how to recover from emotional hart break?
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hard to believe but this is e first ever time i really loved anyone b4.... all of my 23 years on earth .....but it's true....think it's pretty clear i dun stand a chance ..... hart break liao.....
how do i recover from this.... haiz..... any suggestions...my world just came crashing down..... i want to be happy again but everything that happens just seems to upset or pi55 me off..... just want to run....run n keep on running till tears dry n hearts heal.....
sad...so sad...i really feel so sad..... -
go do something u like.. and get out of ur hse... go out with frenz and talk to them.. share how u feel etc...
just let time heal i guess
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i just realised that i have not eaten today n i am not even hungry.... just that the feeling of being lost n disappointed overwhelmed me .....good for pple who want to go on diet...... no hunger so equals to lose weight....recommended by Harryryan ..... sighz...at least i can lose weight.....Originally posted by oceanic:go do something u like.. and get out of ur hse... go out with frenz and talk to them.. share how u feel etc...
just let time heal i guess -
dun torture urself man.. u will find some1 better day. Now is to get back on ur own feetOriginally posted by harryryan:i just realised that i have not eaten today n i am not even hungry.... just that the feeling of being lost n disappointed overwhelmed me .....good for pple who want to go on diet...... no hunger so equals to lose weight....recommended by Harryryan ..... sighz...at least i can lose weight.....
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i am sit down on a chair.....comfy comfy...y should i get up?lolz..... m i deceiving myself???Originally posted by oceanic:dun torture urself man.. u will find some1 better day. Now is to get back on ur own feet -
hehe okok den u just relax lor... it will be over one day the pain and saddnessOriginally posted by harryryan:i am sit down on a chair.....comfy comfy...y should i get up?lolz..... m i deceiving myself??? -
Originally posted by harryryan:hard to believe but this is e first ever time i really loved anyone b4.... all of my 23 years on earth .....but it's true....think it's pretty clear i dun stand a chance ..... hart break liao..... how do i recover from this.... haiz..... any suggestions...my world just came crashing down..... i want to be happy again but everything that happens just seems to upset or pi55 me off..... just want to run....run n keep on running till tears dry n hearts heal.....
sad...so sad...i really feel so sad..... how come this few days Aunt Agony so good business hah? exams over liao start to think of relationship problems ah? Oshin-ic san can give you good advice.. -
all too free liao...think too much...ha...ha....aunt agony rulez....my first post was here too.... sure bring back some memories...just realised how much i ahve grown this 3 months...... i still very kiddish in thought but not as bad as b4 liao....Originally posted by boy in blues: how come this few days Aunt Agony so good business hah? exams over liao start to think of relationship problems ah? Oshin-ic san can give you good advice.. -
Find tinks 2 do .. kep urslf occupied.. Bz.. so u hav no time 2 tink of other sTuffs . .xcept sleeP n wOk n pLaY aLL de BesT dUdeOriginally posted by harryryan:hard to believe but this is e first ever time i really loved anyone b4.... all of my 23 years on earth .....but it's true....think it's pretty clear i dun stand a chance ..... hart break liao..... how do i recover from this.... haiz..... any suggestions...my world just came crashing down..... i want to be happy again but everything that happens just seems to upset or pi55 me off..... just want to run....run n keep on running till tears dry n hearts heal.....
sad...so sad...i really feel so sad.....
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hmMm , try to convince yourself that you have gotta move on without her...Meanwhile , try to occupy yourself with some work and dun tink too much about her...Reward yourself with something you like at the end of the day if you haf done it...No point dwelling about it...Will end up hurting yourself every second of the day...
I suppose the most you can do is be happy for her when she has found her happiness or she is happy....Be there for her while she is going through difficult times of her life....Although you may say that you haf done all tis , the results are juz not there...All i can sae is be patient and sincere , she will be yours if both of you are fated to be together....
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Replying to the ur topic lineOriginally posted by harryryan:hard to believe but this is e first ever time i really loved anyone b4.... all of my 23 years on earth .....but it's true....think it's pretty clear i dun stand a chance ..... hart break liao..... how do i recover from this.... haiz..... any suggestions...my world just came crashing down..... i want to be happy again but everything that happens just seems to upset or pi55 me off..... just want to run....run n keep on running till tears dry n hearts heal.....
sad...so sad...i really feel so sad.....
Stop self-pity immediately.
Let me share with you something I've told my gd fren the other day. A guy who was 'ditched' n avoided by the gal he liked, came onto my fren like a love lifebuoy (she used to like him). She was disgusted, I felt the same way and despised the guy much. Though my fren sympathized with him since she had been thru exactly the same before to find the confidence in oneself by hoping tt someone loves them back. But I told her tt he din deserve any and he is not going to help himself anyway.
Today, if a person wants love from someone, be a worthy one 1st. Dun self-pity. A person who does so cant possibly find anyone worthy. Improve oneself n be a person who deserves to love n be loved in return. Even though my fren isnt attached, I know tt she deserves someone but the person does not appear at this time of her life but later only.
Therefore, the deserving ones will never have to panick, they r the worthy one waiting to be hooked -
he...he...thanx for ur advice....me back to normal liao...Originally posted by reallieRAW:Replying to the ur topic line
Stop self-pity immediately.
Let me share with you something I've told my gd fren the other day. A guy who was 'ditched' n avoided by the gal he liked, came onto my fren like a love lifebuoy (she used to like him). She was disgusted, I felt the same way and despised the guy much. Though my fren sympathized with him since she had been thru exactly the same before to find the confidence in oneself by hoping tt someone loves them back. But I told her tt he din deserve any and he is not going to help himself anyway.
Today, if a person wants love from someone, be a worthy one 1st. Dun self-pity. A person who does so cant possibly find anyone worthy. Improve oneself n be a person who deserves to love n be loved in return. Even though my fren isnt attached, I know tt she deserves someone but the person does not appear at this time of her life but later only.
Therefore, the deserving ones will never have to panick, they r the worthy one waiting to be hooked -
hope u do....ur story's BIG in other thread here manOriginally posted by harryryan:he...he...thanx for ur advice....me back to normal liao...
Look at yourself, wat do u possess to love another one. If you have wat it takes, fear not coz many will come your way. -
peace brudder....me at peace with what happened liao......Originally posted by reallieRAW:hope u do....ur story's BIG in other thread here man
Look at yourself, wat do u possess to love another one. If you have wat it takes, fear not coz many will come your way. -
no war started anywayOriginally posted by harryryan:peace brudder....me at peace with what happened liao......
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Wow... Any1 "hooked" U?Originally posted by reallieRAW:Replying to the ur topic line
Stop self-pity immediately.
Let me share with you something I've told my gd fren the other day. A guy who was 'ditched' n avoided by the gal he liked, came onto my fren like a love lifebuoy (she used to like him). She was disgusted, I felt the same way and despised the guy much. Though my fren sympathized with him since she had been thru exactly the same before to find the confidence in oneself by hoping tt someone loves them back. But I told her tt he din deserve any and he is not going to help himself anyway.
Today, if a person wants love from someone, be a worthy one 1st. Dun self-pity. A person who does so cant possibly find anyone worthy. Improve oneself n be a person who deserves to love n be loved in return. Even though my fren isnt attached, I know tt she deserves someone but the person does not appear at this time of her life but later only.
Therefore, the deserving ones will never have to panick, they r the worthy one waiting to be hooked -
war ?wat war?i hate wars....i peace loving animal lei.... anyway i was blaming her for all that happened while i was in the fault all the time..... maybe i should apologise.....Originally posted by reallieRAW:no war started anyway -
KPOOriginally posted by loneryu00:Wow... Any1 "hooked" U? 
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Fault lies in no one.Originally posted by harryryan:war ?wat war?i hate wars....i peace loving animal lei.... anyway i was blaming her for all that happened while i was in the fault all the time..... maybe i should apologise.....
Being apologetic is extra unless you learn something from your lesson.
Good luck fren
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cool dude...u cool...Originally posted by reallieRAW:Fault lies in no one.
Being apologetic is extra unless you learn something from your lesson.
Good luck fren -
Originally posted by harryryan:all too free liao...think too much...ha...ha....aunt agony rulez....my first post was here too.... sure bring back some memories...just realised how much i ahve grown this 3 months...... i still very kiddish in thought but not as bad as b4 liao....
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hmmmmmm time will heal everything...it might be very difficult during intial period but after days/months goes by....u will forget it...
hope u will meet someone more worthwhile for your love Originally posted by harryryan:hard to believe but this is e first ever time i really loved anyone b4.... all of my 23 years on earth .....but it's true....think it's pretty clear i dun stand a chance ..... hart break liao..... how do i recover from this.... haiz..... any suggestions...my world just came crashing down..... i want to be happy again but everything that happens just seems to upset or pi55 me off..... just want to run....run n keep on running till tears dry n hearts heal.....
sad...so sad...i really feel so sad..... -
it's just another obstacle in life...