wat is LJTJ and LJL?Originally posted by kof-guy:maybe you can just.. 'disappear'?
but very hurtful loh. LJTJ ah this kinda stuff. but if u're a LJL then ok loh.
LJTJ - lan jiao tai jeeOriginally posted by audlenelee:wat is LJTJ and LJL?
thanks snowball...Originally posted by snowball72:LJTJ - lan jiao tai jee
LJL - lan jiao lang
Originally posted by snowball72:*sayang* snowball72
keeping the truth from her will onli make her hurt more....
if u come up wif a stupid excuse or reason...and over time she got over u...one fine day when she learnt the truth behind ur story...she'll be hurt once again...and even more. Cos the person she loved most [b]LIED. Be it a white lie or not...she deserves the right to know the truth.[/B]
1) Put everthin' u have written above in a letter.Originally posted by iz_diz_rite:guys i'm in a real dillema and i've been losing sleep over this so help will be greatly appreciated.
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i want a breakup. but yet i wish to minimize the hurt that it would cause her... i know i am being a total jerk by putting up a facade, pretending that everything is fine in front of her...but i am really troubled and confused...how can i break it to her while not causing so much pain? pls gimme ur advice...
Wah, this solution really psycho wor.Originally posted by Psycho V:1) Put everthin' u have written above in a letter.
2) Give letter to her.
3) Get slapped.
4) Problem solved. Just make sure she dun jump off some building later.
ever heard of a knife dat pierce without pain? no rite?Originally posted by iz_diz_rite:guys i'm in a real dillema and i've been losing sleep over this so help will be greatly appreciated.
i've been with my gf for almost 2 yrs now and things are going fine. we do not quarrel much or anything and she is simply a wonderful gf. and i do my best to be the best bf i can be.
but over the past few months, i've realized that i no longer love her. i still care for her and do not want her to be hurt in anyway. however, i feel that what i'm doing now is simply to be the good bf alongside her good gf. i am now just being a good bf to her cos she really loves me and is simply extremly nice to me.
it is not that i never had feelings for her. the relationship won;t last 2 yrs then. i did love her. i did feel that perhaps, she is the one i want to marry in the future. but the feeling is just not there anymore...
i have broken up with other girls b4 but my current gf is different. she is the 1st one i loved... and she is the 1st one to really love me wholeheartedly...
another complication is that she did ask for a break up b4 quite a while back and i refused..eventually i won back her heart. but if i break up with her now it is really very unfair to her cos i'm the one who asked for a 2nd chance and now that i got it, i throw it away.
i want a breakup. but yet i wish to minimize the hurt that it would cause her... i know i am being a total jerk by putting up a facade, pretending that everything is fine in front of her...but i am really troubled and confused...how can i break it to her while not causing so much pain? pls gimme ur advice...
why u sayang me?? anyhow touch here touch there....wait i roll over u and crash u ah!!Originally posted by audlenelee:*sayang* snowball72
*dead*Originally posted by snowball72:why u sayang me?? anyhow touch here touch there....wait i roll over u and crash u ah!!
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*joot joot* Retrac, cool down man...Originally posted by Retrac:Why are there guys like you??!! Do you know because of pple like u, the entire guy species gets a bloody bad name.
Anyway like wat everyone said, if you don't love her anymore, it's best you tell her straight and make a CLEAN BREAK. Don't give her the hope that there is still a posibility of patching up later.
Think about it, don't u think it's very unfair to her??!! Have you ever thought how u will feel if u were her??!! of coz, u will feel damn hurt... because the person u love wholeheartedlly doesn't love you anymore....
It's better to hurt her now then to continue playing this game with her!!