Morning Thoughts II
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Everyone has different relationship, has different love experience. Some people had never experience the sweetness of a BGR before and often wonder what is it like to be in one.
Hey, you never been in a relationship before - how do you know it is sweetness and not bitterness? You can't judge a relationship by the number of smooches they did in public, neither you can judge by how sweet his/her words with one another.
Lonely? Or pure influence from media and friends?
Throughout your entire life - Love is divided into 2 different category. One is fated, the other is mutual fate. Astrologically speaking, fated refers to regrets, your marriage, and other relation that you truely feel for them. Mutual fate (Free-willed) refers to relation you don't have to enter.
How do you know whether which relationship you don't have to enter? My words are: How well do you truely know yourself? What do you seek in a partner?
This hunk/babe that you have fallen for - it could be a girl-next door or a nerdy guy - do you think he/she is suitable for you? Liking and suitability are two different thing altogether.
Ok finally you landed yourself into a relationship - what's next?
Everyone relationship has its own unique life cycle - shaped by environmental external factors and the two parties, driven purely by their effort in it. When a relationship is born, at the point of time both of you agree to be together, both of you have signed a invisble contract - which state the risk involved of having a relationship. You both agreed, therefore never question why is there hurt when things happened, unless you do the same for every happiness you experienced.
Every relation has their reason to be there: mostly its learning of cosmic lessons. Nobody is born into this world knowing how to chase, love or even maintain a relation. Everyone has to start from somewhere - the trick is how fast you learn the trade. Some people only need one relation to gain as much maturity/lessons/etc as others who may need a couple to as many as twenty or even more.
So people, how many do you need?
*HELL... Its going to be 3a.m in the morning!* -
hmm.. i jus believe in one thing: shun qi zi ran, esp wif relations, wich canot be forced. wat wil be wil be. dpd on yuan fen. dpd on fate.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Every relation has their reason to be there: mostly its learning of cosmic lessons. Nobody is born into this world knowing how to chase, love or even maintain a relation. Everyone has to start from somewhere - the trick is how fast you learn the trade. Some people only need one relation to gain as much maturity/lessons/etc as others who may need a couple to as many as twenty or even more.
So people, how many do you need?
*HELL... Its going to be 3a.m in the morning!*
3 am is still earli tho!
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Yeah... its early morning liaoOriginally posted by wuming78:hmm.. i jus believe in one thing: shun qi zi ran, esp wif relations, wich canot be forced. wat wil be wil be. dpd on yuan fen. dpd on fate.
3 am is still earli tho! 
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life is all abt learning mah
u born w/o anything.... same as eating, first u must know how to eat den wad to eat den wad to do after eat
hahaha... there is no definite ans -
It takes one,
Just once to taste how sweet love is. -
It takes one....Originally posted by M?square:It takes one,
Just once to taste how sweet love is.
Just once too to taste how bitter it can be........ -
*yawn*
good morning all
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idiot!Originally posted by sgboy2004:*yawn*
good morning all
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Baby sgboy2004
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/lilo looks at watch.....Originally posted by sgboy2004:*yawn*
good morning all
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Baby sgboy2004
great~~!!!!!!
3minutes more and you should be saying good afternoon!!!! -
If you're to look at it this way, to only remember the times when things were bad. There's nothing i could say.Originally posted by lilogirl:It takes one....
Just once too to taste how bitter it can be........ -
Long time no see~Originally posted by sgboy2004:*yawn*
good morning all
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Baby sgboy2004 -
It's human nature............Originally posted by M?square:If you're to look at it this way, to only remember the times when things were bad. There's nothing i could say.
people always tends to remember the most bitter moments they've been through.......
it serves a reason..... if you don't go through a rough patch... how would you appreciate the happy and sweet ones......
I used to believe strongly in that.....
Working my way to believe that again....... -
Lemme suggest this.Originally posted by lilogirl:It's human nature............
people always tends to remember the most bitter moments they've been through....... Yes, but i believe it's a choice
it serves a reason..... if you don't go through a rough patch... how would you appreciate the happy and sweet ones......
I used to believe strongly in that.....
Working my way to believe that again.......
Go thru the rough patches will graceful steps. You'll find yourself doing better the next round.
Cheers -
kan pua chim
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Dun have a graceful bone in my body!!!!!Originally posted by M?square:Lemme suggest this.
Go thru the rough patches will graceful steps. You'll find yourself doing better the next round.
Cheers
but thanks...... i'm already in the recovery stage.... albeit in a very unconventional way....
but hey.... it's working, so wat the heck!!!!!!!!! -
Maybe when we have the chance to meet during any outings.Originally posted by lilogirl:Dun have a graceful bone in my body!!!!!
but thanks...... i'm already in the recovery stage.... albeit in a very unconventional way....
but hey.... it's working, so wat the heck!!!!!!!!!
Please say hi to me. I'd like to see who you are personally.
P.S Glad that you're recovering. Do not let repercussions overpower you. -
why lehz..... see me for wat!!!!!!!!Originally posted by M?square:Maybe when we have the chance to meet during any outings.
Please say hi to me. I'd like to see who you are personally.
P.S Glad that you're recovering. Do not let repercussions overpower you.
okok... then me wanna see u too....... -
coz he is a buaya~!!!!Originally posted by lilogirl:why lehz..... see me for wat!!!!!!!!
okok... then me wanna see u too....... -
Originally posted by kopiosatu:coz he is a buaya~!!!! How you know ah!?
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and you're not one?????Originally posted by kopiosatu:coz he is a buaya~~!!!!
that's rare......... I wanna see you too!!!!!!!! -
/me koks!Originally posted by sgboy2004:*yawn*
good morning all
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Baby sgboy2004
Die until where liao! -
Originally posted by kopiosatu:kan pua chim
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WAH!Originally posted by M©+square:Maybe when we have the chance to meet during any outings.
Please say hi to me. I'd like to see who you are personally.
P.S Glad that you're recovering. Do not let repercussions overpower you.
/me whisper 'good starting move' -
Originally posted by kopiosatu:coz he is a buaya~!!!!
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:WAH!
/me whisper 'good starting move' 
*Cheeky!*
I'm showing kopio some tricks.