Originally posted by Leion:
you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
share share...
Honeymoon period seems to be over for you...

But you and her are only together for 5 months.. How much both of you understand each other??

Is always when during the honeymoon period.. the true self is not really shown out.. Cos you wan the love that you had for each other to be caring, cosy and warm.. YOu dun wan to spoil it when you first start in a relationship.. You wanna keep as good as possible.. ANd leave a good impression and image...

When time passes.. you get used to each other.. Things started to change.. Every small little things you quarrel and argue about.. and its really SMALL MATTER. Cos in the beginning you tend to pamper her and shower her with alot of care and love..

When you start to disagree something with her.. she may feel that you no longer go with her way.. Things starts to happen..

SO i suggest that you have a talk with her first.. and see why there are so many disagreements between both.. Issit all unnecessary things that both argue about?? Is not any big matter... Come out with a solution.. Compromise with each other.. But don;t PROMISE!
promise only when you know for sure you are able to do it.. IF not THIS PROMISE will kill you in the end!

Communication is important in the relationship.. Trust and honesty too!! Open up to your partner.. Share with her.. Tell her how you feel and also listen to her comments and suggestions.. There's nothing in the world taht cannot be done.. Self-confidence and determination you must have..

Don't get too upset over things.. Don't compare her with another.. especially with your ex or her ex.. or whatsoever... Sometimes can come out with surprises... It will help oso.. Try not to quarrel too much.. it will affect the relation ALOT!!

Then i'm sure after that you will have smooth sailing for your relation..
