"My bf ignored me at the party...."
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I haf no bf....
but juz wanna state dis "type" of prob lo...~
wat if ur bf always says he loves u & stuff...den when he's wif his frens...he tends to ignore u...he dun realli bother abt u at a party...
den after the party...when both of u are going home together...(onli the both of u)....he starts his sweet tok again??
he still says he loves u....& is still veri sweet to u....
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no its not sweet...
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got gf doesnt mean must attend to her 24/7 rite?
i really detest, abhor is better, i really abhor girls who complain that their bfs dun give much attention to them.. sheesh -
He still have his friends mah, doesn't mean he have to be with you all the time .. but if he didn't even say a word to you, then i think something is wrong.
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analysis abt e guy??
why is he doing dis lei??
dun tink it has anything to do wif "attention" issue...~ -
maybe he'll juz take a glance or two at the gurl onli...~
didn't tok to her at all..~ -
Y not U try? coz practical is BETTER than lecture... no I not sarcastic... some cases is best answered in action... words cannot help much... as for "words" to dis prob... dis BF... is not a VERY good BF... juz normal type... but he oso need some personal space mah... so best is to ask y instead of sucumb to his sweet toks...Originally posted by MovieGirl:I haf no bf....
but juz wanna state dis "type" of prob lo...~
wat if ur bf always says he loves u & stuff...den when he's wif his frens...he tends to ignore u...he dun realli bother abt u at a party...
den after the party...when both of u are going home together...(onli the both of u)....he starts his sweet tok again??
he still says he loves u....& is still veri sweet to u.... 
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well...if the guy is veri shy one??
den if e gurl asked him y u ignore me juz now...
he'll get uneasy....den say he dun realli dare to tok to her?
he can tok alot when he's wif his frens though....but he realli loves e gurl... -
Wat kinda BF is he? cannot disclose everything wif da GF meh? but then again I tink he may not be comfortable... these kinda things need mutual understanding... no pt forcing him... he tell U when he comfortable... Kinda "deja-vu" when I post dis 1...... dunno where got see dis b4... (I mean wat I write lah...)Originally posted by MovieGirl:well...if the guy is veri shy one??
den if e gurl asked him y u ignore me juz now...
he'll get uneasy....den say he dun realli dare to tok to her?
he can tok alot when he's wif his frens though....but he realli loves e gurl... -
Dis shows U still young......Originally posted by cHeR|sH^LoVe:no its not sweet...
Oops!!! Sorrie sorrie! I shldn't sae dat... Paiseh... dun angwee hor...
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haha...deja-vu....
maybe he loves her so much dat he juz need to gaze at her to be happie?? to look at her tok & smile would be enuff liaoz??...
& most of e time he wouldn't noe wat to say?
maybe he's a shy shy guy??
but he's veri comfortable wif e rest of his frens though...~ -
2 ways to look at it.
A good way is:
he is shy will not show he affection in the public.
A bad way is:
he is not serious about this gal, so he keeps his distances in public just in case he got a better catch, he can say "Oh... that's no my gf, just friends." -
Hmm... take it slowly... it takes time to understand da other person... y da BF shy & y he can tok so openly to his buddies... its all in time... communication is important but sometimes time is oso a good help.Originally posted by MovieGirl:haha...deja-vu....
maybe he loves her so much dat he juz need to gaze at her to be happie?? to look at her tok & smile would be enuff liaoz??...
& most of e time he wouldn't noe wat to say?
maybe he's a shy shy guy??
but he's veri comfortable wif e rest of his frens though...~ -
hmmm...is there anything wrong wif guys who are toooo shy to show affection in public??
no right??...~
hmm...yah....i guess the gurl will juz need to communicate more wif him & make him more comfortable wif her? -
Originally posted by MovieGirl:I haf no bf....
but juz wanna state dis "type" of prob lo...~
wat if ur bf always says he loves u & stuff...den when he's wif his frens...he tends to ignore u...he dun realli bother abt u at a party...
den after the party...when both of u are going home together...(onli the both of u)....he starts his sweet tok again??
he still says he loves u....& is still veri sweet to u.... 
Guy has his pride, at the party, if he dun talk to u, leave him be
give him some pride
but if it's really bothering you, then try going to talk to other gals and together go crazy at the dance floor, flirt with other guys 
Make him green with jealousy, then have a nice long talk to him behind doors
Although sometimes they need some time, so best if you make friends with his friends, so they'll include you in their conversation That way, if he ignores u, his buddy will chat u up, and if my calculations are correct He'll start talking to you le 
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Wat En' said is oso 1 wae.Originally posted by MovieGirl:hmmm...is there anything wrong wif guys who are toooo shy to show affection in public??
no right??...~
hmm...yah....i guess the gurl will juz need to communicate more wif him & make him more comfortable wif her?
Any more questions?
I got 1 for U... how old r U? I dun tink U above 21 rite? -
well...is it realli the guy's pride???
Hmmm... -
hmm..wat makes u tink im below 21??
keke.. -
hmm..wat mkaes u tink im below 21??...
keke... -
Different gals have different preferences. Some gals prefer their bf to be wif them everyday...Originally posted by Master -_-:got gf doesnt mean must attend to her 24/7 rite?
i really detest, abhor is better, i really abhor girls who complain that their bfs dun give much attention to them.. sheesh -
Well... many... Dis r ALL my views... not accurate...Originally posted by MovieGirl:well...is it realli the guy's pride???
Hmmm...
1: From how U describe yr probs (not juz dis thread) seems to me U can't handle dat well lah...
2: How U ans to all da replies in dis thread oso another factor... not dat mature enuf to see possible good solutions...
3: U said U wanna be a "better" person... well... normally ppl by age 21 & above can start to tink for his/her/its future... how to go abt it & such... got exceptions lah...
Juz tell me U r above or below can liao... above r juz my crappies... -
i think this type of man is better..
gal! u gotta learn to give ur bf time n space.. juz like he give u time n phone to chitchat with ur best fren..
man alway gotta kay kay ignore gf abit infront of his frens what.. it call face! gotta have face..
anyway, u can chat with ur bf's fren's gf also what.. sometime can find out thingy u bf nv told u b4 also!
some guys juz take buddy more important than GF!
example : monnie -
2nd example: Loneryu00Originally posted by monnie:i think this type of man is better..
gal! u gotta learn to give ur bf time n space.. juz like he give u time n phone to chitchat with ur best fren..
man alway gotta kay kay ignore gf abit infront of his frens what.. it call face! gotta have face..
anyway, u can chat with ur bf's fren's gf also what.. sometime can find out thingy u bf nv told u b4 also!
some guys juz take buddy more important than GF!
example : monnie -
haha...
oki oki u win...hmmm...
yeah...im below 21...
u're real smart.....keke... -
I not smart... its general knowledge... many can guess U not 21 yet... I even suspect U roughly O lvl age sum more...Originally posted by MovieGirl:haha...
oki oki u win...hmmm...
yeah...im below 21...
u're real smart.....keke...