Relationship hurdles..
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you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
share share...
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it's like tt...some plp say it's after 2 yrs n if u pass the bad times,it will be gd n better lor,if u can't means it's a break up lor..but hope not in ur case...anyway if anything juz tok things thru calmly k?Originally posted by Leion:you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
share share... 
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easy.. i broke up with herOriginally posted by Leion:you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
share share... 
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break up not the option i want[/quote]
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Try to compromise with each other lor.. because both of you are stil in the "know each other state", five months is not a long period.. more or less there will be disagreements.. if u really love her and dun want to break up.. u have to sit down and solve the problems together with your ger.. Remember it takes 2 hands to clap.. Hope everything will work out for u.. Cheers..Originally posted by Leion:break up not the option i want[/quote] -
Honeymoon period seems to be over for you...Originally posted by Leion:you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
share share... 
But you and her are only together for 5 months.. How much both of you understand each other??
Is always when during the honeymoon period.. the true self is not really shown out.. Cos you wan the love that you had for each other to be caring, cosy and warm.. YOu dun wan to spoil it when you first start in a relationship.. You wanna keep as good as possible.. ANd leave a good impression and image...
When time passes.. you get used to each other.. Things started to change.. Every small little things you quarrel and argue about.. and its really SMALL MATTER. Cos in the beginning you tend to pamper her and shower her with alot of care and love..
When you start to disagree something with her.. she may feel that you no longer go with her way.. Things starts to happen..
SO i suggest that you have a talk with her first.. and see why there are so many disagreements between both.. Issit all unnecessary things that both argue about?? Is not any big matter... Come out with a solution.. Compromise with each other.. But don;t PROMISE!
promise only when you know for sure you are able to do it.. IF not THIS PROMISE will kill you in the end!
Communication is important in the relationship.. Trust and honesty too!! Open up to your partner.. Share with her.. Tell her how you feel and also listen to her comments and suggestions.. There's nothing in the world taht cannot be done.. Self-confidence and determination you must have..
Don't get too upset over things.. Don't compare her with another.. especially with your ex or her ex.. or whatsoever... Sometimes can come out with surprises... It will help oso.. Try not to quarrel too much.. it will affect the relation ALOT!!
Then i'm sure after that you will have smooth sailing for your relation.. -
Is there any reasons tt u 2 got into such a state? For example both are stubborn and dun give in whenever quarrel?Originally posted by Leion:you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
share share... 
Some times u haf to bear with ur gf... or give in to her at times... But not too much tt she take u for granted... I used to always give in when with my ex, but realised its not the right things to do cos I am not always in the wrong.... I got sick and tired of constantly giving in... then after we broke up, she will stil haf expectations for me to do things tt she wanted... SO tired of it...
So give in a little but not too much might settle the thing and say sweet things to her lor.. gers like to be pampered in one way or another... -
Hey may i ask how old r u?Originally posted by Leion:you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
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21Originally posted by mattdevil:Hey may i ask how old r u? -
21 hereOriginally posted by mattdevil:Hey may i ask how old r u? -
IF U REALLY LUV HER, U'LL NOT WANT TO HURT HEROriginally posted by Leion:you and your loved one got into relationship for how long b4 you get more and more disagreements?
me and her 5 months now
getting more and more disagreements...
how do you get pass such things?
how to use it to add more passion into the relationship?
share share...
SO U'LL NOT TRY TO QUARREL TOO MUCH WITH HER
DISAGREEMENT IS DISAGREEMENT, U CAN COMPROMISE
IF SOMETIME SHE UNREASONABLE, U CAN TRY TO UNDERSTAND FROM HER POINT OF VIEW,
OR TAKE THE DISAGREEMENT AS A FACT, ACCEPT IT JUST LIKE U ACCEPT CONSTRUCTIVE CRTICISM FROM YOUR PEERS -
Giving in doesn't cost you a cent
just give in and forget abt it
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