My heart feels for you - 7 long years ain't a short span of time.Originally posted by BFB:Hi everyone, i'm new here. Just want to share my story with everyone here, maybe u all can help me to move on.
I broke up with my gf of 7 years 2years plus ago. ever since the break up i never been myself again. watever i do and anything i do i don't feel happy at all...... Even i'm luffing and smiling in front of my friend but deep down inside of me i really feels NOTHING. Things r just not the same anymore. 7 years wonderful relationship gone. i should say it's my fault it ended up like that.
it when i just entered army. u know life suxs and i hardly have time for myself. then we both become unhappy with each other over small matters. i also don't know y i'm so easily work up... she also just change her job lah. maybe thats y she's so moody also. then suddenly after one small matter we had a big fight and we just don't contact each other anymore. for about 2 months then i think i have already adjust to my army life then i call her to ask for forgiveness. but she say she's happy with her life now and she want to stay this way. At that point of time i'm really shock and angry. Then till now i still don't know wat to do. now i've just ORD and currently looking for a job. i've got alot of free time to think about wat have happened. and i really REGRET wat i've done. i try everything to be with her again but still failed.
so i advice to all the ppl who have GF/BF chrish wat u have don't do anything stupid or say anything stupid when u r in the HEAT OF THE MOMENT. something which will make u regret of the rest of ur life.
To be frank, i'm fat ugly and poor. And after wat have happened, i've loss all confidance in looking for "TRUE LOVE" already. IT's really a big REGRET of my life. i hope those ppl that see this topic can like to chrish those around u more and learn to be more understanding and patient.
Originally posted by BFB:...To be frank, i'm fat ugly and poor...
can't deny there are girls who only go for looks and money.. just tat there are guys who only go for pretty girls or hot bods.Originally posted by BFB:but sorry if i offend any gals, but to state a fact. Singapore gals now set their standard so high. either u must have money, if not then u must have the looks. i don't really think there's anyone out there who wants someone which is fat, ugly and poor....
i have a few girl friends that go out with rich guys just so that they can showoff their BF and compare them. WAT's this world coming to? gals nowaday would like to go for money and looks rather then someone true to her??? this is y i felt so dispair and hopeless. Is money and looks all that can attract gals?
sorry i may have offended so gals. but wat i saying is true and maybe some of u can give me ur views.
now...now...hart breaks hart but u can stop the pain if u will urself to.Originally posted by DaneIngal:Love sux.![]()
True true.... I will get out of this and be a stronger and better man..... my this post is to remind ppl to teasure those around them. don't take them for granted....Originally posted by MetalGear:If u can't even go thru this, then u have shown to the rest of the world that u have been defeated, beaten down and lost, and for the rest of ur life, life will be pushing you around.
So what if it's 7 or 17 yrs? Yes the emotional attachment is longer and heavier with a longer time frame but the point is still the same, u can't get over it and wanna wander around lifelessly, u have lost life's battle and u will be pushed u around like many pple u see out in the streets. Look into their eyes, look at the situation their in, they have been crushed by life's challenges and physically may look normal, but emotionally and mentally, they are a gonner. U want to be like them? Or u wanna shake urself up, get back on ur feet, start setting goals, start reigniting that passion for life in urself and achieve for greater heights? Do u want to really improve urself and be more self confident? Or do u wanna continue let life push u around like a rock? U go where life pushes u, u become curled up inside like a coward who has lost in life only because of a girl? Come on man!!! There are pple out there who lost their parents, pple who become bankrupt overnite and still have a family to feed! They persevered, stared at reality hard and not let life push them around cause they push and fight back! NOW THAT IS A FIGHTER! Which one are u? FIGHTER or COWARD?
In life, u see 2 types of pple: STRONG, WEAK...
This is the survival of the fittest: Strong will live, weak will die.
'Fundamental Law of Nature'
Qn is: Which one are u?
Hi BFB,Originally posted by BFB:Hi everyone, i'm new here. Just want to share my story with everyone here, maybe u all can help me to move on.
I broke up with my gf of 7 years 2years plus ago. ever since the break up i never been myself again. watever i do and anything i do i don't feel happy at all...... Even i'm luffing and smiling in front of my friend but deep down inside of me i really feels NOTHING. Things r just not the same anymore. 7 years wonderful relationship gone. i should say it's my fault it ended up like that.
it when i just entered army. u know life suxs and i hardly have time for myself. then we both become unhappy with each other over small matters. i also don't know y i'm so easily work up... she also just change her job lah. maybe thats y she's so moody also. then suddenly after one small matter we had a big fight and we just don't contact each other anymore. for about 2 months then i think i have already adjust to my army life then i call her to ask for forgiveness. but she say she's happy with her life now and she want to stay this way. At that point of time i'm really shock and angry. Then till now i still don't know wat to do. now i've just ORD and currently looking for a job. i've got alot of free time to think about wat have happened. and i really REGRET wat i've done. i try everything to be with her again but still failed.
so i advice to all the ppl who have GF/BF chrish wat u have don't do anything stupid or say anything stupid when u r in the HEAT OF THE MOMENT. something which will make u regret of the rest of ur life.
To be frank, i'm fat ugly and poor. And after wat have happened, i've loss all confidance in looking for "TRUE LOVE" already. IT's really a big REGRET of my life. i hope those ppl that see this topic can like to chrish those around u more and learn to be more understanding and patient.
This qoutes reminds me of the thread i post earlier...but still...as yunhaier said...thiis kind of gals oni look for surface love...which is mandatory and doesnt bring u true happiness....in the end u still feel emptiness....Originally posted by BFB:Thanks both of you for ur support. Just feels hopeless sometime. I really wanted to move on but everytime i try i failed. now i don't even dare to think about it now. so dispair and alone i feels.
but sorry if i offend any gals, but to state a fact. Singapore gals now set their standard so high. either u must have money, if not then u must have the looks. i don't really think there's anyone out there who wants someone which is fat, ugly and poor....
i have a few girl friends that go out with rich guys just so that they can showoff their BF and compare them. WAT's this world coming to? gals nowaday would like to go for money and looks rather then someone true to her??? this is y i felt so dispair and hopeless. Is money and looks all that can attract gals?
sorry i may have offended so gals. but wat i saying is true and maybe some of u can give me ur views.
Originally posted by MetalGear:In life, u see 2 types of pple: STRONG, WEAK...
This is the survival of the fittest: Strong will live, weak will die.
'Fundamental Law of Nature'
Qn is: Which one are u?