haven been truely happi for a long time...
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... and haf almost forgot how to become truely happi...
stil can rem those days when was still veri young, and those schooling days... when i was still so carefree, and could reali b happi...
isit true the older one gets the more difficult its for one to b truely happi?
its sad.. dun feel like toking to any fren abt this... jus feel like letting someone noe.. i guess sometimes its better to hear from ppl u totally dunno instead of hear from frens.. u can almost know wat ur frens r going to tell u once u complain to them...
sigh... one of my low down days again...
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i can understand how u feel.......Originally posted by wuming78:... and haf almost forgot how to become truely happi...
stil can rem those days when was still veri young, and those schooling days... when i was still so carefree, and could reali b happi...
isit true the older one gets the more difficult its for one to b truely happi?
its sad.. dun feel like toking to any fren abt this... jus feel like letting someone noe.. i guess sometimes its better to hear from ppl u totally dunno instead of hear from frens.. u can almost know wat ur frens r going to tell u once u complain to them...
sigh... one of my low down days again...
i oso feel the same way u do.....
the older one gets, the more complicated life gets, thus the more difficult it is for one to be truly happy....
seems the only way to be happy is to not expect a lot... to be contended with wat u have but it just seems so hard rite?
yup, understand ur part bt frens oso... which is why irc n forums n chat lines are can flourish....
my low day too...... sigh......... -
gosh... i m much older than both of u and still finds life lovely.
Have to admit that life do gets more complicated as one age (with work, family, etc) but, hey, u also grows wiser each year and hence able to tackle whatever problems which lies ahead.
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good for u that u are happy!!Originally posted by skinnybeanie:gosh... i m much older than both of u and still finds life lovely.
Have to admit that life do gets more complicated as one age (with work, family, etc) but, hey, u also grows wiser each year and hence able to tackle whatever problems which lies ahead.
Cheer up!
wiser may not necessarily b a good thing....
i really think ignorance is a bliss.... -
i know pple always says "blessed are the igorants", but iOriginally posted by ~Or|oS|s~:good for u that u are happy!!
wiser may not necessarily b a good thing....
i really think ignorance is a bliss....
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i dunno how old u r... but well.. i know i still rather young. but since i was young pple has said i wei lao sian shuai... meaning like physically not old but mentally age first..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:gosh... i m much older than both of u and still finds life lovely.
Have to admit that life do gets more complicated as one age (with work, family, etc) but, hey, u also grows wiser each year and hence able to tackle whatever problems which lies ahead.
Cheer up!
i know life is lovely... but i was jus reflecting.. when was the last time i was realli happi.. and when is the nex time i can realli be happi..?
mani a times nowadays, even when u go out wif frens and such, r u truely happi?
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think one's reponsibilities increase when we grow older so tend not to be happier?
happiness is sth u look for and if u're easily contented, guess u shld be very happy ..
try not to think too much lor.. problems come and goes.. look more on e bright side..
if serious, just cry it out n u'll feel better
best way to destress is go exercise ehhe
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if u r born in '78, then i will be 8 yrs older than u.Originally posted by wuming78:i dunno how old u r... but well.. i know i still rather young. but since i was young pple has said i wei lao sian shuai... meaning like physically not old but mentally age first..
i know life is lovely... but i was jus reflecting.. when was the last time i was realli happi.. and when is the nex time i can realli be happi..?
mani a times nowadays, even when u go out wif frens and such, r u truely happi?
sigh...
In life, there are bound to be ups and downs, happy and sad moments. It is really up to one to decide whether he/she wanna be happy or not. if u decide u wanna be happy then u should think happy thots and do things tat will make u happy. Wallowing in sadness ain't gonna make life better.
Believe me, i've been thru numerous trials and even thought of ending it all. But i always remember that being alive itself is a beautiful thing and tat make me cheer up and smile
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We all want to be happy... sometimes life deals us lemons.. heck! I'm pretty unhappy at the moment... have spilt my guts out on this forum for the past week
But slowly and surely, if we make the effort to see life for all the beauty it can hold, we can be happy... even today, I'm starting to feel happier... or less sad...
Instead of hibernating, I went out to buy a bunch of books to read, and a Pearl Jam DVD... Eddie Vedder RULES! Think I'll hibernate tomorrow no need to wake up early since I went to Sunset Mass already 
so, make an effort no one owes you happiness... the only person that can make you unhappy with yourself is you...
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Very well said.
Glad to hear u r feeling happier already.Originally posted by the Bear:We all want to be happy... sometimes life deals us lemons.. heck! I'm pretty unhappy at the moment... have spilt my guts out on this forum for the past week
But slowly and surely, if we make the effort to see life for all the beauty it can hold, we can be happy... even today, I'm starting to feel happier... or less sad...
Instead of hibernating, I went out to buy a bunch of books to read, and a Pearl Jam DVD... Eddie Vedder RULES! Think I'll hibernate tomorrow no need to wake up early since I went to Sunset Mass already
so, make an effort no one owes you happiness... the only person that can make you unhappy with yourself is you...
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This is our life cycle.. Ppl die.. ppl reborn.. ant the cycles continues.. You live in the world of happiness sadness...Originally posted by wuming78:... and haf almost forgot how to become truely happi...
stil can rem those days when was still veri young, and those schooling days... when i was still so carefree, and could reali b happi...
isit true the older one gets the more difficult its for one to b truely happi?
its sad.. dun feel like toking to any fren abt this... jus feel like letting someone noe.. i guess sometimes its better to hear from ppl u totally dunno instead of hear from frens.. u can almost know wat ur frens r going to tell u once u complain to them...
sigh... one of my low down days again...
When you are young.. You are innocent and naive.. You dun th ink too much.. Neither you ponder too much on your life style and so on.. But as you grow old.. things starts to change.. You will have more thoughts for yourself.. and the surrounding environment changes you too!!!
Don't think too much.. Life goes on!! Cheer up
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Guess when one get older, appreciation of little things seems to fade..
Its like, the sight of rainbow will make a kids jump with joy.
A lolipop will make them smile.
A silly joke will make them giggle non stop.
A silly act will make them grinz.
Little things make them happi.
So maybe we should re-learn to appreciate little things in life.. that could add little sparkle n joy to our life...
Personally for me, when i look at the antics of little children, or baby.. it will make me smile.. Atleast for me, its a good start to a day!
look at life in a diff perspective, then u will find joy n happiness in ya way... -
actually, wanted to hibernate, but it rained and the weather was cool.. since it stopped raining and it was still cool, should not waste a good cool day hibernating
I've always figured I'm tough... my heart may be rent asunder, and never put together again, but I'm not going to mope for the rest of my life..
I'll continue to love life, love people... although never love another woman as a partner again, I refuse to be unhappy the rest of my life!
I guess I'm healing
I hope she is too....Originally posted by skinnybeanie:Very well said.
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well.. most ppl i know know me as a veri happi and carefree person.. and i oso tell them tt to be happi is one of the values of my life... sorta like thought this one thru when i entered jc..Originally posted by skinnybeanie:if u r born in '78, then i will be 8 yrs older than u.
In life, there are bound to be ups and downs, happy and sad moments. It is really up to one to decide whether he/she wanna be happy or not. if u decide u wanna be happy then u should think happy thots and do things tat will make u happy. Wallowing in sadness ain't gonna make life better.
Believe me, i've been thru numerous trials and even thought of ending it all. But i always remember that being alive itself is a beautiful thing and tat make me cheer up and smile
but the fact is, i duno how much of tt is reali true.. yes. i luff veri easily cos i make myself do tt. i get happi easily too cos i wan myself to be.. when i m wif frens i m always happi, cos i dun wan to b otherwise and dun wan them to feel otherwise. but as soon as they leave, i can start to feel the things inside of me come out...
so i start to wonder how happi i realli am inside...
den i will find distractions like work, exercise, etc etc so tt i dun haf tt much free time and energy to think of such things, cos thinking of it wont help anyway ... escapist, but well.. for happiness.
lately i suddenly had alot more free time, and some situation within my life changed tt made me not tt happi.
so i started to question myself again...
i reali am glad for all ur responses cos when i tot of posting my tots here, my first intention is to let it out, my second is hopefully different people will respond to me. i can njoy my anonymity, and get responses from ppl all over and perhaps veri diff frm me, wich i certainly could not wif the frens i haf. and so far, i haf realli met both my intentions... but i mus reali say tt i being a veri stubborn person, when i m down, its veri hard to make me come out and up. i haf to do it myself... so veri sorrie but watever u all said here prob wont help in lifting me up. but i m veri thankful for the sincere responses and sharing. at least i got to know theres somewhere i can turn to to find advises when i wish to seek them while maintaining some dignity and my anonymity.
thanx guys!
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Time will heal all wounds, just as it is healing mine.
It may take a long while, but one day, we will all look back and not be hurt by the memories. Instead, we will thank God, for the other wonderful memories of the relationshipOriginally posted by the Bear:I'll continue to love life, love people... although never love another woman as a partner again, I refuse to be unhappy the rest of my life!
I guess I'm healing
I hope she is too.... -
yah
something caused me to pop out of serious almost suicidal moping last week... it was a manifestation of my philosophy to love, i.e., love.. and to hell with the consequences...
not to sound overly-religious, but the Priest spoke about that in his homily... it was to the effect: God loved us... and took the consequences of loving us.. without complaints, He went to the cross.
In the face of such love, how can we not be inspired
Where love is, God is
therefore, I'll continue to love.. and damn the consequences!Originally posted by skinnybeanie:Time will heal all wounds, just as it is healing mine.
It may take a long while, but one day, we will all look back and not be hurt by the memories. Instead, we will thank God, for the other wonderful memories of the relationship -
Great to know tat the Lord loved us and cared for us. And yes, i am inspired by His love for us and glad & relieved to hear that u are too.
God bless!Originally posted by the Bear:yah
something caused me to pop out of serious almost suicidal moping last week... it was a manifestation of my philosophy to love, i.e., love.. and to hell with the consequences...
not to sound overly-religious, but the Priest spoke about that in his homily... it was to the effect: God loved us... and took the consequences of loving us.. without complaints, He went to the cross.
In the face of such love, how can we not be inspired
Where love is, God is
therefore, I'll continue to love.. and damn the consequences! -
Haven't been truely happy for a long time; my guess is that there is much more than that.Originally posted by wuming78:well.. most ppl i know know me as a veri happi and carefree person.. and i oso tell them tt to be happi is one of the values of my life... sorta like thought this one thru when i entered jc..
but the fact is, i duno how much of tt is reali true.. yes. i luff veri easily cos i make myself do tt. i get happi easily too cos i wan myself to be.. when i m wif frens i m always happi, cos i dun wan to b otherwise and dun wan them to feel otherwise. but as soon as they leave, i can start to feel the things inside of me come out...
so i start to wonder how happi i realli am inside...
den i will find distractions like work, exercise, etc etc so tt i dun haf tt much free time and energy to think of such things, cos thinking of it wont help anyway ... escapist, but well.. for happiness.
lately i suddenly had alot more free time, and some situation within my life changed tt made me not tt happi.
so i started to question myself again...
i reali am glad for all ur responses cos when i tot of posting my tots here, my first intention is to let it out, my second is hopefully different people will respond to me. i can njoy my anonymity, and get responses from ppl all over and perhaps veri diff frm me, wich i certainly could not wif the frens i haf. and so far, i haf realli met both my intentions... but i mus reali say tt i being a veri stubborn person, when i m down, its veri hard to make me come out and up. i haf to do it myself... so veri sorrie but watever u all said here prob wont help in lifting me up. but i m veri thankful for the sincere responses and sharing. at least i got to know theres somewhere i can turn to to find advises when i wish to seek them while maintaining some dignity and my anonymity.
thanx guys!
sigh...
From your post, you have friends, work, personal stuff, etc - however, you ain't feeling truely happy deep inside. The real reason is due to two possible reasons.
I) Spiritually, you are empty
II) Emotionally, you are empty.
You feel that when in company, you enjoy it - but the minute you come out of it, sorrow seemed to fill you for some unseen reasons. Generally, this is what people calls it the 'you think too much.' - but I shall say this: 'There is disapointment in life is because there is desire in life. If there is no desire, there will be no disapointment, in turn, there will be simple happiness.'
Cheers -
Let things go... live as da kid U once were... even when ppl look at U wif "dat" eyes or sae behind yr back... rest assured they r actually envious OR even jealous... Coz we r all blinded by da "adult" lives we tot we r supposed to follow... like routine... Live freely is 1 start to true happiness... seek wat U wan, never harbour anything dat can pull U down... But in an adult life, how many can actually acheive dat? we r more concerned wif "making $$$", career, status... etc etc... which r all temporary... when U die, U atke them wif U? tink abt it...Originally posted by wuming78:... and haf almost forgot how to become truely happi...
stil can rem those days when was still veri young, and those schooling days... when i was still so carefree, and could reali b happi...
isit true the older one gets the more difficult its for one to b truely happi?
its sad.. dun feel like toking to any fren abt this... jus feel like letting someone noe.. i guess sometimes its better to hear from ppl u totally dunno instead of hear from frens.. u can almost know wat ur frens r going to tell u once u complain to them...
sigh... one of my low down days again... -
I think I logged off last night already...
Methinks you made a certain grammar error..
the Lord LOVES (not loved) us and CARES (not cared) for us He still does...
And I thank Him each day... for just being aliveOriginally posted by skinnybeanie: Great to know tat the Lord loved us and cared for us. And yes, i am inspired by His love for us and glad & relieved to hear that u are too.
God bless! -
i remember the days when i was in poly, i can laugh and play non stop with my friends without feeling down.Originally posted by skinnybeanie:if u r born in '78, then i will be 8 yrs older than u.
In life, there are bound to be ups and downs, happy and sad moments. It is really up to one to decide whether he/she wanna be happy or not. if u decide u wanna be happy then u should think happy thots and do things tat will make u happy. Wallowing in sadness ain't gonna make life better.
Believe me, i've been thru numerous trials and even thought of ending it all. But i always remember that being alive itself is a beautiful thing and tat make me cheer up and smile
At tat time temper was so good and life is like heaven.
no worries just study and play hard.
till in army, life began to change, years after years, things happened.
conflict bet friends and betray comes. then comes responsibility.
friends become more serious where jokes are no longer funny.
then comes all the realistic and practical things in life.
rejected due to capability and 5c factors.
as we grow, we slowly have our own idea and belief.
things started to be "hard" due to our own set of principles, fraction started.
just like i believe and perceive that this is the gal who i can trust and she is more of a "feeling" type.
but from her choice and belief, time after time, u see cars......
so who can u trust? from wat u feel or see?
so disappoointment sets in.....
losting hope on the ppl around u....
afraid of getting setbacks.....
"Is this wat u all mean by being complicated or just thinked too much?"
but frankly speaking, sometimes joke and laugh just for the sack of making the environment...
wat is truely happy was lost long time back.
perhaps one need new friends and be soften by the other party.
personally been single for quite long...
perhaps need a break.
cheers ppl
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Well, in life there are ups and downs that's why we know wat is "xi, nu, ai, le"...
Recently I also very down, feeling sad over some incidents...
Hope I can be fine and happy soon...
Everyone take care...