startin a new relatnshp is the best way...
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to get over the previous one?
agree/disagree?
or any other ways 2 get over a sad relatnshp tts aredi over...
get over a sad breakup?
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disagree..
Firstly, u may treat the person as a subsitute
2ndly, u may not be fully committed to the new relationship
3rdly, in e end, u may hurt the other party unknowingly
just my 2 cents worth
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i think u should rest for a certain period of time to heal your wound.cannot rush to relationship or else u are escaping from reality,cos as u may just want a stead for substitute which is unfair to other parties,commmit when you are fully recovered from past relationship.
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yupz.. mt hurt the other party...Originally posted by oceanic:disagree..
Firstly, u may treat the person as a subsitute
2ndly, u may not be fully committed to the new relationship
3rdly, in e end, u may hurt the other party unknowingly
just my 2 cents worth
was discussin w a fren.. tink there's both pros n cons...
but stil its risky... cuz mt hurt the other party in e end...
fren tinks that the fastest way to forget someone old, is to get someone new...
hmmmm.... dun reali agree w that.... -
IMHO, think best way is to let urself cool off first and think abt what u want and why the relationship din work out... find some frenz out and hang ard or tke up a new hobby or sthOriginally posted by f[a]erie:yupz.. mt hurt the other party...
was discussin w a fren.. tink there's both pros n cons...
but stil its risky... cuz mt hurt the other party in e end...
fren tinks that the fastest way to forget someone old, is to get someone new...
hmmmm.... dun reali agree w that.... -
If you feel that to get over a previous relation is to start a new one - probably love wasn't in the main picture - its a motive behind this relationship.Originally posted by f[a]erie:to get over the previous one?
agree/disagree?
or any other ways 2 get over a sad relatnshp tts aredi over...
get over a sad breakup? 
Well, let me tell you: if there was a top ten worst issues before you start a relationship - this would be one of them.
Cheers -
agreedOriginally posted by oceanic:disagree..
Firstly, u may treat the person as a subsitute
2ndly, u may not be fully committed to the new relationship
3rdly, in e end, u may hurt the other party unknowingly
just my 2 cents worth -
like most cliches, most things about a "rebound relationship" is true...
starting a new one is about a couple of steps down from a Darwin Awards..Originally posted by f[a]erie:to get over the previous one?
agree/disagree?
or any other ways 2 get over a sad relatnshp tts aredi over...
get over a sad breakup? -
huh..
juz a topic 4 discussion eh...say until reali its me like tt...
i oso dun agree w that lor... =P -
Originally posted by f[a]erie:huh..
juz a topic 4 discussion eh...say until reali its me like tt...
i oso dun agree w that lor... =P
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i disagree.. you are usually emotionally confused at this stage.. so it'd be better to pick up the broken pieces before moving..
that said, meeting ppl and focusing your your energy on a hobby is a good way to get over the sad event.. -
totally agree!Originally posted by oceanic:disagree..
Firstly, u may treat the person as a subsitute
2ndly, u may not be fully committed to the new relationship
3rdly, in e end, u may hurt the other party unknowingly
just my 2 cents worth -
ello..lidat is obviously on e rebound lor...Originally posted by f[a]erie:to get over the previous one?
agree/disagree?
or any other ways 2 get over a sad relatnshp tts aredi over...
get over a sad breakup?
if its over..its over...
it might take a long time 2 get bk 2 ur usual self again..
but its beta dn being wif anor person juz 4 e sake of seeking a replacement...
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disagree strongly!!Originally posted by f[a]erie:to get over the previous one?
agree/disagree?
or any other ways 2 get over a sad relatnshp tts aredi over...
get over a sad breakup?
let time do the healing......
u can do nothing except occupying urself wif activities....try not to let urself be aloneeee oor vveri free...ur mind will start to wander abt again..... -
Originally posted by f[a]erie:to get over the previous one?
agree/disagree?
or any other ways 2 get over a sad relatnshp tts aredi over...
get over a sad breakup? 
startin a new 1 jus 4 dat reason is like askin 4 yet another breakup.. -
X 2Originally posted by boy in blues: startin a new 1 jus 4 dat reason is like askin 4 yet another breakup.. -
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i tink an example would be if u fell down and injured urself either badly or slightly, it will tke time to heal and after recovering, u may still feel awkward or pain..
so i guess its e same as a new relationship... after each relationship, u need time to heal and think.. if u dun, u will only make it worse. In this analogy, means if u're injured, and u keep straining urself, it will be worse n feel terrible..
hehe hope it makes sense -
X 3Originally posted by boy in blues: startin a new 1 jus 4 dat reason is like askin 4 yet another breakup..
i like this... good one... -
not e best way though...Originally posted by f[a]erie:to get over the previous one?
agree/disagree?
or any other ways 2 get over a sad relatnshp tts aredi over...
get over a sad breakup?
starting a new relationship, frankly ask ur self can u get over ur ex and love the new man/ woman in ur life ? tough isnt it...
trying to get over there is sure other choices rather den start a new 1... go out wid frens.. shopping... tk up new hobbies or go do some sports... tok to some of ur close frens... in dis process u can slowly forget ur past relationship.. but it takes some times to put down 1 relation...
hope wad i tink does help