she may just be making use of your company or she may just have afling wif u, some gals just like company of guys OR she maybe giving u a chance to see how u perform as she may have second thoughts about her current BF, but this part is always slim, it depends on her character...Originally posted by N_igh_t:Hi all, new to this forum, so if I make any mistakes, please bear with me. =] Quite vexed now, as 2day just found out that the gal that I like actually have a bf. When I first knew her, she told me that she doesn't have a bf, that's why I courted her(did alot of stupid things, flowers, poems, you name it!!!) Anyway, she didn't really reciprocate, so too bad. I don't mind being rejected, but I feel that she shouldn't have told me don't have a bf when she actually had one. My principles are very clear, if a gal have bf, I won't think of courting her. What she did to me was leading me on a wild goose chase, wasting all my time and efforts and my love. Though she didn't reciprocate my love, it's ok to me to be rejected. If I fail I fail, that's that. But lying to me and causing me all these agonies is what I feel hurt me alot. Sigh...! Anyway, got a few questions to ask you guys. What would you all have done if you were me? Do girls nowadays go out with guys, acting intimately and yet do not acknowledge the other as bf? Obviously the second question was a revelation to me as I only knew there's such things happening nowadays. Anyway, please give me your kind advise. Thanks!!! =]
If u ask me, I wouldn't tolerate any girl who lied to me abt nt having a bf, seems like she is playing u, but of course, this may nt b intenional. However, I can't accept and that's it...Originally posted by N_igh_t:Hi all, new to this forum, so if I make any mistakes, please bear with me. =] Quite vexed now, as 2day just found out that the gal that I like actually have a bf. When I first knew her, she told me that she doesn't have a bf, that's why I courted her(did alot of stupid things, flowers, poems, you name it!!!) Anyway, she didn't really reciprocate, so too bad. I don't mind being rejected, but I feel that she shouldn't have told me don't have a bf when she actually had one. My principles are very clear, if a gal have bf, I won't think of courting her. What she did to me was leading me on a wild goose chase, wasting all my time and efforts and my love. Though she didn't reciprocate my love, it's ok to me to be rejected. If I fail I fail, that's that. But lying to me and causing me all these agonies is what I feel hurt me alot. Sigh...! Anyway, got a few questions to ask you guys. What would you all have done if you were me? Do girls nowadays go out with guys, acting intimately and yet do not acknowledge the other as bf? Obviously the second question was a revelation to me as I only knew there's such things happening nowadays. Anyway, please give me your kind advise. Thanks!!! =]
good for you man! that's the spirit! but seriously, if a girl lies like that for the wrong reasons, she's not worth the trouble. get to know her better first!Originally posted by N_igh_t:Hey guys! Thanks alot for all your replys!!! Well, the anger have subsided now, and with a logical head, I am writing this. I think I will just maintain a friendship with her. No longer will I do anything for her now. Not worth it. I thought of giving her a scolding and such, but I don't think it'll do any good. Conflicts will not solve problems, but will make it worse. Think that the best way for me is to lead my life even better and strive harder no matter in my studies, work, etc. At the end of the day, I will succeed in my life and that's the best way. Who knows, she may then knock herself on her head and ask why she didn't choose me then! Haha! Let me turn this anger and frustration into a new force in the shaping of a better life. Cheerios!!! =]
Totally agree....never trust a guy 100%!!!Originally posted by LiL^Jap^Doll:Happened to me ... ... He lied to me that he didnt have a girlfriend.I fell for him.We spent many long hours on the phone.And we were quite close.Once,his girlfriend SMS me and I got the message.(I dun go after attached guys).Anyway,I asked him about his girlfriend again,he told me that was his friend playing a trick on me.I fell for his lie again...Lesson learnt ---> Never trust a guy 100% .... n always try to check up properly if he is attached anot.... U'll get over it....
Same goes for the girls.Never trust a girl 100% too,ahaahahOriginally posted by ApPlE_PiE:Totally agree....never trust a guy 100%!!!
Me gal...not guy Aaron. *4give u anyway*Originally posted by aaron84z:Wah ... think about it lor ... if all the girls never trust guys 100%, and we do the same thing ... Then there will be lack of trust in a relationship ... and there will be lots of failed R/s in the end. Come on ... Like what the other guy said ... Love is a gamble... You can only give in your all and hope for the best...