i am not sure what 2 do.
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hey guys,
dere is girl who like me alot alot,she has sacrife alot for me.she carved my name n code on her arm.
but i rejected her love for me,she was quite hurt, i guess.but before i rejected her, i felt sum feelings for her, but later it juz went away...
after that, we did not see each other for around 2mths but we contacted.she told me she like some one else, which i am very glad for her.but i ask her frens who izzit?but the frens juz say, there's no such thing..well, i believe wad that gal who liked me say.
we went on christmas with a group of frens.she say the one whom she like did not come,n i feel a pang of jealousy hanging.but i didnt really bother.i saw her handphone wrote "13114"13 is her code 1 is luv 14 is my code.i was kinda happy..den i realised i hv a strong desire of hugging her.and a strong feeling suddenly for her.but i am very scared, that if i accepted her love, n my feelings would juz run away like last time.i am very scared to hurt her anymore.i do admit, maybe i go for looks but she is a really nice person.
i dunno whether 2 accept or not..i am confused.is this juz normal infatuation or it's a infatuation which can be develope?this gal like me for ard 6mths already..
pls help me?thankie!=) -
go for it brudder.
dun be shy.
then u can know the answer -
erh..to tell one thing wor...i am not brudder.haha.i am sister?!so ya understand?
yup, i am so called a lesbian or crkz..yup, not straight.okay guys, i am being honest now.well...yup!=) -
no wonder
guys dun have such confusing thoughts like u
i have no comments on ur question though
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Had always not really understand Lesbian's love... You people have such an unique way of seeing love or relationship... Such a woman's way.... By the way, how old are you...? I think you can get BETTER ADVICEs from your other lesbian friends...? I BELIEVE the MOST of the guys here would give a VERY GUY's OPINION.... <- Which you most probably won't find it so useful...?Originally posted by bigboggie:erh..to tell one thing wor...i am not brudder.haha.i am sister?!so ya understand?
yup, i am so called a lesbian or crkz..yup, not straight.okay guys, i am being honest now.well...yup!=) -
Hmmm... it depends if you can handle how some people from society view you. If you can handle them then you can do whatever you want except for going against your conscience.Originally posted by bigboggie:erh..to tell one thing wor...i am not brudder.haha.i am sister?!so ya understand?
yup, i am so called a lesbian or crkz..yup, not straight.okay guys, i am being honest now.well...yup!=)
Many people in society are homophobic and some of the lesbians/gays are more sensitive to people not accepting or approving of this type of relationship.
That said, i've always thought (still think) that love should not have any boundaries, be it man or woman, old or young, race or culture. Love is always Love... it's up to you.
Just do not regret being involved in a lesbian relationship, in future. Hey! Life goes on... and on and on... until we die. Then its a different ball game. -
Hmmmm... on second thought. How experienced is her in this game? I know that from your mail you've made up your mind about what to do. Then she might be playing a game with you... slap me if i'm wrong. But look inside yourself this time round. Examine your thoughts first then your feelings. Afraid you have to help yourself now.Originally posted by bigboggie:but i didnt really bother.i saw her handphone wrote "13114"13 is her code 1 is luv 14 is my code.i was kinda happy..den i realised i hv a strong desire of hugging her.and a strong feeling suddenly for her.but i am very scared, that if i accepted her love, n my feelings would juz run away like last time.i am very scared to hurt her anymore.i do admit, maybe i go for looks but she is a really nice person.
i dunno whether 2 accept or not..i am confused.is this juz normal infatuation or it's a infatuation which can be develope?this gal like me for ard 6mths already..
pls help me?thankie!=)
What's this about feelings running away? -
well, i myself i have no idea y is e feelings running away.really.probably it's juz a little crush, like normal crush, it would go away 4 awhile..yeah.Originally posted by Klactovak:What's this about feelings running away? -
What you have is a classic case of commitment-phobia. It always happens when the first relationship doesn't work out or when you see your friends' relationships don't work out.Originally posted by bigboggie:well, i myself i have no idea y is e feelings running away.really.probably it's juz a little crush, like normal crush, it would go away 4 awhile..yeah.
Some people get hurt and hide in a shell, afraid of trusting and loving again. Others, go into excess and start having revenge by fooling around with many people, hurting people at the same time.
The best thing is not to be afraid. Life goes on. I think it's sad that a single incident can spoil a person's entire life. Such incidents do create fear but HECK IT! Life is not worth living as a coward... without passion. After all, life is more than making $$$, buying big houses, fast cars and beautiful people.
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i like this.Originally posted by Klactovak:After all, life is more than making $$$, buying big houses, fast cars and beautiful people. -
Ruth|E!!! If it didn't kill you then can only make you stronger. hahaha... maybe you have not met the right person after all.Originally posted by Ruth|E:After having gone thru 3 r/s... i believe all guys and gals are materialistic... as what bear has said earlier on.... gers go for yandao, rich, career guys... while guys would to mind if ya pretty or not a virgin... Pls bear this in mind... We are living in a dog eat dog enviroment... sometimes, i lealli wonder why we ever get married... is it jus to show off? or marriage is something jus to certify that u r eligble for SEX? i mean tts onli for some taboo families...
Phew.. jus my 1/2 cent worth!
Marriage is... taken too lightly in recent years. Marriage vow also anyhow say... sigh. It is to make a commitment to your spouse. To enjoy that companionship not only for sex but more than that... in daily affairs, and accepting each other. Even though they have "heavy breath" in the morning, stroking her hair, enduring weird mood swings, or they are fat, or have become ugly and all that. It is to hold and support each other through good and bad times, sickness and in health, rich or poor... above all to know that someone is always there to be loved by and to love. Hmmmm.... getting mushy... aiyah!
And NOT, you got money, you got car, i want you. You Pok-KAI, I bye bye!
My friend said that marriage is like a job, have kids and raise children. Always the woman looking after the man or vice versa. If everyone were to think of it this way, then there will be more resignations from the post of husbands or wives soon.
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Yah! Vicious cycle, my 1/16 cents worth. :pOriginally posted by Ruth|E:hmm.. its a cycle!
My 1/8 cents worth!
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R/S is all about compromises
My 1/32 cents worth Ruthie :p
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butch...not even worth my half cent...
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dun waste her time la.. a relatnshp tt goes no where.. wad 4?
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