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actually i've tried to comunicate wif him... but its like i'm the type who can't hold my emotion, and before we can tok long... i will cry, and its like all most everytime we tried to tok, i'll cry even if it has not reach the point tat i wan to say... my mum and sis noes tat i've been crying almost everynight, but no one ask me wat happen... i think they should noe wat happen but does not want to say... and its like he does not like me to mix wif my friends who r guys... and sometimes i think he is over possessive... he sometimes does not like it tat i went out wif my best friends.... hai... really dun noe wat to do wif this relationship... but i don't wan t to break wif him... do u think i need time to cool down... but i'm the kind who tok little... sometimes i got things to say to him but dare not.... -
if u dnt xpress yr feelings, how do u xpect any1 to understand u n work things out? im nt joking here but since u can write yr problems here in the forums... u cld try writing yr bf a letter instead.
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Take ur time...Slowly slowly think wat u wanna tell him.Hold back ur tears if u can..
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y dun u try writing to him?? i think writing is a good way to express oneself and also to get the person to listen. When talking, the other party might tend to interrupt and hence disrupt your thots.
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U can try writing him a letter which express ur feelings and thoughts , things u reli wan him to noe but do not dare to tell him face to face. Alternatively , u can oso try e-mailing him , i've tried tis before to clear up the misunderstandings btw my bf and me ... In the end the problems r clearing up slowly ... Tis method of communication works if u reli cant tell him wads goin on in ur mind ... i Wish u all the best wif ur guy ! gAmbAte !
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totally agree...last time me and my ex quarrel always use email one...better cos u can express urself better...without external factors....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:y dun u try writing to him?? i think writing is a good way to express oneself and also to get the person to listen. When talking, the other party might tend to interrupt and hence disrupt your thots. -
it can be difficult to express emotions in electronic form. and if there is a punctuation error then can get mistaken easily.Originally posted by dookie:totally agree...last time me and my ex quarrel always use email one...better cos u can express urself better...without external factors.... -
So dats uOriginally posted by |Uv`-f|UtE-`:U can try writing him a letter which express ur feelings and thoughts , things u reli wan him to noe but do not dare to tell him face to face. Alternatively , u can oso try e-mailing him , i've tried tis before to clear up the misunderstandings btw my bf and me ... In the end the problems r clearing up slowly ... Tis method of communication works if u reli cant tell him wads goin on in ur mind ... i Wish u all the best wif ur guy ! gAmbAte ! -
I agree...letter would be good....u dun seem to have any problem in expressing yrself over here....Originally posted by skeujin:if u dnt xpress yr feelings, how do u xpect any1 to understand u n work things out? im nt joking here but since u can write yr problems here in the forums... u cld try writing yr bf a letter instead. -
After some advices here, have you done anything about it so far?Originally posted by huijun_takeshi: actually i've tried to comunicate wif him... but its like i'm the type who can't hold my emotion, and before we can tok long... i will cry, and its like all most everytime we tried to tok, i'll cry even if it has not reach the point tat i wan to say... my mum and sis noes tat i've been crying almost everynight, but no one ask me wat happen... i think they should noe wat happen but does not want to say... and its like he does not like me to mix wif my friends who r guys... and sometimes i think he is over possessive... he sometimes does not like it tat i went out wif my best friends.... hai... really dun noe wat to do wif this relationship... but i don't wan t to break wif him... do u think i need time to cool down... but i'm the kind who tok little... sometimes i got things to say to him but dare not....
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