Think My Wife Is Having Affair

• [imdestinyz]

  12 Dec 11, 19:35

  Originally posted by Jlsky70:

  I caught them in bed this afternoon when i came home to get something. Confronted the that guy and we got into a fight. Chased him out and my wife follow suit after repeatedly said sorry to me.

  
  wow... even dare to do it at ur house... whats more than that. sign the papers by done with it. This is way to overboard. I bet she's not home yet even now.

• [imdestinyz]

  12 Dec 11, 19:36

  oh yea... save ur daughter from such stuffs... u shld try gather some evidence of this adultery and use it court for custody fight.

• Dalforce 1941

  12 Dec 11, 20:17

  Originally posted by Jlsky70:

  I caught them in bed this afternoon when i came home to get something. Confronted the that guy and we got into a fight. Chased him out and my wife follow suit after repeatedly said sorry to me.

  Your wife and the guy how old?

  Just end the marriage quickly and find someone new; so disgusting and shameless.

• M874

  13 Dec 11, 02:55

  Originally posted by [imdestinyz]:

  
  都到了这个地步了，还有�能是�的么？

  
  那就离婚�。。。头一次�到�婆外�的情况

• mancha

  13 Dec 11, 14:18

  TS

  You are extremely strong that you can take it, or extremely weak that you can't do anything.

  All the best.

• missydiana

  13 Dec 11, 15:45

  Please dont be too sad. She's not worth your love at all. It's her loss that she doesn't appreciates who are you. 

• Medicated Oil

  13 Dec 11, 16:01

  I beginning to think that the TS is taking us for a ride.

   

• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Dec 11, 16:02

  Originally posted by Jlsky70:

  I caught them in bed this afternoon when i came home to get something. Confronted the that guy and we got into a fight. Chased him out and my wife follow suit after repeatedly said sorry to me.

  
  WTF is this shit?!

  Jlsky70, I feel for you man!

• missydiana

  13 Dec 11, 16:07

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  
  WTF is this shit?!

  Jlsky70, I feel for you man!

  Same here, i feel for you..

• TANET

  13 Dec 11, 17:48

  Dear Fren,

  I can totally understand what you are going through, I went through very similar experience 1 year ago, am now in the process of finalizing my divorce. What is this world is coming to?

  I know this is gonna haunt you for a long time to come. It'll take some time for you to at least cool down a bit and get back some logical thinking. Then you have to ask yourself, what do you want?

  There will be people who tells you to hang on to the marriage for the sake of the child, that is bull in my opinion.

  1) The child might or might not be happy if you decide to get a divorce, the child might or might not be happy in a problematic marriage as well. It will be an unknown factor.

  2) Most of the times, children are highly adaptable, much more than adults.

  So, don't worry too much about the child, I think what you want is more important.

  And to those who say beating up the other guy need to go to jail, they probably don't read the newpapers and don't know the law well. You could have pretty well gave the guy a punch or two, if you desired. He probably wouldn't pursue the case, and even if he were to call the police, the police will not do anything and ask him to file a civil suit. Fighting is a non criminal and non seizable offence. Please don't cause serious injury or use weapons, that is a different case.

  You are probably gonna be depressed, cannot sleep well and cannot focus on your work. Please seek help if necessary. For me, I couldn't sleep, and when I don't sleep well, it affects my mood, and I get more depressed, and it just spirals downwards from there, a vicious cycle.

  Good Luck Bro. If you need to talk, do drop me a message. We can compare notes. :)

   

• angel7030

  13 Dec 11, 17:56

  Originally posted by Dalforce 1941:

  Your wife and the guy how old?

  Just end the marriage quickly and find someone new; so disgusting and shameless.

  
  Yalor, more shameless than me, so I thot.

  Aiya,TS, nevermind lah, just come my place, have a few booze, join the crowd and bring one home yourself, careless all this shit once and for all.

• Fugazzi

  13 Dec 11, 18:41

  Originally posted by Medicated Oil:

  I beginning to think that the TS is taking us for a ride.

   

  
  Never mind lah, even it is a fiction, there are so many postings aka views, prejudices, bigotry, opinions, advice, anger, hate fear expressed cos of this alleged incident. The wise will unlearn, the dense will .....
• Solitare212

  13 Dec 11, 22:59

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• angel7030

  14 Dec 11, 09:29

  Originally posted by Medicated Oil:

  I beginning to think that the TS is taking us for a ride.

   

  
  You r a smart man, for me, in the begining, we already on the roller coaster.

• icecreamluver

  14 Dec 11, 11:40

  Hire PI and catch her in action la... show that she in the wrong. Divorce her and splash her photos on the net.

• Hooverviile

  14 Dec 11, 14:44

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• troublemaker2005

  14 Dec 11, 20:57

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  
  You r a smart man, for me, in the begining, we already on the roller coaster.

  
  you then really take all the postiogs and threads here seriously

  silly girl

• angel7030

  15 Dec 11, 14:02

  Play along mah, you dun embrass people just like this, it is not easy to come out with a well craft stories like this, at least, if seek opinons and comment mah.

• Jlsky70

  18 Dec 11, 00:59

  my friend had given me contact number of a lawyer who handles divorce case. I have called him this morning and he asked me to call him again on Monday to fix an appointment.

   

• Darkness_hacker99

  18 Dec 11, 01:14

  eh br, i wonder if it's okay for you to share with us how are you feeling now? many forumers here are very concerned about you.  i believe most of us want you hear your thoughts about this and your action plan of moving on...

• Jlsky70

  18 Dec 11, 01:27

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  eh br, i wonder if it's okay for you to share with us how are you feeling now? many forumers here are very concerned about you.  i believe most of us want you hear your thoughts about this and your action plan of moving on...

  my feeling is a mixture of sadness, anger, disappointment, hatred, shame, humiliation..etc...I'm feeling very down and it really affects my life. My mood is foul and i got easily agiated. I yelled and my daughter for some small things that kids usually do....i felt bad for doing so...i don't like it...i want to control my feeling and actions, but it's easier said then done...

  Yes, i'm moving towards divorce. It seems the best option. But i think we will be fighting for our daughter's custody.

• Darkness_hacker99

  18 Dec 11, 01:37

  alright bro thx for sharing with us how you feel. I wanna let you know that whenever you feel low, you can come back to your thread and share with us your feelings. I understand it's gonna be a tough journey ahead, you're never gonna be alone.i can assure that. thou sgforums is a small place, people here are from all walks of life and may offer their personal experience and advice to you.

  it's okay to feel this way, and i'm sure it's a temporary feeling.. you know you've yelled at your daughter due to your emotions.. i'm sure you know kids love candies.  rmb to buy candies for her ya~ kids are very sensitive to the surrounding and is very intuitive in judging emotions. some candies /stuffed toy will help them feel better..

• Jlsky70

  18 Dec 11, 01:51

  my daughter is my everything now. She is my moral suppport. She is my strength. Though she can be anoying sometimes and agitates me, but whenever she smiles or shows me her poor innocent face, my trouble would temporary disappear and joy seeps in. Too bad this temporary joy don't last...i would be sad again soon after...

• Darkness_hacker99

  18 Dec 11, 01:58

  I hope you can win the custody of your precious daughter.  seems like you're spending a lot more time with your daughter...

• Jlsky70

  18 Dec 11, 02:04

  with my wife coming home late all the time, yes i spend much more time with my daughter.