Another long distance relationship failure
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last week marked the new status, i single after 10 months of attachment. she tell me all of this in a cold tone which make my heart ache till the max on the phone. sorrie guys and gals that i have to make use of this forum to grumble!
here is my story!
we all started to know each other in australia, that time all of us were study at australia. get to know when my friends and me finished touring mel and syd and back in brishane. at that time, didnt really take notice. but somehow chemistry did place through day of plotluck (dont know if i spell right, it asking u neighours to preparing some dishes or to cooking at u places and eat dinner together) i guess fate do played a part in bring ppl together. after sometime, we were official a pair. that time i agree life is filled up with sweetness and happiness. going to some outing, enjoy the stroll at brishane river.
but then some problem started, another girl appear on the horizon. it was actually my first love, she say she wish to patch up with me. it was then i fall into the darkness of confusion! plus that the fact that she had to study in australia for 5 year for her PHD, as a result i init break up with her. till now i still can rem her expression on her face. i feel guilty! i did tell her about my first love but in the end we were still back together and. i was touched by her love!
from that time onward, our relationship strengthen a lot! and we begin to talk abt our future like meeting our parents, how many childrens we shall have, the type of housing we shall have. at time we did have our share of arugments but soon we would iron it out. and it seem like we strengthen each time when we recovered from our arugment. deep in my heart, i know that she was the one for me in this life. and i begin to bring her home and my parent were very happy with the gf i was with. that time i ready to make a commitment!
when her holiday ended and she was back in aust, i try to make her security when icq, phone call (she call as it cheaper), send card now and then to add spices to the LDR. i wann to make her feel security with a faithful rather than a relationship which is rocky. i try to giver her support in everything she do to reduce her study stress. as she is undergoing a lot of shiting things, like study, friends, housemate and looking for new places. and both of us looking forward for this june holiday when i will fly to australia to spend time with her. and i have even call her dad to seek his advise of some business thingy and it seem like i have pass her parent stage! and soon all hell break lose! she dont sms me that often and she dont return my sms... i was lose! she was so gentle the week b4 and she changed to another person on the phone. i cant feel the gentlness and connection anymore. we had a long talk on the phone and she stated her reason. that was the 5 year of study and she was frustrtured with the relationship. she also say that no other guys was in the picture.
these few days was like hell for me! flashes of image keep appearing on my mind esp night time. memory of everything... card that she send, stated that she will love me 4ever. it all gone.... all gone with the wind...i try to patch back with her but she is having her exam and i dont wish to pester her so much. and i planning to continue on with my trip to australia in end of june. some of u may thing i silly, i shd just recover and moved on. but i thinking to myself "She worth more than an airticket, a $642 buck air ticket can be earned back with 5 OT. and she is the love of my life! and i nt going to let it go so easy. right now my heart is only half dead, what i really wish for is that my heart to be fully alive or fully dead when i left australia. i just wanna to look at her, her eyes, her expression. i just wanna to say the words straight from her mouth even it will shatter my heart into million of pieces." last night i just sm her if she allow me to stay at her place when i at australia and she agree on it. i tot to myself i still got chances. but she sms me to ask me the reason why i going back to austrlia. i tell her the truth and she immediately forbid me to stay over at her side. i guess it normal.
i really hurt inisde when she say it all. i guess i just have to go back to australia to decide. guys and gals, i really feel lousy at such times and i will appreicate if u all dont start to flame me. thank! and anyone with similar exp care to share with me..
thank.....
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*pat pat* i have a friend who was studying in a boarding school in australia straight after her O levels. just 2 months away from graduation, she returned to singapore just becos her boyfren wanted to break up with her.
all i can say is, dont be so sad alright? things wont get any worse from this. Cheer up! *cuddles*
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hmm i oso have an ex gf whom is a hongkie came Sg for her studies when we both met she was having her o levels so we went into a relationship after a few months her results came out & she fail .....
then she went aust to study but after a few months we broke up .... due to the fact both of us has dirfted apart ....wat i can say to u is pick up urself & get a new gf ..... goodluck -
Long distance relation is a true fine example of the effect on relationship IF either one of both parties isn't that committed and put in the equal effort in maintaining this relationship.Originally posted by trams78:last week marked the new status, i single after 10 months of attachment. she tell me all of this in a cold tone which make my heart ache till the max on the phone. sorrie guys and gals that i have to make use of this forum to grumble!
here is my story!
we all started to know each other in australia, that time all of us were study at australia. get to know when my friends and me finished touring mel and syd and back in brishane. at that time, didnt really take notice. but somehow chemistry did place through day of plotluck (dont know if i spell right, it asking u neighours to preparing some dishes or to cooking at u places and eat dinner together) i guess fate do played a part in bring ppl together. after sometime, we were official a pair. that time i agree life is filled up with sweetness and happiness. going to some outing, enjoy the stroll at brishane river.
but then some problem started, another girl appear on the horizon. it was actually my first love, she say she wish to patch up with me. it was then i fall into the darkness of confusion! plus that the fact that she had to study in australia for 5 year for her PHD, as a result i init break up with her. till now i still can rem her expression on her face. i feel guilty! i did tell her about my first love but in the end we were still back together and. i was touched by her love!
from that time onward, our relationship strengthen a lot! and we begin to talk abt our future like meeting our parents, how many childrens we shall have, the type of housing we shall have. at time we did have our share of arugments but soon we would iron it out. and it seem like we strengthen each time when we recovered from our arugment. deep in my heart, i know that she was the one for me in this life. and i begin to bring her home and my parent were very happy with the gf i was with. that time i ready to make a commitment!
when her holiday ended and she was back in aust, i try to make her security when icq, phone call (she call as it cheaper), send card now and then to add spices to the LDR. i wann to make her feel security with a faithful rather than a relationship which is rocky. i try to giver her support in everything she do to reduce her study stress. as she is undergoing a lot of shiting things, like study, friends, housemate and looking for new places. and both of us looking forward for this june holiday when i will fly to australia to spend time with her. and i have even call her dad to seek his advise of some business thingy and it seem like i have pass her parent stage! and soon all hell break lose! she dont sms me that often and she dont return my sms... i was lose! she was so gentle the week b4 and she changed to another person on the phone. i cant feel the gentlness and connection anymore. we had a long talk on the phone and she stated her reason. that was the 5 year of study and she was frustrtured with the relationship. she also say that no other guys was in the picture.
these few days was like hell for me! flashes of image keep appearing on my mind esp night time. memory of everything... card that she send, stated that she will love me 4ever. it all gone.... all gone with the wind...i try to patch back with her but she is having her exam and i dont wish to pester her so much. and i planning to continue on with my trip to australia in end of june. some of u may thing i silly, i shd just recover and moved on. but i thinking to myself "She worth more than an airticket, a $642 buck air ticket can be earned back with 5 OT. and she is the love of my life! and i nt going to let it go so easy. right now my heart is only half dead, what i really wish for is that my heart to be fully alive or fully dead when i left australia. i just wanna to look at her, her eyes, her expression. i just wanna to say the words straight from her mouth even it will shatter my heart into million of pieces." last night i just sm her if she allow me to stay at her place when i at australia and she agree on it. i tot to myself i still got chances. but she sms me to ask me the reason why i going back to austrlia. i tell her the truth and she immediately forbid me to stay over at her side. i guess it normal.
i really hurt inisde when she say it all. i guess i just have to go back to australia to decide. guys and gals, i really feel lousy at such times and i will appreicate if u all dont start to flame me. thank! and anyone with similar exp care to share with me..
thank..... 
You are a great guy, who pursue and work for the kind of relationship you aim to have. Do not let this falter you - instead, it must built you up and you ought to learn and grow from this LDR. LDR is difficult to maintain because it requires EXTRA effort, and not just your normal way of leading a relation and it has to comes from both ways.
Cheers -
hi...
thank for all u advises.
anyway pls wishes me luck as i decide to fly to aust on 29th of this month to get back my ex gf. i will need all the luck and best wishes. i dont know if i will success or not.....
anyway i just go for my ccna exam and pass the exam aldready! -
You need some kind of planning and strategy when you want to ensure your victory. I am not saying you will defintely win her back - but a plan moved can greatly increase your chance of winning. Especially if she has her Moon sign in Aries (touched her enough and she is yours).Originally posted by trams78:hi...
thank for all u advises.
anyway pls wishes me luck as i decide to fly to aust on 29th of this month to get back my ex gf. i will need all the luck and best wishes. i dont know if i will success or not.....
anyway i just go for my ccna exam and pass the exam aldready!
Good luck alright? I wish you well.
Cheers -
hi Yunhaier
u seem to be an expert in horoscope...
can teach me a few tricks?
thank man! -
Hahaha... no I am no expert. However, you could ask Narz or En` too or you can check out HOFS in hereOriginally posted by trams78:hi Yunhaier
u seem to be an expert in horoscope...
can teach me a few tricks?
thank man! -
LOSER!!!!!Originally posted by trams78:last week marked the new status, i single after 10 months of attachment. she tell me all of this in a cold tone which make my heart ache till the max on the phone. sorrie guys and gals that i have to make use of this forum to grumble!
here is my story!
we all started to know each other in australia, that time all of us were study at australia. get to know when my friends and me finished touring mel and syd and back in brishane. at that time, didnt really take notice. but somehow chemistry did place through day of plotluck (dont know if i spell right, it asking u neighours to preparing some dishes or to cooking at u places and eat dinner together) i guess fate do played a part in bring ppl together. after sometime, we were official a pair. that time i agree life is filled up with sweetness and happiness. going to some outing, enjoy the stroll at brishane river.
but then some problem started, another girl appear on the horizon. it was actually my first love, she say she wish to patch up with me. it was then i fall into the darkness of confusion! plus that the fact that she had to study in australia for 5 year for her PHD, as a result i init break up with her. till now i still can rem her expression on her face. i feel guilty! i did tell her about my first love but in the end we were still back together and. i was touched by her love!
from that time onward, our relationship strengthen a lot! and we begin to talk abt our future like meeting our parents, how many childrens we shall have, the type of housing we shall have. at time we did have our share of arugments but soon we would iron it out. and it seem like we strengthen each time when we recovered from our arugment. deep in my heart, i know that she was the one for me in this life. and i begin to bring her home and my parent were very happy with the gf i was with. that time i ready to make a commitment!
when her holiday ended and she was back in aust, i try to make her security when icq, phone call (she call as it cheaper), send card now and then to add spices to the LDR. i wann to make her feel security with a faithful rather than a relationship which is rocky. i try to giver her support in everything she do to reduce her study stress. as she is undergoing a lot of shiting things, like study, friends, housemate and looking for new places. and both of us looking forward for this june holiday when i will fly to australia to spend time with her. and i have even call her dad to seek his advise of some business thingy and it seem like i have pass her parent stage! and soon all hell break lose! she dont sms me that often and she dont return my sms... i was lose! she was so gentle the week b4 and she changed to another person on the phone. i cant feel the gentlness and connection anymore. we had a long talk on the phone and she stated her reason. that was the 5 year of study and she was frustrtured with the relationship. she also say that no other guys was in the picture.
these few days was like hell for me! flashes of image keep appearing on my mind esp night time. memory of everything... card that she send, stated that she will love me 4ever. it all gone.... all gone with the wind...i try to patch back with her but she is having her exam and i dont wish to pester her so much. and i planning to continue on with my trip to australia in end of june. some of u may thing i silly, i shd just recover and moved on. but i thinking to myself "She worth more than an airticket, a $642 buck air ticket can be earned back with 5 OT. and she is the love of my life! and i nt going to let it go so easy. right now my heart is only half dead, what i really wish for is that my heart to be fully alive or fully dead when i left australia. i just wanna to look at her, her eyes, her expression. i just wanna to say the words straight from her mouth even it will shatter my heart into million of pieces." last night i just sm her if she allow me to stay at her place when i at australia and she agree on it. i tot to myself i still got chances. but she sms me to ask me the reason why i going back to austrlia. i tell her the truth and she immediately forbid me to stay over at her side. i guess it normal.
i really hurt inisde when she say it all. i guess i just have to go back to australia to decide. guys and gals, i really feel lousy at such times and i will appreicate if u all dont start to flame me. thank! and anyone with similar exp care to share with me..
thank..... -
Go AUstralia dun commit lar... go and **** up those white big breasted women up-side down... have fun lar! Dun pretend to be so innocent,,, unleash your animal instinct whenever you go abroad HAHAHAAH! Oi brudder you asked for it!
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No advertising!Originally posted by Yunhaier:Hahaha... no I am no expert. However, you could ask Narz or En` too or you can check out HOFS in here 