Getting over...
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How do u know that u have gotten over someone and is ready for a new relationship?
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well tis kinda things depends on urself! if u really love someone and ur heart onli got him then tat means u gotten over the other guy!
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it all depends on urself.. but sometimes a start of a new relationship can help to forget the old one.
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Doen't it matter ???Originally posted by xUe_ReN:How do u know that u have gotten over someone and is ready for a new relationship?
Some ppl take only a few days while some years.
But that should not stop you for getting into new relationship.
Who knows, involving in a new relationship might just erase your previous one without u realising it.
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I dunno also...Originally posted by xUe_ReN:How do u know that u have gotten over someone and is ready for a new relationship?
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what i meant is how should u actually feel if u have gotten over someone??
coz i recently met my ex-bf...
someone whom i really love and broke my heart...
the moment i saw him i dun feel anything...
and i can't look into his eyes anymore... and when i look into his eyes i feel so uncomfortable... how come i will feel this way??
it's that b'coz i have gotten over him?? -
mayb u can know more guys 1st (like me...heex2Originally posted by xUe_ReN:what i meant is how should u actually feel if u have gotten over someone??
coz i recently met my ex-bf...
someone whom i really love and broke my heart...
the moment i saw him i dun feel anything...
and i can't look into his eyes anymore... and when i look into his eyes i feel so uncomfortable... how come i will feel this way??
it's that b'coz i have gotten over him??
) and then decide if u can get over him or not lor... -
of coz it matters...Originally posted by ashgoh:Doen't it matter ??? Some ppl take only a few days while some years.
But that should not stop you for getting into new relationship.
Who knows, involving in a new relationship might just erase your previous one without u realising it.
if i know that i can't get over the ex-bf and i continue to have a new relationship, i wouldn't feel for the new guy...
and when i dun feel for the new guy, the relationship wouldn't last rite? -
there's no fix time in getting over someone.. u know it when life becomes normal..
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u r wrong... mayb the new guy can let u feel happy and forget the old ones.? or even, u can divert ur feelings for the new ones.. lah...Originally posted by xUe_ReN:of coz it matters...
if i know that i can't get over the ex-bf and i continue to have a new relationship, i wouldn't feel for the new guy...
and when i dun feel for the new guy, the relationship wouldn't last rite? -
Its the kind of natural reaction you will have. When you saw this guy/girl you truely hate (She stole your bf, kick your shin or whatever she did, you hated her for it) - the first part of your body that will avoid is your eyes.Originally posted by xUe_ReN:what i meant is how should u actually feel if u have gotten over someone??
coz i recently met my ex-bf...
someone whom i really love and broke my heart...
the moment i saw him i dun feel anything...
and i can't look into his eyes anymore... and when i look into his eyes i feel so uncomfortable... how come i will feel this way??
it's that b'coz i have gotten over him??
Your previous love that hurts you deeply - its within your subconscious. When you meet him again - you can't look at him in his eyes, because when you were together and you did look into his eyes - it was love, however, now its different - you can't muster that kind of love out again, instead when you do look at him - it reminds you of his act and the hurt.
Its not gotten over - its natural body language that you will display.
You will be fine ya?
Cheers -
since u say the kind of love can't be muster out again doesn't that means gotten over??Originally posted by Yunhaier:Its the kind of natural reaction you will have. When you saw this guy/girl you truely hate (She stole your bf, kick your shin or whatever she did, you hated her for it) - the first part of your body that will avoid is your eyes.
Your previous love that hurts you deeply - its within your subconscious. When you meet him again - you can't look at him in his eyes, because when you were together and you did look into his eyes - it was love, however, now its different - you can't muster that kind of love out again, instead when you do look at him - it reminds you of his act and the hurt.
Its not gotten over - its natural body language that you will display.
You will be fine ya?
Cheers
i think i'm fine... been thinking abt this for the past few days...
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Where is over or not is not for me to decide - its you. Free Will; thats what you calls it. Every relation could start anytime you wish - you hold the power of decision and what you going to do with it.Originally posted by xUe_ReN:since u say the kind of love can't be muster out again doesn't that means gotten over??
i think i'm fine... been thinking abt this for the past few days...
What I am saying is the barrier you are facing and explaining in words form thats all.
Its good to ponder - but make sure it doesn't affect your life.
Cheers -
Would you start a new relationship if you have no feeling for that guy ???Originally posted by xUe_ReN:of coz it matters...
if i know that i can't get over the ex-bf and i continue to have a new relationship, i wouldn't feel for the new guy...
and when i dun feel for the new guy, the relationship wouldn't last rite?
you will be hurting to that guy if you start a relationship bcos you pity him. -
i guess its when any news abt him tt u heard means nothing to u at all and when u think back on the memories u smile instead of cry?
to get over a person whom u really gave ur heart to is difficult, but i really think time can play a v big part...juz remember tt there is not such thing as i cannot live w/o him/her...
me also going thru a phase like tt now, trying to get over a guy whom i was deeply in love w/, but guess im still not completely over him yet...but hey...such thing takes time k