson 29 carefully... hmmm... think I better kept the rest of the book secret. Hor, T|rEd.
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Like wat the others said previously, you know how to deal wif this situation and i prefectly agree wif them. However, Love itself is irrational and no one can place a value to it coz beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
There may be alot of other stuffs that happened between the r/s which u did not reveal. I guess its becoz she's the best in ur heart and no matter how much she's done to hurt u, u'll wan her back.
However, you thought of your feelings yet not hers. If you really love her, let her choose her path and be happy. Love isn't only abt possession. At least you can smile back and say tt you were once madly in love.
Move on coz there'll be some1 waiting to cross your path somewhere ...
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It can mean 2 CONTRADICTARY things... ONE, his EX didn't really wanna break up with him... TWO, she's an EASY GIRL.... NO OFFENCE...Originally posted by Klactovak:This is so confusing... she broke off with you for less than 3 months. Within this 3 months she is already attached and her new relationship is already on the rocks. And over here you're still pining away for her.
Now do you see the picture? Like what the other says, maybe you will not want her back after all. Erm... I don't want to ask but how long was your relationship with her?
Somehow, I remember that Japanese serial "With Love". The male lead, was mumbling about physical relationships without love is like 2 pieces of flesh going at it. Sorry, I don't make sense but maybe some of you know that show.
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
Originally posted by t|rEd:er....devil ar....dun condemn pple so quickly leh!!! gers oso have the ability of initiating a breakup leh. coz in this case, (since he din clear up) the ger broke up with him with the reason tt she wants to concentrate on her studies....
newae, gary!!!! post the whole story la....dun tink da pple here mind readin the whole thing coz they sibei free one lo......
u post short summary, pple dunno this dunno tt.....how to help u? No TYPO error ley..?? :p
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II -
I think you and TIRED might be hitting somewhere near the POINT here... Might be another "Quick kill the dinosaur BEFORE the EGG hatches" CASE.... Hmm... A MISTAKE that many of us 'helpers' tends to make.... Anyway... Still 'studying'.....Originally posted by Bear:I agree wif t|rEd, if there's a relationship that u dun even know whether will work out from ur point of view, there's no point asking for it to come back. Coz u have no definition there, u r even unsure of urself let alone u are taking the responsibility of a r/s... wat r u gonna do wif it?? get it and see how it's gonna work out?? by the time u see how it work out it's already too late, my dear. know wat u want. plan to get wat u want. u will get wat u want...
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II