Forgiving?
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Hi... Just wondering how many guys out there will actually forgive their gfs if their gfs had sex with another guy... given that you love her alot... can you face it? face those nightmares and thoughts? I wonders...
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Well, I suppose I might forgive her. It could be done in a moment of folly. After all, this is year 2001.
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i hav a fren who dun even mind accepting a girl who got herself pregnant wif another guy hor. Though he did tell the girl he will appreciate if the girl abort the baby, but he's aso willing 2 take care of it.Anyway,4 some reasons I'm unsure of,the girl kept the baby...goin 2 b 2mths old soon...and i see my fren as a happy father lor.
they say love is selfish..
i say true love makes a person selfless.
as long as the other party is happy,i'll be. -
i would slap her..and then sell her to geylang lorong 18
since she likes to fark ard so much..she can jolly well enjoy there..and get paid somemore..
hiaK~
anyway...im not a guy...
hahahahahhaha
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Think I won't be able to accept it... already my 'free show' over here cannot tahan liaoz.. how to accept such things??
But if she was raped that's another story lorz.. I will still accept. That one sometimes cannot control... it's already depressing enough liaoz..
Snowball,
I just studied something about similar cases in sociology. I would say, they better be really comfortable with it, because even in USA, step-families are not working out. (well this is something like it.) At times, the guy, if aggitated might throw the whole thing out, so this sort of thing really have to be xiao xin wei miao.
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hmm..can a ger comment? hmm..i think i would mind if my bf not a virgin liao leh.. like i think next time if i am intimate wif him, he will be thinking of how "happy" he is wif another girl before...this is wat i think lah.. haha..
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...... FOOLS...? GOOD LUCK... BET they're still YOUNG?Originally posted by snowball72:i hav a fren who dun even mind accepting a girl who got herself pregnant wif another guy hor. Though he did tell the girl he will appreciate if the girl abort the baby, but he's aso willing 2 take care of it.Anyway,4 some reasons I'm unsure of,the girl kept the baby...goin 2 b 2mths old soon...and i see my fren as a happy father lor.
they say love is selfish..
i say true love makes a person selfless.
as long as the other party is happy,i'll be.
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
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Maybe he wasn't happy before..?Originally posted by joanne:hmm..can a ger comment? hmm..i think i would mind if my bf not a virgin liao leh.. like i think next time if i am intimate wif him, he will be thinking of how "happy" he is wif another girl before...this is wat i think lah.. haha..
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Originally posted by Devil1976:
eh..not realli ...the guy 26 or 27 lidat..the girl 23. the thing is..the girl dun seem 2 understand how much my fren is actually sacrifacing for her lor...
...... FOOLS...? GOOD LUCK... BET they're still YOUNG?
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sometimes stil take him for granted...can u imagine...she go CHEONG then my fren stay at home look after baby?? -
Maybe he wasn't happy before..?Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by joanne:
[b]hmm..can a ger comment? hmm..i think i would mind if my bf not a virgin liao leh.. like i think next time if i am intimate wif him, he will be thinking of how "happy" he is wif another girl before...this is wat i think lah.. haha..[/B][/QUOTE]
hmm..dunno leh..thats y i think lah.. last time my ex used to tell me that he went to a brothel wif his frens before but he nv wat lah.he say he just wait there for his fren.. he told me this u expect me to still believe him meh? i mean as in ermm..believe he nv wat also.. i dun think so loh..so i feel insecure..thats y i think i am v concerned if my bf is a virgin or not.. hmm... -
WAH!!! Good, Cheong some more got second baby but your friend not the father.... chey!Originally posted by snowball72:eh..not realli ...the guy 26 or 27 lidat..the girl 23. the thing is..the girl dun seem 2 understand how much my fren is actually sacrifacing for her lor...
sometimes stil take him for granted...can u imagine...she go CHEONG then my fren stay at home look after baby??
What is becoming to the world.... :~ Bwahahahahaha..... -
huh?wat second baby? he look after dat 2mths old baby lah..wher got so fast feed another mouth..if really like dat ah..i tink i'll see him eating grass liao loh..Originally posted by Klactovak:WAH!!! Good, Cheong some more got second baby but your friend not the father.... chey!
What is becoming to the world.... :~ Bwahahahahaha..... -
SO it've ALREADY HAPPENED...?Originally posted by snowball72:eh..not realli ...the guy 26 or 27 lidat..the girl 23. the thing is..the girl dun seem 2 understand how much my fren is actually sacrifacing for her lor...
sometimes stil take him for granted...can u imagine...she go CHEONG then my fren stay at home look after baby??
That's WHY I said GOOD LUCK....?
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
Yup... I KNOW of ALOT of people who go visit with their friends but NEVER DO ANYTHING.... It's TRUE... But I can't say ANYTHING for your EX's case... Well.. What he told you in this case has LITTLE to do with whether you should TRUST him or not...?Originally posted by joanne:hmm..dunno leh..thats y i think lah.. last time my ex used to tell me that he went to a brothel wif his frens before but he nv wat lah.he say he just wait there for his fren.. he told me this u expect me to still believe him meh? i mean as in ermm..believe he nv wat also.. i dun think so loh..so i feel insecure..thats y i think i am v concerned if my bf is a virgin or not.. hmm...
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
perhaps if u specified if they were an item and then she had a one nite stand wif someone else?
or b4 they got together?
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Hey! You fren have my respect! Tell you to "jia you" !! KAMPATEH~!Originally posted by snowball72:huh?wat second baby? he look after dat 2mths old baby lah..wher got so fast feed another mouth..if really like dat ah..i tink i'll see him eating grass liao loh.. -
Larry... Thanks for your advice... Probably you don't know the whole senario... Anyway... I forgive her too... haha... Immediately after she told me... I find that I am damn cool... 'We need to talk... I had sex with another guy...' 'Oh is it? Nah its okie... no bid deal...' Haha...
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snowball72... If given the same situation as your friend, I will accept her too... But here is different case... Well I don't know how shall I explain to you, but anyhow... Thanks! Cheers!
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FireIce... WOW what an reaction from a gal... haha... Thanks...
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Bear... Its not that I cant accept... Its that everynight, almost everynight I am haunted by nightmares of her doing it and smilling at me... haha... scary man! Anyhow... Thanks pal!
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joanne... Hmm... You are special... Either you are still young... or you are really a very conservative gal... Anyway... Good luck for you in hunting for a Virgin in this 21st Century! =)
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Guess it just goes to show HOW MUCH ya love her in a sense...? Hmm... Anyway, ALL THE BEST to you TWO....?Originally posted by TylerWong:Larry... Thanks for your advice... Probably you don't know the whole senario... Anyway... I forgive her too... haha... Immediately after she told me... I find that I am damn cool... 'We need to talk... I had sex with another guy...' 'Oh is it? Nah its okie... no bid deal...' Haha...
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abit sacastic huh?Originally posted by TylerWong:joanne... Hmm... You are special... Either you are still young... or you are really a very conservative gal... Anyway... Good luck for you in hunting for a Virgin in this 21st Century! =)
Cheers!
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Is your current bf a VIRGIN then..?? Joanne like to 'taste' Virgin huh...???Originally posted by joanne:abit sacastic huh? not that i am conservative but i noe my limits n morales.