Originally posted by babygal:
Dear all, do give me advise on the following situation. I have fallen in love with my distant relative. he is my father's cousin's son. Would like to ask if there is anyone here who have a relationship wif her/his relative? Wat do u ppl think of this kind of relationship? Is it true that blood related guy/gal cannpt be together? pls advise on wat i shld do. Thanks. We both love each other truthfully except that we do not dare to disclose our relationship to any of our relatives.
This is NOT a problem with VALUEs and such. I would see the MAJOR problem here as CROSS GENERIC DNA. OF COURSE, you could EXPECT alot of PRESSURE from both sides of your family. My MAIN QUESTION would be HOW OLD are you TWO? And the MORE IMPORTANT one would be, DO YOU THINK you're REALLY MATURE enough for this WITHOUT regards..?
YES. The POWER of LOVE is STRONG and it's VERY DIFFICULT to tear two loving couple apart like this. My
SUGGESTION for you right now would be IF both of you are DETERMINED to be together and OVERCOME all PRESSURE from the people around you. You COULD try carrying on with him and KNOW him better 1st and let him know you VERY MUCH better? BUT I MUST WARN you. IF you got to the STAGE of MARRIAGE, you CANNOT have children. MOST PROBABLY it would lead to birth of UNNATURE CHILD or in some cases EVEN DEATH of the baby. It's NOT FAIR to the child.
Pre-marital sex that could lead to PREGNANCY is a BIG NO NO for your case. Just spend more time KNOWING each other. I BET your relationship might just END NATURALLY before you decide to carry on. If so, GOOD for you... ELSE, TAKE CARE...?