dealing with stress in school.. pls help
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hi, hope you all can help. i go to a top school in my country, and in my class, there are many smart people. i am feeling very stressed because i am always getting the lowest marks in my class now. this has never happened before, so im not sure how to deal with it. my friends do not understand why i am so happy-go-lucky and they think that i do not care about my work at all. in actuality, i find it hard to talk to them. i find it easier to maintain a happy facade, but inside me, im torn to pieces.
i do not work well under pressure, so can anyone tell me how to deal with it? furthermore, i know that no matter how hard i try, i would never score among the top in my class.
also, i do not know how to explain it to my mother because she would not understand. she would simply think i am being lazy.
does anyone have any tips on how to study effectively as well?
anyone who can suggest how to build friendships with the people in my class are also welcome. they act very 'cool' all day, so its hard to even talk to them.
i know i've raised a lot of topics here, so hope some of u can help.
thanks.
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quess u're having the same problem as me.. but me still like that lor.. life still have to go on rite? actually i also dunno what to do... i did study for my test but i still done very badly... in fact, i failed..Originally posted by Flubber Zee:hi, hope you all can help. i go to a top school in my country, and in my class, there are many smart people. i am feeling very stressed because i am always getting the lowest marks in my class now. this has never happened before, so im not sure how to deal with it. my friends do not understand why i am so happy-go-lucky and they think that i do not care about my work at all. in actuality, i find it hard to talk to them. i find it easier to maintain a happy facade, but inside me, im torn to pieces.
i do not work well under pressure, so can anyone tell me how to deal with it? furthermore, i know that no matter how hard i try, i would never score among the top in my class.
also, i do not know how to explain it to my mother because she would not understand. she would simply think i am being lazy.
does anyone have any tips on how to study effectively as well?
anyone who can suggest how to build friendships with the people in my class are also welcome. they act very 'cool' all day, so its hard to even talk to them.
i know i've raised a lot of topics here, so hope some of u can help.
thanks. 
my teacher told me that it's because i didn't study enough.. i quess that's also one of the reasons y i did so badly...
how to study effectively ar... hmm.. read your friends' notes lar.. maybe they got some more important points that u dun haf leh? Haha.. anyway, this is just a suggestion...
all my friends also very 'cool'... seldom bother about me also.. everytime their marks also higher than me one, but heck care lah.. they cool, me hot can liao..
Wish u gd luck in your studies... -
thanks a lot for replying... i guess so, but u see, in my school, we are supposed to apply wad we learnt to questions... yeah.. so in a way the answering technique very impt, but i cant get it right... dunno..
the worst is that even my friends think that im not trying hard enough.
thanks for replying anyway.
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welcum..Originally posted by Flubber Zee:thanks a lot for replying... i guess so, but u see, in my school, we are supposed to apply wad we learnt to questions... yeah.. so in a way the answering technique very impt, but i cant get it right... dunno..
the worst is that even my friends think that im not trying hard enough.
thanks for replying anyway.
applying what we learnt to questions is d toughest thing to me.. every questions i answered nvr got full marks one.. sometimes only half right... or teacher gif me some marks because i managed to get part of the question rite.. my answering technique very lan.. any tutor wanna help me?
aiyah.. dun care abt wat they tink abt u.. believe in urself.. i believe u can do it one day! Jia you!