dunno waht u are talking abtOriginally posted by Xiaosa:Yes, If u urself i a virgin..........
i second thatOriginally posted by bismarck:dunno waht u are talking abt
He means if u are also identical to what u expected from your future gfOriginally posted by bismarck:dunno waht u are talking abt
it is not possesive but simply too demanding.. unless u also neva haf gf .. neva kissed b4.. and still a virgin.. then perhaps u can try out to find a girl wat u wish 4..wish u luck.. cos i beliff there are still girls out there is exactly what u want..Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
is it on the brink of being possesive?
it is possible to find..Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
is it on the brink of being possesive?
You could try girls age 13 or 14 years old (girls school maybe?) - probably if you chose someone your age or older - its kinda impossible.Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
is it on the brink of being possesive?
u thinking of lifelong quarantine for a baby girl all the way to marriagable age issit ?Originally posted by jeramy:why not look for a girl who have never looked at a guy before, never talked to a guy before, never touched a guy before and never held hands with a guy before?
U have yr preferences as we ALL do... but I can tell U... time will change... in da future U won't tink da same anymore... either U UP da standards or lower it. I too last time prefered my GF to be a V... chio, etc, etc... But time goes by & I realised my standard abit unreasonable... WHAT RIGHT DO I HAVE TO "DEMAND" THAT?Originally posted by bismarck:maybe this is abit premature for me to say this but anyway i will bring forward this thought that i would expect to say only sometime in the future.
"i cannot bear the thought of having another guy clambering onto her,hands all over her and having sex with her"
I have a more conservative mindset. so i cannot accept a gf who has have sex before with the exception that she was raped or forced.
as for the part abt holding hands and kissing, u can jolly well attribute it to just jealousy.jealous abt it.u can just ignore it.
yes i am a virgin so what ? and therefore i can demand my gf/wife to be 1 right? i mean there are also ppl who want their wife to be virgin unless it's he who made love to her or that guy isn't a virgin in the first place.
i dont expect my gf/wife to be super chio, steph song chio, miss universe chio. so chio everyone will nose bleed. but rather a presentable one,because everyone will age 1 loh.
i was thinking whether is this discussion abit premature or not. i mean it's probably years before i would get married or something loh.it's probably at least 7 yrs before the age i would like to get married at.![]()
i hope tht no one is upset with my words or anything,just that i am in the aftermath of ditching the idea of going after a girl that i HAD a fancy on.
Originally posted by bismarck:dunno waht u are talking abt
I am repeating myself for the thousand and one times, and I am still repeating it again: Anyone have the stand, the position and rights to source for their own virgin girlfriend, PROVIDED their themselves are virgin. HOWEVER, if you get a gf, who is not a virgin - realise this thing: Your initial love, impression and everything isn't base on such mundune issues (because you never knew about it anyway, unless she told you about herself while you are still friends) - instead it was based on the feelings, emotions and her character. Dump her and you ain't any better than those jerks who had they share of fun with her and left. You should instead treasure her and appreciate her more - because she will know that you are much better than them.Originally posted by bismarck:maybe this is abit premature for me to say this but anyway i will bring forward this thought that i would expect to say only sometime in the future.
"i cannot bear the thought of having another guy clambering onto her,hands all over her and having sex with her"
I have a more conservative mindset. so i cannot accept a gf who has have sex before with the exception that she was raped or forced.
as for the part abt holding hands and kissing, u can jolly well attribute it to just jealousy.jealous abt it.u can just ignore it.
yes i am a virgin so what ? and therefore i can demand my gf/wife to be 1 right? i mean there are also ppl who want their wife to be virgin unless it's he who made love to her or that guy isn't a virgin in the first place.
i dont expect my gf/wife to be super chio, steph song chio, miss universe chio. so chio everyone will nose bleed. but rather a presentable one,because everyone will age 1 loh.
i was thinking whether is this discussion abit premature or not. i mean it's probably years before i would get married or something loh.it's probably at least 7 yrs before the age i would like to get married at.![]()
i hope tht no one is upset with my words or anything,just that i am in the aftermath of ditching the idea of going after a girl that i HAD a fancy on.
U love sm1 for who she is not what u want her to be....Originally posted by bismarck:is it unrealistic to demand or require yr gf-to-be or gf to be a virgin and best if she does not have a bf or never kissed someone b4?
is it on the brink of being possesive?
i didnt expect my gf to be damn chio in the first place.Originally posted by loneryu00:U have yr preferences as we ALL do... but I can tell U... time will change... in da future U won't tink da same anymore... either U UP da standards or lower it. I too last time prefered my GF to be a V... chio, etc, etc... But time goes by & I realised my standard abit unreasonable... WHAT RIGHT DO I HAVE TO "DEMAND" THAT?
U r NOT wrong to prefer wat yr GF to be. But can U find such? & can U guarantee she's yrs as U r hers? Very hard... All I can sae is, "take things naturally" Cherish those ard U... Who noes, da 1 U wanted is ard a corner waiting for U?![]()
i am a virgin lah. as mentionedOriginally posted by Xiaosa:I meant if u want a virgin gf, then u must be a virgin too....... Fair mah.... If u not virgin, then wat rite do u hv in demanding a virgin as a gf.....