disappointment in life itself
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honestly given how alot of ppl treat me these days,i find that i am very disappointed in life.it becomes like it doesnt matter if i just die or not.because there isnt much things there is in life that i miss or something or someone i like that i cant bear to leave loh.there is no friendship that i cherish and treasure at all.
i shall catergorize the ppl in my life into the following catergories
family,classmates,net friends,outside friends/
family.u probably know frm my previous thread. so there is no need for me to elaborate.
classmates.i started a thread abt this sometime ago.anyway i felt that many of them didnt treat me well and i wasnt close to them at all.then there were some changes, small but at least better than nothing.maybe i was oversensitive to some of the words to them or something.maybe it's sheer bad luck that i couldnt click with them at all.i dunno whether do you call this something sent by god to spite me of something. there are some ppl in class that are rather nice. but of cos,they are much closer to the rest of the class than me lah.
i dunno whether to go to their chalet or not since i probably wouldnt feel easy there. never mind the money i have paid.
net friends.
some of them i see them,talk to me,give me attitude.
anyway i dun wanna talk abt it too much.
outside friends
i got limited friends frm classes because of the strict policy my parents imposed on me in sec sch. end up i didnt even managed to keep in contact with them at all/ i can remember 1 guy ask me what was my icq number. i told him i dunno what was it because my parents restricted me frm having it anyway.
3mth cos. i know a small bunch of friends that i still keep in contact with till now.learnt to take their differences in stride anyway.
got introduced to 2 new friends thru a friend.
1 had a small crush on her and thought might wanna cont as friends instead since she has some similar interests with me
i msg her on last fri or something.asked her when is she free for a short chat since it has been time we last chatted.she told me to call her on mon night.ok fine. i called. 5 times, 5 times got into her mailbox.
i msg 2 friends.
1 said he is watching now. the other friend didnt reply.i called her home.she was out then i msg her. didnt reply.
until i called her just now.
said " maybe my hp off?" "maybe this maybe that"
she was the 1 who suggested to watching a movie tonight. then she denied it.
the 2nd new friend.once i msg her or talked online.was abit upset by her attitude.
so that sums up most of the ppl i know.
i am very disappointed in life liao.
i feel like going out.go arcade,movies.anywhere.
alone. because there wouldnt be a problem of latecoming.mis-communication.honestly i feel like crying.this is the first time i feel like crying after so many years. i really cannot take it anymore. -
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I have almost the same problem as you, just that my social circle is smaller than yours
I love to go watch shows too, etc
I sometimes think abt ending it too, but you know i think abt it and theres sooooo much i like to do for the world and experience for myself.
I used to always cry for no particular reason also, but i have since snap out of that retarded phase.
No use feeling sad for yourself, no one would see it and what you want is attention.
Life so far for you, has just been going with the 'flow' everything life throws at you just accept. Make things happen for yourself man! Don't wait for people to ask you out or get to know you.
Your parents treat you bad, well so be it. But next time when you are older treat them better.
Don't think of ending it. You could well be a person of great things, the world needs you. -
Wahaha sound like me~
Though i have a very understanding mother.
Irritating isn't it? Everytime you want to reach out to the world the world always seemed to reject you.
I'm a person that think too much for my own good, i think of questions that is either deeply offending or strike fear into ppl and by nature i dislike confrontation. It's not a matter of winning or losing but i dislike losing control arguing over a matter of little importance. So it was better to stay away from me before the urge to ask the questions overcome reason.
I've been going out and doing things alone for a few years and you may start to realise you don't need a lot of friends to enjoy life. A few hours spent walking, admiring the surroundings and comtemplating about life's wonders is far more fulfilling than being someone you're not just to please your friends. Not to say you should totally give up on socialising though
, a rare moment of messing around and joking with friends is still very precious and enjoyable.
I see you've been trying to seek female companionship, maybe it's a soul mate you're looking for, someone you can click with spiritually and mentally. But you think that it is a female you're looking for. Not asking you to be a gay, but maybe the person that could understand you might not neccesarily be a girl.
You are seeking for the one, aren't you? Much like me. However, unlike me you might still have a choice. Do you want to think that you are wrong and a fluke of nature or do you want to believe that it is the society that is wrong? The answer to that simple question might be far more fasincating than you imagine. -
I always believe one thing: When similar situation happens over a same period of time by different sort of people. It has little to do with these people generally.Originally posted by bismarck:honestly given how alot of ppl treat me these days,i find that i am very disappointed in life.it becomes like it doesnt matter if i just die or not.because there isnt much things there is in life that i miss or something or someone i like that i cant bear to leave loh.there is no friendship that i cherish and treasure at all.
i shall catergorize the ppl in my life into the following catergories
family,classmates,net friends,outside friends/
family.u probably know frm my previous thread. so there is no need for me to elaborate.
classmates.i started a thread abt this sometime ago.anyway i felt that many of them didnt treat me well and i wasnt close to them at all.then there were some changes, small but at least better than nothing.maybe i was oversensitive to some of the words to them or something.maybe it's sheer bad luck that i couldnt click with them at all.i dunno whether do you call this something sent by god to spite me of something. there are some ppl in class that are rather nice. but of cos,they are much closer to the rest of the class than me lah.
i dunno whether to go to their chalet or not since i probably wouldnt feel easy there. never mind the money i have paid.
net friends.
some of them i see them,talk to me,give me attitude.
anyway i dun wanna talk abt it too much.
outside friends
i got limited friends frm classes because of the strict policy my parents imposed on me in sec sch. end up i didnt even managed to keep in contact with them at all/ i can remember 1 guy ask me what was my icq number. i told him i dunno what was it because my parents restricted me frm having it anyway.
3mth cos. i know a small bunch of friends that i still keep in contact with till now.learnt to take their differences in stride anyway.
got introduced to 2 new friends thru a friend.
1 had a small crush on her and thought might wanna cont as friends instead since she has some similar interests with me
i msg her on last fri or something.asked her when is she free for a short chat since it has been time we last chatted.she told me to call her on mon night.ok fine. i called. 5 times, 5 times got into her mailbox.
i msg 2 friends.
1 said he is watching now. the other friend didnt reply.i called her home.she was out then i msg her. didnt reply.
until i called her just now.
said " maybe my hp off?" "maybe this maybe that"
she was the 1 who suggested to watching a movie tonight. then she denied it.
the 2nd new friend.once i msg her or talked online.was abit upset by her attitude.
so that sums up most of the ppl i know.
i am very disappointed in life liao.
i feel like going out.go arcade,movies.anywhere.
alone. because there wouldnt be a problem of latecoming.mis-communication.honestly i feel like crying.this is the first time i feel like crying after so many years. i really cannot take it anymore.
What do I mean?
It means: all that sort of friends you are mentioning are all different people altogether. But in the end, everyone always somehow disappoint you, felt that they ain't good friends, etc - this only meant one thing: there is something about yourself, which you don't realise, that is pretty antipathy.
If you look at all these issues one at a time: a similar pattern surface - you mentioned nothing about yourself at all. Under psychology: Johari Window - hidden self: your character - a subconscious part of it which you don't realise, that is the root of all these.) I don't know what is wrong, because I don't know you personally and even if I mention any of such traits, your sensitive nature would resume that I am being offensive, therefore I shall hold my lips this time.
P.S: Everything happens for a reason - source for that reason and you will see the picture.
Cheers -
Originally posted by bismarck:
honestly given how alot of ppl treat me these days,i find that i am very disappointed in life.it becomes like it doesnt matter if i just die or not.because there isnt much things there is in life that i miss or something or someone i like that i cant bear to leave loh.there is no friendship that i cherish and treasure at all.
How can you tell for sure? How old are you now? Are you a fortune teller? Why don't you help me tell my future for a change? Or.... Maybe let me tell you something...? With every minute you spend in this world you would probably be learning new experiences every now and then... Why give up on everything after you've invested so much? Where are your fruits..? You're probably planning to leave your plantation after seeding your plants and watering them for years...?
family.u probably know frm my previous thread. so there is no need for me to elaborate.
Yes. So this is how you see them and believe them to be?
classmates.i started a thread abt this sometime ago.anyway i felt that many of them didnt treat me well and i wasnt close to them at all.
If you're not close to them why would you expect them to treat you well? Do you go around giving money and financial assistance to strangers you don't know on the streets...?
then there were some changes, small but at least better than nothing.maybe i was oversensitive to some of the words to them or something.maybe it's sheer bad luck that i couldnt click with them at all.i dunno whether do you call this something sent by god to spite me of something.
Are you a Virgo?
there are some ppl in class that are rather nice. but of cos,they are much closer to the rest of the class than me lah.
Tell me why can't they be? Any reason why they should be closer to you?
i dunno whether to go to their chalet or not since i probably wouldnt feel easy there. never mind the money i have paid.
Yup. You probably would be uneasy if ya go. Probably because you've already got this form of mentality drilled so deeply before you attend it. Nobody can gurantee that it's gonna be a good turn out, but at least it's a start? Are you a fortune-teller?
net friends.
some of them i see them,talk to me,give me attitude.
anyway i dun wanna talk abt it too much.
Then meet OTHER people... Just because you're meeting up with the wrong group of people DOESN'T mean that everybody's like that....
outside friends
i got limited friends frm classes because of the strict policy my parents imposed on me in sec sch. end up i didnt even managed to keep in contact with them at all/ i can remember 1 guy ask me what was my icq number. i told him i dunno what was it because my parents restricted me frm having it anyway.
Are you still in secondary school? Do you still have strict restrictions imposed on you? If ya do you can always try to work on it... It's YOR LIFE, it's in your hands... Stop putting the blames on everybody else though it's probably gonna make explaining things to yourself MUCH SIMPLER... But it certainly ain't gonna make your life much easier...
3mth cos. i know a small bunch of friends that i still keep in contact with till now.learnt to take their differences in stride anyway.
got introduced to 2 new friends thru a friend.
1 had a small crush on her and thought might wanna cont as friends instead since she has some similar interests with me
i msg her on last fri or something.asked her when is she free for a short chat since it has been time we last chatted.she told me to call her on mon night.ok fine. i called. 5 times, 5 times got into her mailbox.
So? There're always other people out there..? Just because your favourite fishball noodles stall is closed for the day DOESN'T make that you shouldn't be having your meal today....?
i msg 2 friends.
1 said he is watching now. the other friend didnt reply.i called her home.she was out then i msg her. didnt reply.
until i called her just now.
said " maybe my hp off?" "maybe this maybe that"
she was the 1 who suggested to watching a movie tonight. then she denied it.
Maybe she've forgotten about it or something else? Why you can think of so many reasons to explain things for yourself why can't you simply create a few for others?
the 2nd new friend.once i msg her or talked online.was abit upset by her attitude.
Maybe she felt the same? Frankly speaking I don't know? Maybe both of you just don't click? If you don't work out with this person you can always go for another? Join us at outings? Don't always go for 'one on one' where you're always upset about people...?
so that sums up most of the ppl i know.
How many people you know? I think by your 'rule' nobody should survive liao... Since most babies born would be spanked on the ass to make them cry for life and breath... If they're mentally aware enough to think a bit, they've probably CONCLUDED that the world is EVIL and consist of BAD people who spank them for no obvious reason... I believe you're a SCIENCE student or sort of? And I trust you know the 'Rule of Sampling'? Think about it....
i am very disappointed in life liao.
i feel like going out.go arcade,movies.anywhere.
alone.
There's a point in my life when I've done that, and I believe that I'm not the only one who does that? If you have to just go ahead? There really ain't nothing wrong with that...?
because there wouldnt be a problem of latecoming.mis-communication.honestly i feel like crying.this is the first time i feel like crying after so many years. i really cannot take it anymore.
Well... Look on the BRIGHT side...? At least you're still AWARE that something's going very wrong in your life....? -
hmm.. agree with Yunhaier... i duno u either.. but if the same thing happen on you over and over again with different persons.. then maybe the problem is with you? i cant conclude whats the prob, but maybe subconciously you know.. ? think about it... what is the reason? would you always withdraw when you feel that this person is not nice to you? maybe you should go on trying to be nice? it takes time for us to know a person. tho' 1st impressions count.. but it might not really stay...
Or maybe, you have been to sensitive or possessive towards people around you? or you been expecting alot from people around you? i'm not saying that these are definate answers... but you might want to think thru?
And guess we just have to learn to be more optimistic in life.. feeling down once in a while is only natural.. but life still goes on.. you can choose to smile thru the day or frown all 24 hrs.. but since you will have to pass thru it either way, then why not smile right?
goodLuck
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Bro... remember dis: U can NEVER satisfy EVERY1...
I too once faced dis prob... I tot dat my life was meaningless... BUT if U really concede defeat, aren't U letting others win? Life is a challenge, sometimes really challenging till U wanna give up... but as long as U persevere & carry on... I sae U can overcome them.
Yr case may be bad... but I believe there r others who r worse off! BUT they still have da GUTS & determination to carry on wif their lives & living it FULLY. challenges r for us to overcome, NOT stop us... If U give up life, U REALLY r a sore loser... BRACE UP! Face yr life & dis world like da person U r!
Successful ppl r da ones who never give up despite INCREDIBLE odds against them. -
dun give up on life..
i've been on earth longer than almost all of you here and have been thru a fair share of heartaches, crisis, etc. In life there's always ups and downs and u will also meet people who will disappoint you. But then, think again, there are people who makes u smile too. Dun keep dwelling on the bad stuff. Life is beautiful and we've only got 1 lifetime to enjoy it. -
Originally posted by loneryu00:
WoohOoOo!!
Bro... remember dis: U can NEVER satisfy EVERY1...
I too once faced dis prob... I tot dat my life was meaningless... BUT if U really concede defeat, aren't U letting others [b]win? Life is a challenge, sometimes really challenging till U wanna give up... but as long as U persevere & carry on... I sae U can overcome them.
Yr case may be bad... but I believe there r others who r worse off! BUT they still have da GUTS & determination to carry on wif their lives & living it FULLY. challenges r for us to overcome, NOT stop us... If U give up life, U REALLY r a sore loser... BRACE UP! Face yr life & dis world like da person U r!
Successful ppl r da ones who never give up despite INCREDIBLE odds against them. [/b]
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honestly given how alot of ppl treat me these days,i find that i am very disappointed in life.it becomes like it doesnt matter if i just die or not.because there isnt much things there is in life that i miss or something or someone i like that i cant bear to leave loh.there is no friendship that i cherish and treasure at all.
How can you tell for sure? How old are you now? Are you a fortune teller? Why don't you help me tell my future for a change? Or.... Maybe let me tell you something...? With every minute you spend in this world you would probably be learning new experiences every now and then... Why give up on everything after you've invested so much? Where are your fruits..? You're probably planning to leave your plantation after seeding your plants and watering them for years...? what's with the fortune teller ? 
family.u probably know frm my previous thread. so there is no need for me to elaborate.
Yes. So this is how you see them and believe them to be? of cos ? yr second part it's hello? that is what i see ? classmates.i started a thread abt this sometime ago.anyway i felt that many of them didnt treat me well and i wasnt close to them at all.
If you're not close to them why would you expect them to treat you well? Do you go around giving money and financial assistance to strangers you don't know on the streets...? it's what loh.i attempted to be nice to them and said hi when i saw them loh.i did nothing to upset them loh,like why would i do so ? dont tell me abt subconsciously i did it ,ok?
then dont u donate money to beggars or to charities ? then there were some changes, small but at least better than nothing.maybe i was oversensitive to some of the words to them or something.maybe it's sheer bad luck that i couldnt click with them at all.i dunno whether do you call this something sent by god to spite me of something.
Are you a Virgo? yes. ? there are some ppl in class that are rather nice. but of cos,they are much closer to the rest of the class than me lah.
Tell me why can't they be? Any reason why they should be closer to you? i didnt say they cant ok ? (for the first part)
this is not a case of jealousy get it ? i dunno whether to go to their chalet or not since i probably wouldnt feel easy there. never mind the money i have paid.
Yup. You probably would be uneasy if ya go. Probably because you've already got this form of mentality drilled so deeply before you attend it. Nobody can gurantee that it's gonna be a good turn out, but at least it's a start? Are you a fortune-teller? net friends.
some of them i see them,talk to me,give me attitude.
anyway i dun wanna talk abt it too much.
Then meet OTHER people... Just because you're meeting up with the wrong group of people DOESN'T mean that everybody's like that.... ok fine... outside friends
i got limited friends frm classes because of the strict policy my parents imposed on me in sec sch. end up i didnt even managed to keep in contact with them at all/ i can remember 1 guy ask me what was my icq number. i told him i dunno what was it because my parents restricted me frm having it anyway.
Are you still in secondary school? Do you still have strict restrictions imposed on you? If ya do you can always try to work on it... It's YOR LIFE, it's in your hands... Stop putting the blames on everybody else though it's probably gonna make explaining things to yourself MUCH SIMPLER... But it certainly ain't gonna make your life much easier... i did ? i am in a poly now.yes the rules are still there. it's hello? who restricted me first ? my sis never had this thing ok? now
she has friends frm every sch she goes to. 3mth cos. i know a small bunch of friends that i still keep in contact with till now.learnt to take their differences in stride anyway.
got introduced to 2 new friends thru a friend.
1 had a small crush on her and thought might wanna cont as friends instead since she has some similar interests with me
i msg her on last fri or something.asked her when is she free for a short chat since it has been time we last chatted.she told me to call her on mon night.ok fine. i called. 5 times, 5 times got into her mailbox.
So? There're always other people out there..? Just because your favourite fishball noodles stall is closed for the day DOESN'T make that you shouldn't be having your meal today....? she is one of those few ppl that i can talk to when i am feeling down loh. the rest either give me weird answers or i am not only tells me abt his com experiences. i msg 2 friends.
1 said he is watching now. the other friend didnt reply.i called her home.she was out then i msg her. didnt reply.
until i called her just now.
said " maybe my hp off?" "maybe this maybe that"
she was the 1 who suggested to watching a movie tonight. then she denied it.
Maybe she've forgotten about it or something else? Why you can think of so many reasons to explain things for yourself why can't you simply create a few for others? what do u mean? i dont get u. the 2nd new friend.once i msg her or talked online.was abit upset by her attitude.
Maybe she felt the same? Frankly speaking I don't know? Maybe both of you just don't click? If you don't work out with this person you can always go for another? Join us at outings? Don't always go for 'one on one' where you're always upset about people...? she acts like nothing has happened loh.click or not isnt the crux loh.
what one on one ?
i want to join,but go there.all age abv 20? i still under 18 loh. pub also cannot go.next time outing then i see abt it. so that sums up most of the ppl i know.
How many people you know? I think by your 'rule' nobody should survive liao... Since most babies born would be spanked on the ass to make them cry for life and breath... If they're mentally aware enough to think a bit, they've probably CONCLUDED that the world is EVIL and consist of BAD people who spank them for no obvious reason... I believe you're a SCIENCE student or sort of? And I trust you know the 'Rule of Sampling'? Think about it.... yes i am a science student.rule of sampling falls under statistics which i am just scratching it. in other words i learn it as part of maths, not a individual stats module.
i mean dont tell me how many ppl i know loh. i dont mean to be rude but how many ppl i know is a rather simple thing which i am able to determine easily loh.dont tell me i am supposed to include strangers as well ? i dont really think yr baby analogy is rather relavant loh. i am very disappointed in life liao.
i feel like going out.go arcade,movies.anywhere.
alone.
There's a point in my life when I've done that, and I believe that I'm not the only one who does that? If you have to just go ahead? There really ain't nothing wrong with that...? ok sure. because there wouldnt be a problem of latecoming.mis-communication.honestly i feel like crying.this is the first time i feel like crying after so many years. i really cannot take it anymore.
At least you're still AWARE that something's going very wrong in your life....? of cos i know ? -
evening dajie.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:dun give up on life..
i've been on earth longer than almost all of you here and have been thru a fair share of heartaches, crisis, etc. In life there's always ups and downs and u will also meet people who will disappoint you. But then, think again, there are people who makes u smile too. Dun keep dwelling on the bad stuff. Life is beautiful and we've only got 1 lifetime to enjoy it.
hmm ok -
gd evening xiaodiOriginally posted by bismarck:evening dajie.
hmm ok -
hey no ill intention here.. like some mention, the problem might lies with you.. Pls dun jump to defensive mode.. like they said..they don't know you.. its juz one of the possibility.
Have read wat you wrote about your parents. Ya parent might be stricter with you cos they dun trust you. By the way trust doesnt mean you are old enough therefore they should trust you... Maybe they feel you are still immature and still very much a kid.. therefore more restriction are enforced. Okie ITS JUZ A SPECULATION SO DUN BE DEFENSIVE... i gonna make myself clear cos i feel that.. ehmm.. you ain't willing to accept what others think and feel if the perspective is different from how you feel.... (Accepting doesnt mean agreeing) okie i'm off topic...
Perhaps you should look at life in a different perspective... be more broad minded... you will soon find life isnt that bad afterall... Thou you might not agree.... oh well.... -
Oei... wed muz go hor...Originally posted by Yunhaier:WoohOoOo!! 
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Aiyo.. so gan cheong.Originally posted by loneryu00:Oei... wed muz go hor... 
Heard you things to tell me? important ar? Or wanna seek advice real life? -
apparently, u seem to be disappointed in lots of thing... the problems seems to be with u...
read up the san zhi jin first, maybe u will know why? -
why the hell does everything fall onto me when something goes wrong ?Originally posted by J fellow:apparently, u seem to be disappointed in lots of thing... the problems seems to be with u...
read up the san zhi jin first, maybe u will know why?
the part abt the friend who never call me is definately not my fault loh. wtf. -
Originally posted by bismarck:
what's with the fortune teller ?
If you're not a fortune-teller, how can you BE SURE that there won't be anything that you could be MISSING because you just end your life like this...? of cos ? yr second part it's hello? that is what i see ?
Do you know reality? Things in life are often on a constant run... Changes... Sometimes it's NOT the REALITY which is affecting you... Instead it's the MENTALITY... Something which you HOLD ON to so DEEPLY... Even way after things have gone over... I'm not saying it's OVER, I'm just suggesting it COULD be? Or one day when it happens.. You probably won't be ready to accept it....
Reality is NOT 1-dimensional... It's known as the '3-dimensional' world.... And often when people see things, there should be AT LEAST 3 different sides to it... Straight to the point here... It's not what reality IS.... It's where you're looking at it from...? MENTALITY....
then dont u donate money to beggars or to charities ?
The problem is we're NOT beggars nor charity? Don't EXPECT people to be nice to us for no obvious reason? I'm not saying they can't be... But just because you're like that or some of them are like that, you EXPECT the rest of the world to be like that... That's IMPOSSIBLE... Otherwise we won't be called INDIVIDUALS.... yes. ?
Virgos can basically be quite ok people... Maybe except when they're under STRESS... They changes quite alot upon that and admitably ain't a good handler of stress... The only small bonus for them is that they can be trained to better handle stress...
The other bad news is Virgos tend to be more pessimistic in their thinking & often thinks too much over things... Which easily push them to the edge..? Well... Sort of...? i didnt say they cant ok ? (for the first part)
this is not a case of jealousy get it ?
Fine.... i did ? i am in a poly now.yes the rules are still there. it's hello? who restricted me first ? my sis never had this thing ok? now
she has friends frm every sch she goes to.
If you really want it SO BADLY then WORK for it or FIGHT for it...? I used to be like you and I've done my part for what I hold today... Ain't gonna share my method or suggest anything to you here, but all I can is... If you REALLY WANTS it, and you KNOW that it's something which you DESERVES... GO FOR IT.... she is one of those few ppl that i can talk to when i am feeling down loh. the rest either give me weird answers or i am not only tells me abt his com experiences.
I won't be surprised if she's a little intimidated by someone who actually left 5 missed calls on a single night? Especially if that someone is someone who goes after her demanding an EXPLANATION for that minor incident... (I'm not saying you've done that, I just thought you MIGHT have? Or hold that tendency to?)
Cut short here... If you find that to be such a worthy person, the MORE you should WORK to keep that friendship instead of reprimanding her...? Also, I'm sure you can find more of such people if ya expand your social circle a little (despite what your parents might say... I really don't see what's wrong with expanding your social circle as long as you're not dipping your head into BAD company 'Private Limited'?)... They might not be easy to trace down but I can ASSURE you they're OUT there...
Maybe she've forgotten about it or something else? Why you can think of so many reasons to explain things for yourself why can't you simply create a few for others? what do u mean? i dont get u.
I mean she should be EXCUSED. She probably might have let it slipped her mind or have something to attend to? And if she's only using an EXCUSE against you, it's OBVIOUSLY an EXCUSE to get you off..? So just accept that fact..?
she acts like nothing has happened loh.click or not isnt the crux loh.
what one on one ?
i want to join,but go there.all age abv 20? i still under 18 loh. pub also cannot go.next time outing then i see abt it.
Just IGNORE her lah... Age DOESN'T really matter... Join us for sports outings or just dinner..? Currently 'The Sians' is quite ACTIVE in organising outings... Perhaps you would like to join them there for a start? Nobody really know who you are...? Just carry yourself as the way you would....? yes i am a science student.rule of sampling falls under statistics which i am just scratching it. in other words i learn it as part of maths, not a individual stats module.
i mean dont tell me how many ppl i know loh. i dont mean to be rude but how many ppl i know is a rather simple thing which i am able to determine easily loh.dont tell me i am supposed to include strangers as well ? i dont really think yr baby analogy is rather relavant loh.
One of the 'Basic Rules of Sampling' says that you've got to have LARGE enough a SAMPLE before you can come up with a CONCLUSION. The 'baby analogy' tells you that even if you've seen 'ONE MAN' it doesn't mean that you've seen it all.... Life ahead of the baby may be still LONG, though that few mins of initial spankings might seems like a TORTURE enough... Don't be TOO QUICK on your conclusion on Life....? of cos i know ?
Then DO SOMETHING about it... If DYING really can help anything then human race should GLADLY FACE EXTINCTION by now...? -
Hmm.....i don't should i post or not.
I feel like i'm a bad egg if i do.
Well....heck it.
You want things your way, then fight for it, demand it and satisfy yourself.
You want to listen to what you want and not advices you need to hear.
Then i we can meet up and can say all the things you want to hear.
In short - You are confused with your very life and not know where to go. Directionless.....despair, resentment, finger-pointing at everyone possible. This is not the way big guy.
Shorter - Stop all the Pity Party!
If you truly need help, come look for me.
Private msg me, or leave me your HP number, we'll meet... -
If you're not a fortune-teller, how can you BE SURE that there won't be anything that you could be MISSING because you just end your life like this...? hmm
Do you know reality? Things in life are often on a constant run... Changes... Sometimes it's NOT the REALITY which is affecting you... Instead it's the MENTALITY... Something which you HOLD ON to so DEEPLY... Even way after things have gone over... I'm not saying it's OVER, I'm just suggesting it COULD be? Or one day when it happens.. You probably won't be ready to accept it....
Reality is NOT 1-dimensional... It's known as the '3-dimensional' world.... And often when people see things, there should be AT LEAST 3 different sides to it... Straight to the point here... It's not what reality IS.... It's where you're looking at it from...? MENTALITY.... hmmm
The problem is we're NOT beggars nor charity? Don't EXPECT people to be nice to us for no obvious reason? I'm not saying they can't be... But just because you're like that or some of them are like that, you EXPECT the rest of the world to be like that... That's IMPOSSIBLE... Otherwise we won't be called INDIVIDUALS.... i am not expecting them to be nice to me or something.just that i try to be nice to you and ends up i get this kind of attitude loh
Virgos can basically be quite ok people... Maybe except when they're under STRESS... They changes quite alot upon that and admitably ain't a good handler of stress... The only small bonus for them is that they can be trained to better handle stress...
The other bad news is Virgos tend to be more pessimistic in their thinking & often thinks too much over things... Which easily push them to the edge..? Well... Sort of...? i never knew what was stress until i stressed myself last yr.
If you really want it SO BADLY then WORK for it or FIGHT for it...? I used to be like you and I've done my part for what I hold today... Ain't gonna share my method or suggest anything to you here, but all I can is... If you REALLY WANTS it, and you KNOW that it's something which you DESERVES... GO FOR IT.... o..k..
I won't be surprised if she's a little intimidated by someone who actually left 5 missed calls on a single night? Especially if that someone is someone who goes after her demanding an EXPLANATION for that minor incident... (I'm not saying you've done that, I just thought you MIGHT have? Or hold that tendency to?)
Cut short here... If you find that to be such a worthy person, the MORE you should WORK to keep that friendship instead of reprimanding her...? Also, I'm sure you can find more of such people if ya expand your social circle a little (despite what your parents might say... I really don't see what's wrong with expanding your social circle as long as you're not dipping your head into BAD company 'Private Limited'?)... They might not be easy to trace down but I can ASSURE you they're OUT there... not trying to be rude her but tell that to my parents for the second part.
ok fine...5 calls too much.
I mean she should be EXCUSED. She probably might have let it slipped her mind or have something to attend to? And if she's only using an EXCUSE against you, it's OBVIOUSLY an EXCUSE to get you off..? So just accept that fact..? now i make it that way for her loh. i just dont contact her loh.
Just IGNORE her lah... Age DOESN'T really matter... Join us for sports outings or just dinner..? Currently 'The Sians' is quite ACTIVE in organising outings... Perhaps you would like to join them there for a start? Nobody really know who you are...? Just carry yourself as the way you would....? sports ? hmm a frog can out run me. dinner ? not too expensive....
One of the 'Basic Rules of Sampling' says that you've got to have LARGE enough a SAMPLE before you can come up with a CONCLUSION. The 'baby analogy' tells you that even if you've seen 'ONE MAN' it doesn't mean that you've seen it all.... Life ahead of the baby may be still LONG, though that few mins of initial spankings might seems like a TORTURE enough... Don't be TOO QUICK on your conclusion on Life....? 
Then DO SOMETHING about it... If DYING really can help anything then human race should GLADLY FACE EXTINCTION by now...? violent or non-violent ? -
Originally posted by bismarck:
i am not expecting them to be nice to me or something.just that i try to be nice to you and ends up i get this kind of attitude loh
Fair? Justice? Well... WELCOME to REALITY... Though many would very much yearn for that IDEAL WORLD you've mentioned, things are often not necessarily the same... Of course, things would be so much simpler if we can just follow this 'system'... But the FACT is REALITY ain't that SIMPLE... Having humans in it certainly doesn't make it any much simpler.... i never knew what was stress until i stressed myself last yr.
Virgos are GOOD creator of STRESS for themselves... Especially through the way they see things....
Here's a little piece of side advice for you... Try to LIGHTEN UP on things... Very SIMPLE advice but would prove to make a BIG DIFFERENCE in your life in the future... Trust me on this one... not trying to be rude her
The thing is people CAN'T read your mind. You've got to show them or communicate with them in the appropriate way to make them understand you?
but tell that to my parents for the second part.
You're just about 3 years to 21 which means your independent age. Not trying to ask you to be a rebel against your parents here, but if you know what's good for you, GO FOR IT... You're the one who's gonna be living the REST of your days... NOT your parents... One of the worst regrets is knowing what you should have done but NOT doing it... It's YOUR LIFE, you DECIDE...? sports ? hmm a frog can out run me. dinner ? not too expensive....
You're a HUMAN with a THINKING BRAIN... I'm SURE you can figure things out for yourself...?
Never mind...
Then DO SOMETHING about it... If DYING really can help anything then human race should GLADLY FACE EXTINCTION by now...? violent or non-violent ?
I'll always say why resort to violent methods if you can use non-violent ones to make your points CLEAR? -
you're not the only ones out there...
there're many others who faces the same problem as yours
and as for me, i'm no exception either....
life's just @$#@ up!!!
you can give up on everyone out there...
but just don't give up on yourself!!! -
Hmm... I do got some things wanna seek advice on... but now mind blank...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Aiyo.. so gan cheong.
Heard you things to tell me? important ar? Or wanna seek advice real life? -
What happen? Pte msg me or call me lor.Originally posted by loneryu00:Hmm... I do got some things wanna seek advice on... but now mind blank...