i am 24 years old guy and recently got to know this maid who is 31 years old.She also likes me but for some reason she is hesitant. She is going back on the dec 31 of this year back to her country . I asked her why she is hesitant
this is our sms exchange
Me: why are u hesitant, i know u also like me
she: no, but i dont wan thinking of boy because i going back
ME: is it because age gap
She: maybe. But i think i should not be with boy so young . but inside i like but i know i cannot
ME: Why does it matter, it dont matter
She: i know, but i going back and maybe not return. I dont want beccause of boy i heartbroke
anyway she also promise if she think about me she will return
English very poor
sorry for the english but the sms exactly reproduced as it is
ppl will forever say u dated a maid
or you married a maid
u ok?
u taxi driver? bus driver?
oh but boy cannot drive bus
My advice has always been: Nobody can live on love and fresh air alone.
Really.
Originally posted by TehJarVu:ppl will forever say u dated a maid
or you married a maid
u ok?
u taxi driver? bus driver?
oh but boy cannot drive bus
i am a singaporean. Not a low wage worker . but dip holder
Originally posted by TehJarVu:ppl will forever say u dated a maid
or you married a maid
u ok?
u taxi driver? bus driver?
oh but boy cannot drive bus
they mutually like can already. very discriminatory to seperate them for the reason that one is a maid.
Btw, to TS, in china, many couples break up because of 异地�, so probably she has a good reason not to accept your love.
so anyhow she is going back
so are u going to fly there to be with her?
wah be FT in hweeleepeen
Try to keep contact through mail or other means. If one year, two years later, the feelings still remains between you and her, if means the relationship is strong and there may be chance of success. But if the feelings fades and reality sets in, then just forget about it. It's just a passing phase.
she is in there for the sex only n nothing more
24 years old and still acting like a kid.....you should know what is realistic and what is not realistic.
Sorry to be harsh.
just forget her. Troublesome.
I've always been told that filipino women have this thing about hooking males with black magic. Obviously I am skeptical about such hearsay, but somehow the things I see don't reinforce my skeptism.
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Originally posted by Dalforce 25:Try to keep contact through mail or other means. If one year, two years later, the feelings still remains between you and her, if means the relationship is strong and there may be chance of success. But if the feelings fades and reality sets in, then just forget about it. It's just a passing phase.
its all your wishful thinking and mindless dreaming.
If you want her as a lover, don't fall in love. Yes, they are hot and they make good lovers.
But if you visit anyone in the Phils, you'll have no shortage of girls itching to marry you AND guys with sisters and cousins to recommend..
If you wanna marry her, make sure you date for at least for 2 years.
* and if you want her as a lover, don't give her any chance or motive to cry rape.
Originally posted by Miobox:i am 24 years old guy and recently got to know this maid who is 31 years old.She also likes me but for some reason she is hesitant. She is going back on the dec 31 of this year back to her country . I asked her why she is hesitant
this is our sms exchange
Me: why are u hesitant, i know u also like me
she: no, but i dont wan thinking of boy because i going back
ME: is it because age gap
She: maybe. But i think i should not be with boy so young . but inside i like but i know i cannot
ME: Why does it matter, it dont matter
She: i know, but i going back and maybe not return. I dont want beccause of boy i heartbroke
anyway she also promise if she think about me she will return
There are so many nice S'pore girls around. Is it no S'pore girls can beat her?
i want to ask, why's your point?
what you want get by posting it.
i think it is a little puzzled, her age can be your mom yet,
she love you, is it the mother love?? or your lack of motherhood?
Is she married? Does she have a child?
I suggest you don't take her seriously, wait she say father mother sister brother uncle auntie sick, then you will be visiting the remittance office alot. If S'porean, every month visit visit and give ang pao ok le.
filipino is the best in sexual performance....
they are nice and gentle people to be around with too....but too bad...many of them are abused by employers and even considered out caste by some proud sg....of course every country has their good and bad people...
as in any case, if a gal really like u, they will make it easier for u....else, she will make it hard for u
i do know a fren who was in love with a filipina...but his whole family and sister violently objected....he persisted and got married...on the day of ROM, the whole family did not even show face....it was such a sad memory for the couple....
finally, after she gave birth.....the family relented and they are now a part of a happy family....she proved to be a very good daughter in law ....
The social divide will prove too much. You were guys were not maid to be.