PLS READ close friend.. suddenly bcome love help
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we last time were.. talking friends.. dunno how say.. den she starting calling me for the 1st time to chat.. from then onwards.. dunno is i needed a girl to talk to or too bored or dunno wad.. i kinda miss her.. sometiems a lot.. wtf is this? den we like bcome much closer.. i noe its quite impossible between us as i can see she treat me as very very gd FRIENDS..
i start to change my attitude towards her.. like treat her very good.. do a lot of things for her.. start to show tt i care for her.. i dun think she sense it but she noe i quite gd to her.. i tell her every secrets i noe..(my frend 1)lol cos she is those type of kpo girl :X.. den 1 fine day she tell me 1 secret of her which she say only i noe.. i dunno is cos i tell her too much stuff den she pai seh so tell me back something or wad...i kinda miss talkng to her.. she like keep nothing betweeen us.. everythinig i ask her she will tell me.. she jus bought hp.. den b4 tt she ask me her choose model.. like u think tis model nice? nice ar? confirm? i buy hor.. something like tt.. i dunno if all these means something or i think too much.. we tok on fon @ least once a day,, the duration is see how long she can use e fon.. when we talking.. she received sms.. she will jus read out.. i dunno is she prefer to read out or she wanna let me listen.. den she tell me wad ppl msg her.. but online she like a lot of ppl msg her.. den she sometimes nvr reply me too actively..nvr start topic.. sometimes.. she is those type very on wif boys 1.. i noe she also got call other boys n chat but i dunno how often n how long..
am i in love wif her?
how she feels abt me?
Thx for reading my sucky long crapy story wif poor eng standard -
wow y no reply 1
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relax brother trying to reply.. just read it only. gimme a few mins to pen my thoughts.
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good thing u asked those two questions, cos many pple (watever the level of english) fail to state wat they are asking! i guess usually they ask for "comments"
am i in love with her?
no. this would be classified infatuation. or crush. love doesn't blossom online (okok let's not argue about this huh? just in general) and doesn't take this short amount of time (and of course the quality of time spent together).
how she feels abt me?
this one is harder to answer. and unfortunately the best person to answer that, besides of course, herself, is you. what do ur instincts tell u? wat kind of girl is she? maybe u ought to get to know her better b4 u can answer this question. u see, many of her actions could be passed off as just a girl treating you as a normal guy friend, occasionally flirting. maybe it seems like she's telling u everything, but maybe she's not? and even if someone does share alot of their lives with you, it does not have to be with romantic inclinations.
u sound very vexed in ur post. why? what is wrong with a guy liking a girl? if u get to know her better and continue to fall for her, it's not a bad thing rite? heck it's a NATURAL thing, if u ask me. of course u may say, if i like her, and she dun like me back, then how? how? like that lar how!! it's life brother, and it's something we all go thru. of course the hurt and pain isn't something to jump for joy about, but it is a learning process that we all go thru. chasing girls, knowing how to maintain a relationship, knowing how to tactfully handle problems, learning how to live together as a couple etc etc. if life was easy, it'd be boring.
if u like her u should go for it, how u do it is up to ur style, and it's you that she will fall in love with so there's really not much point in asking how to chase her. of course we all know the "standard" things on how to woo a girl, and there's tonnes of this online for u to read up if u so desire. personally i dun bother.
one thing to add should u decide to chase her. SHOW her u like her and care for her, don't just tell her. telling someone straight in the face "hey i like u, can i chase u" to me is just pressurising, and redundant. if u show it, and she's got half a brain (or heart) she'll know and feel it. if she can't then she's probably not worth it. btw, girls are MORE receptive to guys liking them then guys are to gals liking them.
ok enuff for now... keep us updated! and dun be so sad!! -
Originally posted by jOhO:
how would u noe its infatuation... after all they are good friends, i presume would be some time liaoz.. plus.. he probably has seen her flaws and stuff. yet still likes that person alot. maybe it could be the real deal
good thing u asked those two questions, cos many pple (watever the level of english) fail to state wat they are asking! i guess usually they ask for "comments"
[b]am i in love with her?
no. this would be classified infatuation. or crush. love doesn't blossom online (okok let's not argue about this huh? just in general) and doesn't take this short amount of time (and of course the quality of time spent together).
how she feels abt me?
this one is harder to answer. and unfortunately the best person to answer that, besides of course, herself, is you. what do ur instincts tell u? wat kind of girl is she? maybe u ought to get to know her better b4 u can answer this question. u see, many of her actions could be passed off as just a girl treating you as a normal guy friend, occasionally flirting. maybe it seems like she's telling u everything, but maybe she's not? and even if someone does share alot of their lives with you, it does not have to be with romantic inclinations.
u sound very vexed in ur post. why? what is wrong with a guy liking a girl? if u get to know her better and continue to fall for her, it's not a bad thing rite? heck it's a NATURAL thing, if u ask me. of course u may say, if i like her, and she dun like me back, then how? how? like that lar how!! it's life brother, and it's something we all go thru. of course the hurt and pain isn't something to jump for joy about, but it is a learning process that we all go thru. chasing girls, knowing how to maintain a relationship, knowing how to tactfully handle problems, learning how to live together as a couple etc etc. if life was easy, it'd be boring.
if u like her u should go for it, how u do it is up to ur style, and it's you that she will fall in love with so there's really not much point in asking how to chase her. of course we all know the "standard" things on how to woo a girl, and there's tonnes of this online for u to read up if u so desire. personally i dun bother.
one thing to add should u decide to chase her. SHOW her u like her and care for her, don't just tell her. telling someone straight in the face "hey i like u, can i chase u" to me is just pressurising, and redundant. if u show it, and she's got half a brain (or heart) she'll know and feel it. if she can't then she's probably not worth it. btw, girls are MORE receptive to guys liking them then guys are to gals liking them.
ok enuff for now... keep us updated! and dun be so sad!! [/b] -
thx for all ur precious replies
i am feeling better now.. later if she dun come online i go call her thx
think nxt time got tis type of prob mus type shorter.. all lazy to read