Confused...
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I'm very confused now... Really don't know wat to do.. Hope u ppl can gif me some advice.. Thank's..
I have known this guy, K, at a remedial.. (In my school)
It all happened like dis...
I have noticed that K has been lookin at me for the whole lesson..
After the lesson ended, i went to the library.. Before i left, he asked his friend to ask me for my number... Of coz, I ignored him... 
He didn't give up and followed me to the library where I was supposed to do my project with my friends.. It was so coincidence that K's friend was in the library too n he was my classmate... He asked me for my num thinking that i will gif it to him since he is my classmate, but i didn't gif him as well... Left wif no choice, i left d library... When i came back, he has left... However, K has gotten my num from another friend of mine... And now, almost the whole class knew of my num... 
K messaged me and called me.. He said he wanna make frenz wif me.. So, we started messaging n tokin to each other... He told me dat he likes me n he wants me to be his stead... I didn't really know what i'm supposed to do.. He told me dat i mean alot to him n he wanna care for me... I dunno whether he's true.. Sometimes when he nvr msg me, i'll feel lonely.. i'll miss him too...
Maybe i'm interested in him too but many of my frenz told me that he's a flirt.. He has asked for a lot of gals' num too.. n i'm jus one of them..
I tried to reject him but i jus couldn't.. I really dun wanna hurt him but i dun wan to gif him up too... I really dunno how i feel.. Haf i fallen in luv wif him? Or maybe it's jus bcos i dun wanna hurt him? -
It's not love... its juz tat u begin to like him... Or "used to" him msging you..so without it, will feel lonely...
Know him better before getting into the relationship. -
Oh.. U're ritez... when he nvr msg me, i'll feel very lonely..Originally posted by *firefly*:It's not love... its juz tat u begin to like him... Or "used to" him msging you..so without it, will feel lonely...
Know him better before getting into the relationship.
I think the only thing i can do now is to noe him betta lor.. Thank's for ur advice..
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Firefly had hit da jackpot. BUt oso note dat many said he "flirt".Originally posted by S!ndy:Oh.. U're ritez... when he nvr msg me, i'll feel very lonely..
I think the only thing i can do now is to noe him betta lor.. Thank's for ur advice..
U wldn't feel lonely too if I got yr number & sms or called U rite? can sae its a "crush". Do wat U tink is da best for U. Juz dun regret it. -
hahaha...leave him..he juz wan ur body n nothing else la....he is juz being fickle minded...u dun hurt him in future he hurt u deeply...find a better person...but if u like him go ahead..cheers
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Well, u sounded very young and I think u are...
Xiao mei mei shouldn't involve in bgr, studies come first... -
agreeed wif what he says!Originally posted by *firefly*:It's not love... its juz tat u begin to like him... Or "used to" him msging you..so without it, will feel lonely...
Know him better before getting into the relationship. -
Please man
either his english is pretty bad or hes a flirt
he doesn't even know you and says you mean alot to him, and you just know him like what 2hrs? and ask you to be his gf -
I think you should figure out how you feel about him first, do you know if you've really fallen for him? if you have you'll know, if you keep asking yourself if you have or not then you probably haven't fallen for him.Originally posted by S!ndy:I tried to reject him but i jus couldn't.. I really dun wanna hurt him but i dun wan to gif him up too... I really dunno how i feel.. Haf i fallen in luv wif him? Or maybe it's jus bcos i dun wanna hurt him?
It sounds to me like you miss his attention. When a guy pays so much attention it is very very flattering, but you need to be rational about it. Is it worth the price? Is he worth the effort? Is he going to potentially hurt you? If you can enjoy the attention but not allow your heart to be involved then go ahead. I know that for me I cannot, when a guy is sweet to me, I develop feelings for him. But some friends of mine can. They are stronger than me.. Maybe you are like my friends?
as a girl you need to protect your heart and your dignity ok?
girl power! -
huh... wans my body? i dun tink so lehz... he's very shy.. only dare to msg me, dun even dare to tok to me... but i wondered y he's so daring to ask for my num in d 1st place...Originally posted by Bryan^:hahaha...leave him..he juz wan ur body n nothing else la....he is juz being fickle minded...u dun hurt him in future he hurt u deeply...find a better person...but if u like him go ahead..cheers
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not 2 hrs actually.. it's after quite a number of days liao...Originally posted by Forever84:Please man
either his english is pretty bad or hes a flirt
he doesn't even know you and says you mean alot to him, and you just know him like what 2hrs? and ask you to be his gf -
maybe u're ritez too.. sometimes, i really miss him a lot, or shud i say his attention... I really dunno whether it will work out if i start a relationship wif him.. or maybe i shouldn't even start any relationship... as u say, when a guy is sweet to u, u'll develop feelings for him... dat's wad i'm feeling too.. i sort of like him... but i'm scared... i dun wan to be hurted cos i knew d pain...Originally posted by questor:I think you should figure out how you feel about him first, do you know if you've really fallen for him? if you have you'll know, if you keep asking yourself if you have or not then you probably haven't fallen for him.
It sounds to me like you miss his attention. When a guy pays so much attention it is very very flattering, but you need to be rational about it. Is it worth the price? Is he worth the effort? Is he going to potentially hurt you? If you can enjoy the attention but not allow your heart to be involved then go ahead. I know that for me I cannot, when a guy is sweet to me, I develop feelings for him. But some friends of mine can. They are stronger than me.. Maybe you are like my friends?
as a girl you need to protect your heart and your dignity ok?
girl power!
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I think you are simply too young for anything now. Concentrate on your studies.
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