something i wanna share abt the gf i want
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is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
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Yes, If u urself i a virgin..........
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dunno waht u are talking abtOriginally posted by Xiaosa:Yes, If u urself i a virgin.......... -
i second thatOriginally posted by bismarck:dunno waht u are talking abt -
He means if u are also identical to what u expected from your future gfOriginally posted by bismarck:dunno waht u are talking abt -
Its not being possessive or anything, its just a matter of your preference. Girls who had steads b4, kissed before, had sex before are not necessarily bad. And girls who have done any of those are not necessarily good either. Again its your preference, but my advice to u is to not stereotype.
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it is not possesive but simply too demanding.. unless u also neva haf gf .. neva kissed b4.. and still a virgin.. then perhaps u can try out to find a girl wat u wish 4..wish u luck.. cos i beliff there are still girls out there is exactly what u want..Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
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There are? I find such people scarce in singapore....oh well perhaps its poor observation on my part
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why not look for a girl who have never looked at a guy before, never talked to a guy before, never touched a guy before and never held hands with a guy before?
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hoping to get a gf who's still is a virgin has got nothing to do with being possesive what... what toking u???
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it is possible to find..Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
is it on the brink of being possesive?
and there are gals ard that match ur demands
but u have to understand that they may not be too pleasing to the eye
thats y u never notice them
but they are females too and they are available
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If you like her, you should not mind her past ..
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You could try girls age 13 or 14 years old (girls school maybe?) - probably if you chose someone your age or older - its kinda impossible.Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
is it on the brink of being possesive?
Btw: why aim looking for such unneccessary, reduntant requirements? Open your shallow mind and widen your vision - look within the heart and you would live a much happier life.
Cheers -
maybe this is abit premature for me to say this but anyway i will bring forward this thought that i would expect to say only sometime in the future.
"i cannot bear the thought of having another guy clambering onto her,hands all over her and having sex with her"
I have a more conservative mindset. so i cannot accept a gf who has have sex before with the exception that she was raped or forced.
as for the part abt holding hands and kissing, u can jolly well attribute it to just jealousy.jealous abt it.u can just ignore it.
yes i am a virgin so what ? and therefore i can demand my gf/wife to be 1 right? i mean there are also ppl who want their wife to be virgin unless it's he who made love to her or that guy isn't a virgin in the first place.
i dont expect my gf/wife to be super chio, steph song chio, miss universe chio. so chio everyone will nose bleed. but rather a presentable one,because everyone will age 1 loh.
i was thinking whether is this discussion abit premature or not. i mean it's probably years before i would get married or something loh.it's probably at least 7 yrs before the age i would like to get married at.
i hope tht no one is upset with my words or anything,just that i am in the aftermath of ditching the idea of going after a girl that i HAD a fancy on. -
u thinking of lifelong quarantine for a baby girl all the way to marriagable age issit ?Originally posted by jeramy:why not look for a girl who have never looked at a guy before, never talked to a guy before, never touched a guy before and never held hands with a guy before? -
U have yr preferences as we ALL do... but I can tell U... time will change... in da future U won't tink da same anymore... either U UP da standards or lower it. I too last time prefered my GF to be a V... chio, etc, etc... But time goes by & I realised my standard abit unreasonable... WHAT RIGHT DO I HAVE TO "DEMAND" THAT?Originally posted by bismarck:maybe this is abit premature for me to say this but anyway i will bring forward this thought that i would expect to say only sometime in the future.
"i cannot bear the thought of having another guy clambering onto her,hands all over her and having sex with her"
I have a more conservative mindset. so i cannot accept a gf who has have sex before with the exception that she was raped or forced.
as for the part abt holding hands and kissing, u can jolly well attribute it to just jealousy.jealous abt it.u can just ignore it.
yes i am a virgin so what ? and therefore i can demand my gf/wife to be 1 right? i mean there are also ppl who want their wife to be virgin unless it's he who made love to her or that guy isn't a virgin in the first place.
i dont expect my gf/wife to be super chio, steph song chio, miss universe chio. so chio everyone will nose bleed. but rather a presentable one,because everyone will age 1 loh.
i was thinking whether is this discussion abit premature or not. i mean it's probably years before i would get married or something loh.it's probably at least 7 yrs before the age i would like to get married at.
i hope tht no one is upset with my words or anything,just that i am in the aftermath of ditching the idea of going after a girl that i HAD a fancy on.
U r NOT wrong to prefer wat yr GF to be. But can U find such? & can U guarantee she's yrs as U r hers? Very hard... All I can sae is, "take things naturally" Cherish those ard U... Who noes, da 1 U wanted is ard a corner waiting for U? -
I meant if u want a virgin gf, then u must be a virgin too....... Fair mah.... If u not virgin, then wat rite do u hv in demanding a virgin as a gf.....Originally posted by bismarck:dunno waht u are talking abt
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I am repeating myself for the thousand and one times, and I am still repeating it again: Anyone have the stand, the position and rights to source for their own virgin girlfriend, PROVIDED their themselves are virgin. HOWEVER, if you get a gf, who is not a virgin - realise this thing: Your initial love, impression and everything isn't base on such mundune issues (because you never knew about it anyway, unless she told you about herself while you are still friends) - instead it was based on the feelings, emotions and her character. Dump her and you ain't any better than those jerks who had they share of fun with her and left. You should instead treasure her and appreciate her more - because she will know that you are much better than them.Originally posted by bismarck:maybe this is abit premature for me to say this but anyway i will bring forward this thought that i would expect to say only sometime in the future.
"i cannot bear the thought of having another guy clambering onto her,hands all over her and having sex with her"
I have a more conservative mindset. so i cannot accept a gf who has have sex before with the exception that she was raped or forced.
as for the part abt holding hands and kissing, u can jolly well attribute it to just jealousy.jealous abt it.u can just ignore it.
yes i am a virgin so what ? and therefore i can demand my gf/wife to be 1 right? i mean there are also ppl who want their wife to be virgin unless it's he who made love to her or that guy isn't a virgin in the first place.
i dont expect my gf/wife to be super chio, steph song chio, miss universe chio. so chio everyone will nose bleed. but rather a presentable one,because everyone will age 1 loh.
i was thinking whether is this discussion abit premature or not. i mean it's probably years before i would get married or something loh.it's probably at least 7 yrs before the age i would like to get married at.
i hope tht no one is upset with my words or anything,just that i am in the aftermath of ditching the idea of going after a girl that i HAD a fancy on.
About holding hands, kissing - the only damn way you could be in such situations is when you chase a secondary school girl and last all the way till your marriage and marry her. By then, looking at statistic, how many secondary school girls are mature in thinking. and WHAT makes you think they would fall for you either? etc, etc.
Did you ever have a decent and proper (no one week kind or few days kind) gf before? I doubt so right? Because if you have - you would open your eyes to the real world.
P.S: You have to suit yourself to the world and not ask the world to bend to you.
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mayb i tink u shld juz accept dat life's dis way, esp ppl r gettin more n more open here.....wat matters most is whether u love the person n vice versa....if u really love i dun tink u shld mind his/her past....
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Pls dun mind a girl's past lor.
Im a virgin and I nvr kiss b4,I mean nvr french kiss.Only a peck on the lips(does it count?)But then,i wont mind my gf or my wife to be someone who have alot of sex partners or wat lor.As long as now shes wif me.She only have me can le.
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U love sm1 for who she is not what u want her to be....Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
is it on the brink of being possesive?
DOes it really matter to u so much? IF it does, ahows u dun love the ger at all....
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Ya i think as long you urself never done it, you have every right to demand it because it is you mah, other people cant say much. For me, i guess its more an issue of the girl's mentality towards sex. I simply dun understand why girls think that as long is BF can and must have sex. I just feel girls need to know how to protect themselves more, though guys are very much at fault here. Afterall, keeping ur virginity or refusing to have sex with your stead could be your best weapon. In the end, dun end up on the losing side because for most girls, when you have sex with ur BF, i believe you love him very much, so guess who will be most hurt when he leaves you? so protect urself, buy some insurance by refusing to have sex, even then if he decides to leave you, at least you not taken advantage of
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next time arrange your marriage, to someone before she reaches puberty, and maybe tatoo ur name on her so nobody will touch her, maybe tell her to wear chasity belt, u also must wear la.. haha in that way rite, your gf might not be the one u love, but at least she meets your requirements. i mean, that's wat that's most important to u isn it??
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i didnt expect my gf to be damn chio in the first place.Originally posted by loneryu00:U have yr preferences as we ALL do... but I can tell U... time will change... in da future U won't tink da same anymore... either U UP da standards or lower it. I too last time prefered my GF to be a V... chio, etc, etc... But time goes by & I realised my standard abit unreasonable... WHAT RIGHT DO I HAVE TO "DEMAND" THAT?
U r NOT wrong to prefer wat yr GF to be. But can U find such? & can U guarantee she's yrs as U r hers? Very hard... All I can sae is, "take things naturally" Cherish those ard U... Who noes, da 1 U wanted is ard a corner waiting for U?
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i am a virgin lah. as mentionedOriginally posted by Xiaosa:I meant if u want a virgin gf, then u must be a virgin too....... Fair mah.... If u not virgin, then wat rite do u hv in demanding a virgin as a gf.....