Originally posted by JelloPoop:
I think you should change your question to "why it is hard for you to accept people for who they are".
He might not have the gift of talking but he could have the gift of listening.
nope, probably he heard so many bullcrap and sheet over and over again until he only choose who he wants to open mouth speak propoerly to and present to . this type i admire, i call it reall kool!
who want to open mouth tok to classes of people like them? they think only theyu big hole only? they think only they know how to socialize or tok only? bunch of chow ah lina and ah bengs only
and also chao praya river and chao Uncles
Originally posted by ISTARI:
LOL! Most of my friends are happy go lucky, happy chappy type.
I just dont like the fact that once they step in to a place, the mood immediately changes.
So, yes, great plan, just IGNORE. Yes, i cant make people change.
Why do I care so much??? 4 years of class together, not even a sentence spoken,
you obviously want the person to speak up more often right????
You wait until you are in yuor 30s lah. It become even worse. All the so-called friends you encountered, will just walk by you, not even acknowledge you. That is the truth of life. People are just too busy and not bothered about other people.
I know because I have friends who are in their 30s tell me this. Once they get married and have kids, got no time for friends.
People are like that. What more the social pressures of today?
Last year I went for my high school reuniion, felt strange, we felt like we don't know each other that well anymore, even for thsoe friends i've knows for 6 years. Even things we talk about are so different because some of us are doing differnt things, lawyers talk like lawyers, photographers talk about pictures, teachers talk about their students, graphic designers talk about art, human resource people talk about work skills, etc.
Yes you can't change people unless you want to beat him up. But you can change your situation by finding new friends, and likely find a girlfriend because that is the person that you talk to 24-7.
i beg to differ...i believe its possible to maintain frendships even after marriage...but of cuz it requires the person to be less self-conscious and more conscious towards others...such ppl do exist though few...
Even if such a friend exist, they only manage to meet like once or twice a year esp during festive periods.
The only way you can keep constant touch with such a friend, is one whom you see everyday, eg: a work colleague or somebody at your church.
yes and no...personally i noe ppl who are unique when it comes to frendships...they make it a point to maintain most of their frendships even after marriage...but usually such ppl are married to someone who isnt clingy or someone who him/herself is a firm believer of maintaining frendships after marriage...
don;t be like my company like that, say what work 8 hours see each other have to bond like family - i say work 8 hours then hell have to see each other after office hours then really must get away from this shit.
i cannot choose or dictate what my colleagues are, but after office hours, i have all the power to dictate and choose what i want to do who i want to be wif.
come on, 50 and 55 yo already still tok like juvenile
Wow, you still need to work meh?
wan me no work you pay for our dinner lah
Use company fund lah, people use fund to buy Ferrari, you still taking breakingdown MRT..haiz
dream of ferrari only, put ferrai on my desktop
Dream bigger, sentosa cove bungalow, only can paste the picture on my office door
yep, its made of paper