i dunno if i should ask
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heres a background about me. i never had a gf none a real gal fren or frens coz im from all boys school.i have a crush on a gal for about 2 yrs now n she works in suntec city.i asked her if we can be frens n was rejected i guess she was scared that maybe im a pervert or something.everytime i see her i want to ask her but scared of this n that,then when i dont see her i will regret not asking.i saw her in the train a month back after months of not seeing her i think she was not working there anymore[suntec] n those were the months i tried to forget her but when i saw her again i was very happy n i regretted not going up to her.she too saw me but she dont seem like she recognises me.then i thought i will never see her again but yesterday i saw that she went back to work i was very happy n the same time miserable ,i asked if she remembers me n she said no i guess maybe bcoz now my hair is long.i feel like asking her to be frens again what do u think?thanks for reading this far.alot more i want to write but this is the best i can do.
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Go on.....gimmie more info.
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No harm asking again(, and again and again), I guess. -
yeah...go for it. you will only regret things that you never do...
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Release your fear and advance forward! What can you lose since you are at the begining phrase without even knowing her personally? You ain't attached, you knew nothing about her, etc - its like you are playing Who Wants To Be A Millionaire and you are now at the 1000 bucks question - you win or lose, you still get the 1000 bucks - might as well do a good planning on how to approach her and DO IT.Originally posted by MySilence:heres a background about me. i never had a gf none a real gal fren or frens coz im from all boys school.i have a crush on a gal for about 2 yrs now n she works in suntec city.i asked her if we can be frens n was rejected i guess she was scared that maybe im a pervert or something.everytime i see her i want to ask her but scared of this n that,then when i dont see her i will regret not asking.i saw her in the train a month back after months of not seeing her i think she was not working there anymore[suntec] n those were the months i tried to forget her but when i saw her again i was very happy n i regretted not going up to her.she too saw me but she dont seem like she recognises me.then i thought i will never see her again but yesterday i saw that she went back to work i was very happy n the same time miserable ,i asked if she remembers me n she said no i guess maybe bcoz now my hair is long.i feel like asking her to be frens again what do u think?thanks for reading this far.alot more i want to write but this is the best i can do.
P.S: You will regret if you waste too much time and learn about things that is disappointing. Do something useful and show your sincerely in wanting to know her - do not, I repeat, do NOT appear to be too fake and ambigious.
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Since you made your first attempt.. and it doesn't work.. you gave up.. And tot it will never happen again..Originally posted by MySilence:heres a background about me. i never had a gf none a real gal fren or frens coz im from all boys school.i have a crush on a gal for about 2 yrs now n she works in suntec city.i asked her if we can be frens n was rejected i guess she was scared that maybe im a pervert or something.everytime i see her i want to ask her but scared of this n that,then when i dont see her i will regret not asking.i saw her in the train a month back after months of not seeing her i think she was not working there anymore[suntec] n those were the months i tried to forget her but when i saw her again i was very happy n i regretted not going up to her.she too saw me but she dont seem like she recognises me.then i thought i will never see her again but yesterday i saw that she went back to work i was very happy n the same time miserable ,i asked if she remembers me n she said no i guess maybe bcoz now my hair is long.i feel like asking her to be frens again what do u think?thanks for reading this far.alot more i want to write but this is the best i can do.
But now God is giving you a second chance.. You met her again!! She doesn't recognise you is a good thing.. From here you can even start a conversation and not like the old time method "Hello, Can we be friends?" Oh man!! That is the lousiest quote i ever heard.. hahhaa *no offense*
Since now you know where she's working.. You should grab your opportuinity to go get to know better.. You can approached by asking "Do you still remember me?" You did that already.. But the next thing.. pls don't ask whether can be friends anot... Talk to her first.. communicate with her.. Once she feels comfortable with you.. Eventually you don't even have to ask to be friends anot.. You both are friends liao..
Talk to her like a long lost friend.. REmember DOn't Scare Away! Cos girls are always sensitive to such situations... They know you are up to something.. Be it to be friends or wat.. They will protect themselves from it.. In order to break this barrier inbetween.. Let her know that jus wanna be friends.. and not be cos you wanna get her!
Don't say verbally.. but body language.. Actions speak louder than words right? Once a while walked pass her shop.. If she's in there jus smile and walked away.. since you already approached her and talked to her b4.. Don't let her think that you are some kind of stalker or wat.. As time goes by.. you step in and have a chat with her..
Don't purposely everyday go down jus to see her.. She might get irritated.. or pissed off! All the best to you!
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the thing is how to go up to her n talk coz she is a cashier,n i just cant talk to a gal too shy n scared.i m the quiet type now so what others find a walk in the park to just start a conversation its just very difficult for me.the problem is i never really talk to a gal b4 except for my mom.haha im so pathetic.n how should i start talking with her?
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[quote]Originally posted by SunRisE:
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But now God is giving you a second chance.. You met her again!! She doesn't recognise you is a good thing.. From here you can even start a conversation and not like the old time method "Hello, Can we be friends?" Oh man!! That is the lousiest quote i ever heard.. hahhaa *no offense*
aiyo!den can u tell me other methods better than "hallo,can we be frens"
i wish to learn too!
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i tried asking her to go watch movie but she say after work tired.......how? she did go out with me alone other times
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Exercise your creativityOriginally posted by winning 11:[quote]Originally posted by SunRisE:
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But now God is giving you a second chance.. You met her again!! She doesn't recognise you is a good thing.. From here you can even start a conversation and not like the old time method "Hello, Can we be friends?" Oh man!! That is the lousiest quote i ever heard.. hahhaa *no offense*
aiyo!den can u tell me other methods better than "hallo,can we be frens"
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Originally posted by SunRisE:Exercise your creativity
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Watever excuse U make, da gals still noe da motive behind a stranger... its all da same... so no matter wat U use, its all up to her... sometimes asking, "Hello, can we be frens?" is da best wae to get to noe a gal... coz its simple, & she noe U have put in alot of guts into approaching her...Originally posted by SunRisE:Exercise your creativity
Its not easy for us guys to approach a TOTAL stranger we have liking for & try to noe her... da fear of rejection is great... -
Pardon my harshy words.
You seemed like you're socially deprived.
Need to build that up yo....meet with more friends of mixed gender and build up that conversational side of you.
Nono...i'm not trying to offer you an advice on this problem....
i'm offering you an advice for the good of the rest of your life so that you will stop saying that you're pathetic and stuff.....
Wakie Wakie.
Anything more....private msg me.
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U r toking to da poster...?Originally posted by Haven:Pardon my harshy words.
You seemed like you're socially deprived.
Need to build that up yo....meet with more friends of mixed gender and build up that conversational side of you.
Nono...i'm not trying to offer you an advice on this problem....
i'm offering you an advice for the good of the rest of your life so that you will stop saying that you're pathetic and stuff.....
Wakie Wakie.
Anything more....private msg me.
Bounce Pounce Trounce... 