i can understand how u feel.......Originally posted by wuming78:... and haf almost forgot how to become truely happi...
stil can rem those days when was still veri young, and those schooling days... when i was still so carefree, and could reali b happi...
isit true the older one gets the more difficult its for one to b truely happi?
its sad.. dun feel like toking to any fren abt this... jus feel like letting someone noe.. i guess sometimes its better to hear from ppl u totally dunno instead of hear from frens.. u can almost know wat ur frens r going to tell u once u complain to them...
sigh... one of my low down days again...
good for u that u are happy!!Originally posted by skinnybeanie:gosh... i m much older than both of u and still finds life lovely.
Have to admit that life do gets more complicated as one age (with work, family, etc) but, hey, u also grows wiser each year and hence able to tackle whatever problems which lies ahead.
Cheer up!
i know pple always says "blessed are the igorants", but iOriginally posted by ~Or|oS|s~:good for u that u are happy!!
wiser may not necessarily b a good thing....
i really think ignorance is a bliss....
i dunno how old u r... but well.. i know i still rather young. but since i was young pple has said i wei lao sian shuai... meaning like physically not old but mentally age first..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:gosh... i m much older than both of u and still finds life lovely.
Have to admit that life do gets more complicated as one age (with work, family, etc) but, hey, u also grows wiser each year and hence able to tackle whatever problems which lies ahead.
Cheer up!
if u r born in '78, then i will be 8 yrs older than u.Originally posted by wuming78:i dunno how old u r... but well.. i know i still rather young. but since i was young pple has said i wei lao sian shuai... meaning like physically not old but mentally age first..
i know life is lovely... but i was jus reflecting.. when was the last time i was realli happi.. and when is the nex time i can realli be happi..?
mani a times nowadays, even when u go out wif frens and such, r u truely happi?
sigh...
Originally posted by the Bear:We all want to be happy... sometimes life deals us lemons.. heck! I'm pretty unhappy at the moment... have spilt my guts out on this forum for the past week
But slowly and surely, if we make the effort to see life for all the beauty it can hold, we can be happy... even today, I'm starting to feel happier... or less sad...
Instead of hibernating, I went out to buy a bunch of books to read, and a Pearl Jam DVD... Eddie Vedder RULES! Think I'll hibernate tomorrowno need to wake up early since I went to Sunset Mass already
so, make an effortno one owes you happiness... the only person that can make you unhappy with yourself is you...
Cheers!
This is our life cycle.. Ppl die.. ppl reborn.. ant the cycles continues.. You live in the world of happiness sadness...Originally posted by wuming78:... and haf almost forgot how to become truely happi...
stil can rem those days when was still veri young, and those schooling days... when i was still so carefree, and could reali b happi...
isit true the older one gets the more difficult its for one to b truely happi?
its sad.. dun feel like toking to any fren abt this... jus feel like letting someone noe.. i guess sometimes its better to hear from ppl u totally dunno instead of hear from frens.. u can almost know wat ur frens r going to tell u once u complain to them...
sigh... one of my low down days again...
Originally posted by skinnybeanie:Very well said.
Glad to hear u r feeling happier already.
well.. most ppl i know know me as a veri happi and carefree person.. and i oso tell them tt to be happi is one of the values of my life... sorta like thought this one thru when i entered jc..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:if u r born in '78, then i will be 8 yrs older than u.
In life, there are bound to be ups and downs, happy and sad moments. It is really up to one to decide whether he/she wanna be happy or not. if u decide u wanna be happy then u should think happy thots and do things tat will make u happy. Wallowing in sadness ain't gonna make life better.
Believe me, i've been thru numerous trials and even thought of ending it all. But i always remember that being alive itself is a beautiful thing and tat make me cheer up and smile![]()
Originally posted by the Bear:I'll continue to love life, love people... although never love another woman as a partner again, I refuse to be unhappy the rest of my life!
I guess I'm healing
I hope she is too....
Originally posted by skinnybeanie:Time will heal all wounds, just as it is healing mine.
It may take a long while, but one day, we will all look back and not be hurt by the memories. Instead, we will thank God, for the other wonderful memories of the relationship
Originally posted by the Bear:yah
something caused me to pop out of serious almost suicidal moping last week... it was a manifestation of my philosophy to love, i.e., love.. and to hell with the consequences...
not to sound overly-religious, but the Priest spoke about that in his homily... it was to the effect: God loved us... and took the consequences of loving us.. without complaints, He went to the cross.
In the face of such love, how can we not be inspired
Where love is, God is
therefore, I'll continue to love.. and damn the consequences!
Haven't been truely happy for a long time; my guess is that there is much more than that.Originally posted by wuming78:well.. most ppl i know know me as a veri happi and carefree person.. and i oso tell them tt to be happi is one of the values of my life... sorta like thought this one thru when i entered jc..
but the fact is, i duno how much of tt is reali true.. yes. i luff veri easily cos i make myself do tt. i get happi easily too cos i wan myself to be.. when i m wif frens i m always happi, cos i dun wan to b otherwise and dun wan them to feel otherwise. but as soon as they leave, i can start to feel the things inside of me come out...
so i start to wonder how happi i realli am inside...
den i will find distractions like work, exercise, etc etc so tt i dun haf tt much free time and energy to think of such things, cos thinking of it wont help anyway ... escapist, but well.. for happiness.
lately i suddenly had alot more free time, and some situation within my life changed tt made me not tt happi.
so i started to question myself again...
i reali am glad for all ur responses cos when i tot of posting my tots here, my first intention is to let it out, my second is hopefully different people will respond to me. i can njoy my anonymity, and get responses from ppl all over and perhaps veri diff frm me, wich i certainly could not wif the frens i haf. and so far, i haf realli met both my intentions... but i mus reali say tt i being a veri stubborn person, when i m down, its veri hard to make me come out and up. i haf to do it myself... so veri sorrie but watever u all said here prob wont help in lifting me up. but i m veri thankful for the sincere responses and sharing. at least i got to know theres somewhere i can turn to to find advises when i wish to seek them while maintaining some dignity and my anonymity.
thanx guys!
sigh...
Let things go... live as da kid U once were... even when ppl look at U wif "dat" eyes or sae behind yr back... rest assured they r actually envious OR even jealous... Coz we r all blinded by da "adult" lives we tot we r supposed to follow... like routine... Live freely is 1 start to true happiness... seek wat U wan, never harbour anything dat can pull U down... But in an adult life, how many can actually acheive dat? we r more concerned wif "making $$$", career, status... etc etc... which r all temporary... when U die, U atke them wif U? tink abt it...Originally posted by wuming78:... and haf almost forgot how to become truely happi...
stil can rem those days when was still veri young, and those schooling days... when i was still so carefree, and could reali b happi...
isit true the older one gets the more difficult its for one to b truely happi?
its sad.. dun feel like toking to any fren abt this... jus feel like letting someone noe.. i guess sometimes its better to hear from ppl u totally dunno instead of hear from frens.. u can almost know wat ur frens r going to tell u once u complain to them...
sigh... one of my low down days again...
Originally posted by skinnybeanie:Great to know tat the Lord loved us and cared for us. And yes, i am inspired by His love for us and glad & relieved to hear that u are too.
God bless!
i remember the days when i was in poly, i can laugh and play non stop with my friends without feeling down.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:if u r born in '78, then i will be 8 yrs older than u.
In life, there are bound to be ups and downs, happy and sad moments. It is really up to one to decide whether he/she wanna be happy or not. if u decide u wanna be happy then u should think happy thots and do things tat will make u happy. Wallowing in sadness ain't gonna make life better.
Believe me, i've been thru numerous trials and even thought of ending it all. But i always remember that being alive itself is a beautiful thing and tat make me cheer up and smile![]()